Anatomy of A Practice

Those who write or talk about spirituality often speak of things like ritual, meditation, awe and wonder, ethics, philosophy, practice, ego, non-attachment, science, virtue, religious experience, compassion, and more. While many of these seem beneficial or important, it may be difficult to know how they all relate to one another. How do these pieces fit together into a whole system or practice?

To see our practice as a system, we need to begin by looking at the nature of that thing for which it is designed: the human being. A human is a natural entity – both a part of Nature and having its own objective nature, living in an objective environment. This is a world of consequences. Therefore, ‘how best to live’ is a matter of engineering. That is, the engineering of our subjective experience, our habits, our character, and our life so as to yield flourishing happiness.

A practice should give one a sense of progression. This is why it is often referred to as a path. We should have an idea of where we want to go. As the Roman philosopher Seneca said, if one does not know what harbor they are sailing to, no wind is favorable1. There should be a feeling that we are in a different place today than we were last year, and will be in a different place next year than we are today.

While all of our paths may intersect on many important and helpful landmarks, each person’s path is unique and must be allowed to unfold naturally. It is not linear and it isn’t a race, but more like a growing tree. Even more important, only you can walk your path. The experience of proceeding along in the practice is the benefit.

We can look at this as a system for building or forming our character in a consciously directed way. All of us have an essential nature - whether we call that the ‘spirit of us’, or our character, personality, etc. It arises out of a general human nature, but takes on a much more specific form in each individual. That character is the result of some very baseline traits provided by nature (DNA) but, in very large part, grown out of the sum of our experiences2. So, whether we decide to take on a spiritual practice or not, we are spiritually transforming all the time thanks to these experiences.

In this way, our experiences work somewhat like a natural selection upon our character. Spiritual practice then, could be considered more like artificial selection. That is, in the same way directed breeding programs move species into specific forms more quickly than natural evolution, so too does a consciously designed and implemented spiritual practice direct our character into a specified direction more efficiently than the formative effects of our haphazard experiences in life.

When we decide to take on a spiritual practice, we are grabbing the reins of our own nature and taking charge of who we will be. Spiritual practice is like opening the back panel, voiding the warranty, and changing our root operating system. It is serious business and, if done wrong, can lead to serious consequences. If done right, it can lead to wisdom, enlightenment, and flourishing.

In this sense, taking on a spiritual practice can be liberating and empowering. This is why Epictetus described those without such development as slaves. How can we truly be free if we are directed by the whims of our emotions, ignorance, and unexamined impulses?

Part of the task of this book will be to explain in more detail just how a practice can affect the character in this manner and how that leads to flourishing. For now, let’s consider of what a well-rounded spiritual practice consists. It would be good to consider your approach to these seven elements as you build your practice: