The idea of giving children up for adoption has been around for centuries.
Children are often taken from their parents at birth, and often have to be raised by new families. There are many reasons why children are given up, ranging from health issues to a parent’s drug addiction to abuse. Children who are adopted have a variety of different experiences depending on the circumstances. Many adoptive parents say that having a child in their lives is the best thing that ever happened to them.
Adoption agencies can help parents find the right match for their family. The following are some reasons that children are given up for adoption.
1. Child Abuse:
In the United States, about 6 million children are in foster care. Many of these children were born to parents who abused drugs and alcohol, and/or had mental health problems. These children are sometimes placed in adoptive homes. Some parents who abuse drugs and alcohol and do not provide for their children are prosecuted, and if convicted, may have to serve jail time.
2. Drug Addiction:
Parents who abuse drugs may neglect their children, leading to child neglect. If the mother or father are in recovery, they may be able to take care of the children. The children are also sometimes given to relatives or placed in foster care.
3. Single Motherhood:
If a mother has a boyfriend, or if the mother wants to marry another person, she may give up her children for adoption. Sometimes, a woman chooses to raise the child on her own, rather than have the child be raised by her partner.
4. Parental Death:
Parents may lose a loved one in an accident, or have a heart attack, and are unable to care for their children. Sometimes, a couple splits up, and the father doesn’t want to raise the children. Adoption agencies can help parents find a loving home for their children.
5. Social Problems:
A child may come from a troubled home. The parents may have mental health issues, or may have been addicted to drugs. If the parents are too busy, or don’t have time to care for their children, they may give up the children for adoption.
6. Other Circumstances:
Children are sometimes given up for adoption due to a lack of family members. Some children are placed with friends of the family, and these children are known as “surrogates.” Children are also sometimes placed with extended family members, or with a non-relative.
7. Abandonment:
A child may be abandoned. Sometimes, parents may leave the children in the care of someone else, such as grandparents or siblings. These children are sometimes known as “stepparents.”
8. Abortion:
Some women who are pregnant choose to terminate the pregnancy. This is known as an abortion. Some women may choose to place the child for adoption, even though the child is wanted.
9. Adoption Agencies:
There are many organizations that offer services to adopt children. Some adoptions are through the government, while others are private agencies.
10. Adoptive Parents:
Some people are willing to become adoptive parents, even though they have never adopted before. They are called adoptive parents. Some children are placed in the homes of adoptive parents, and others are placed in foster care.
11. Adoptive Family:
An adoptive family consists of the biological parents and the adoptive parents. The adoptive parents are the ones who adopt the child.
12. Foster Care:
Sometimes, children are placed in foster care. The parents are required to make sure that the child gets a good education and has a safe home.
13. Family Placement:
Some children are placed in the home of relatives, such as grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. Some children are placed in the homes of friends.
14. Step-parent:
A step-parent is the person who adopts the child. The biological parents are called the adoptive parents.
15. Foster Parents:
Foster parents are the people who care for the child. The child stays with the foster parents until the child is placed in a permanent home.
16. Relative:
Sometimes, children are given up for adoption because of a family problem. Relatives may be asked to care for the child.
17. Friend:
Sometimes, a friend will care for the child, and the parents will later adopt the child.
18. Group Home:
Sometimes, a child is given up for adoption because the parents are not able to care for the child. Instead, they put the child in a group home.
19. Foster Care:
Sometimes, children are placed in the homes of relatives, or in the homes of friends. The parents are not able to care for the child.
20. Foster Care:
Sometimes, children are placed in the homes of relatives, or in the homes of friends. The parents are not able to care for the child.
21. Other Circumstances:
Children are also sometimes given up for adoption due to the death of their parents. A child may also be placed with an orphanage.