by Radhika Vaz
My name is Radhika Vaz, and I was born on November 8, 1973, in Mumbai, India. As an Indian comedian and writer, my life has been dedicated to one simple mission: making people laugh while challenging everything they think they know about what it means to be a "proper" Indian woman.
I grew up as the only child of my parents, a product of what I like to call "mixed breeding." From childhood, I knew I was different. I spent my early years wishing I could change everything about myself, including my parents.
One of the defining experiences of my youth was my chronically delayed puberty and the self-esteem issues that accompany a flat chest. These experiences, while painful at the time, would later become gold mine material for my comedy. I learned early that the most uncomfortable truths often make for the funniest stories.
The obvious thing about me, as I've often said, is that I just don't have the "body or heart" to be a prissy little lady. This realization would shape everything that came after.
Before comedy found me, I worked as an advertising executive in Chennai. I also have my master's degree in advertising from Syracuse University, New York – a credential that sounds impressive until you realize I was destined for something completely different.
The turning point came when I decided to take an improvisational theatre class. This decision changed everything. As I've said many times, this helped me start off as both a performer and a writer. I trained at Groundlings School in Los Angeles and Improvolution in New York, learning the craft that would define my career.
My journey into stand-up comedy began with a simple realization: one of the first rules in comedy is to approach the obvious. For me, the obvious was that I was never going to fit into conventional expectations of Indian womanhood – and that was perfectly fine by me.
I'm considered one of the pioneers of the stand-up movement in India, though I never set out with that goal. I just wanted to make people laugh and maybe make them think a little bit in the process. My comedy uses jokes to talk about real-life issues that matter: social issues, gender norms, and everything in between.
My comedic inspirations include Patrice O'Neal and Bill Hicks – comedians who weren't afraid to push boundaries and challenge audiences. They taught me that comedy could be both hilarious and meaningful.
My breakthrough came with my one-woman show "Unladylike: The Pitfalls of Propriety". The show hilariously explores taboo and everyday subjects close to women's hearts and bodies. I created a character called "Ms. Vaz" who refrains from using vulgar language but somehow manages to get to the bottom of everything.
The show includes an irreverent take on Indian expectations about virgin brides, fake orgasms, and how women will say anything to get a man between the sheets. It was controversial, honest, and exactly what I wanted to say about the ridiculous expectations placed on women.
In 2014, I performed in New York and then toured Indian cities including Mumbai, Chennai, Bangalore, Kochi, Gurgaon and Delhi with my act "Older. Angrier. Hairier" – a title that perfectly captured how I was feeling about life and comedy at that time.
My shows have sold-out in New York, Los Angeles, and all major Indian cities. What I love most about comedy is that it's not age-sensitive – you can get better with experience, and I certainly have.
Taking my comedy to the page, I wrote "Unladylike: A Memoir", which became a wildly original and humorous account of growing up as an Indian woman.
The memoir spans four decades of my life, covering everything from childhood stories about wishing I could change everything about myself to my chronically delayed puberty and beyond. I didn't pull any punches – the book covers sensitive subjects and difficult phases in a woman's life like teenage woes, losing virginity, and the desperation to get married.
The Unladylike book tour started in Mumbai and traveled to Delhi and Bengaluru, allowing me to connect with readers who appreciated my honest, no-holds-barred approach to storytelling.
Beyond stand-up and writing, I've also worked in television and web content. I'm the co-creator of the web series "Shugs & Fats", which allowed me to explore storytelling in a different medium.
I've also appeared in projects like "The Triumph of William Henry Harrison" (2010) and "Bronx Paradise" (2010), showing my range as both a performer and creator.
My work has gained significant recognition over the years. I've been featured in Vogue's 'The Power of 50' and am a frequent guest on NDTV and Radio One. I'm also a columnist for The Times of India, where I continue to share my perspectives on life, comedy, and society.
I'm widely recognized as this generation's feminist voice and one of the most well-recognized stand-up comedians with an international following. But here's the thing about the "feminist" label – I wasn't raised with any consciousness of what feminism was. I just lived my life authentically, and apparently, that was feminist enough.
Today, I live in New York, USA, though my roots remain deeply connected to Mumbai. This dual existence gives me a unique perspective on both cultures, and I use this vantage point to comment on everything from cultural expectations to gender roles.
As I've often said, I'm regarded as a feminist figurehead in the Indian comedy scene, but I prefer to think of myself as someone who just refuses to be told how to behave. The comedy world, like many industries, has its male power centers, but I've never let that stop me from saying exactly what I want to say.
What does it mean to be "unladylike"? For me, it means refusing to conform to arbitrary rules about how women should behave, speak, or think. It means being honest about the messy, complicated, funny reality of being human – especially being a woman in a world that constantly tells you how to be "proper."
My comedy and writing tackle everything society doesn't want women to talk about openly. From fake orgasms to virgin bride expectations, I've made a career out of saying the unsayable with humor and honesty.
At 51, I continue to perform, write, and challenge audiences around the world. The great thing about being older, angrier, and hairier is that you stop caring about what people think and start focusing on what really matters: truth, humor, and connecting with people who appreciate both.
My journey from Mumbai to New York, from advertising executive to comedian, from proper lady to proudly unladylike woman, continues every day. Comedy gave me a voice, writing gave me a platform, and being unladylike gave me the freedom to use both however I wanted.
You can follow my ongoing unladylike adventures at bohiney.com, where I continue to share my perspectives on comedy, life, and everything in between – probably while being completely inappropriate and loving every minute of it.
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