Growth periods come at different times in our lives. When the time comes though unexpected or unplanned it's the best time to learn hardships and struggles. Why? Because challenges don't break us. They make us. As an overweight teen and young adult weighing more than 410 pounds, I had my insecurities. Self-doubt and fear will be the killer of many dreams. I heard NO a lot. It held me back until I learned NO meant "Next Opportunity". That's why I became a parent. A street parent that is. I give back to my community which is a part of me. I help young African Americans and other minority groups to be better & beyond become gritty, set goals, and give it their all.