Parents and children

“Your greatest accomplishment may not be something you do, but someone you raise.”

—    Andy Stanley

Parents often need that time out, not the child; nothing the kid is doing wrong. Never strike or hit a tiny, defenseless person. It does not take much to hurt a child; why try to? Could you show them, not criticize them? Would I allow a stranger to treat my child like I do? If the answer is no, be a better parent.

I encourage parents to be patient, compassionate, and supportive. A child thrives in a loving and safe environment to grow and develop. This includes parents being mindful of their behavior and not venting their frustrations on their children.

Instruct your children well with love and understanding of the world. Discipline means to teach—to be a disciple. Please do not be hard on your children because the world is harsh to toughen them up. The world is already hard enough. They get that enough. Their home needs to be a place of safety and love. Educate them on how to survive on their own instead. Be your child’s rock and fortress—do not give them your anger or punishment.

Proper communication without anger is imperative to raising healthy adults. Do not scold a child. They will make mistakes. They are learning how to be human. And learn from watching others, mostly you. Never strike or hit a defenseless child. It damages a child’s psyche to have the person in charge of their care and well-being hurt them. It’s your job to show them that messing up is okay. And not be afraid of failure or challenges.