October 9
I decided to leave Mamorwa for early for various reasons. I was planning on staying there for one month, but I soon realized that one month is a long time, let alone one week. The day before I left on October 2, the Danish guy Lucas, accidentally hit Pablodellacruz, the eight year old in the head with a manchette. Needless to say I was emotionally overwhelmed by witnessing this event, and filled with some anger after trying to patch up Pablo's severed ear (thankfully it was only his ear). Since the family rejected most influence from the modern world, such as social media, drugs, music, cities and even hospitals, crying Pablo who I insisted needed stitches, was simply dismissed and given a ritual by the Shaman. Also, I felt like I needed to go back to civilization from being practically isolated for a week. Overall my experience living with a traditional Arhuacos family was a very special experience, and when I departed I bought some coffee from the farm, along with two mochilas bags that the mother knitted by hand.
I'd like to share some of my meditations from this retreat:
Some values are indeed superior in Western culture, such as the abolishing of the patriarchy. In this Arhuacos family, the father is not only the spirtual leader shaman, but also the "president" of the chiefdom, while the wife stays at home and only cooks. The Shamon is also 44 and his wife 27 with 5 kids.
The children there, particularly Pablodellacruz and Loyiana, have extraordinary competence and vast skills. Without living in the modern world of technology, other skills are honed that start a very young age. The children are very hard workers and led all of the volunteer work. Even though it may seem like a form of child labor, getting kids to be "useful" and give them structure rather than letting them run wild all time, seems to give them an aroma of joy that you wouldn't find in the modern world.
Be fearless, don't hesitate. Going up to mountains in the middle of the night by myself and jumping in the cold river taught me that there is literally nothing to be afraid of, unless you're being chased down by a bear.
Never undermine peoples individual sovereignty based off trivial reasons. View yourself highly along with other people.
It was refreshing to live with a culture that worships the earth rather than an imaginary fairytale. The shaman told me that everything is alive and everything has a soul. During my meditations, he told me to be awake and pay attention to feel the forces of nature: the wind, sounds of birds and the river and slowly breathing with slow thinking. He gifted me these two bamboo material which the same substance for the head of their broom sticks. The purpose of the material, which was blessed by the shaman, is to sweep and clean the inside of your casa which is your soul. Any bothersome personal or familial history, because the soul is not only personal but a continuation of generations, needs to be swept and cleaned so that everyday life does not have a cause for suffering. Clean and build your casa, your soul, personal and familia. The Arhuacos religion is a practical religion indeed, that is similar to the teachings of Buddhism, which is known as the most practical religion due to meditation and seeking and destroying the causes of suffering, such as the four noble truths: the truth of suffering, the truth of the cause of suffering, the truth of cessation of suffering and the truth of the path of the cessation of suffering.
"If only we could pull out our brain and use only our eyes." - Pablo Picasso
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I've been living in Palomino for the past week, a small beach town with only dirt roads. When I first arrived I stayed in a beach hostel, but I found the tourists and partying too much for me. At the same time, its interesting to connect with other tourists from around the world. I also got to see Oscar, my friend I met in Barichara again. Now I'm staying in a little bamboo shack just outside the town for the tranquiliy. An Aussie enlightened me recently that the Lost City is closed for all of October, due to a ritual or natural conservation. Seeing the Lost City is necessary for research, so I have no choice but to wait until November. I may stay in Palomino for a while longer, or go to one of the big cities. My friend from Turkey may meet me here so I will give some time and let nature unfold.