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We highly recommend FAMILY LIFE ministry (see website embedded below) for all marriage and family topics as a comprehensive support resource founded on biblical principles.  They offer a collection of articles and podcasts that provide everything from encouragement to dealing with traumatic events.  If you are looking for a place to start, pick up The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman.  It will change your view of all relationships and soften your heart to receive God's wisdom.