Male Confidence Meets Female Resistance

A word on playing nice with others.

There are times when we all need to know when to back off. I certainly don't condone abusing women, or forcing anything on them that they don't want. Creating attraction is the mature way to win her affection.

Mixed Signals

Girls and guys both send out mixed signals. We both play the take away game.

When a guy sends out mixed signals, it's to attract her. He'll get her going sexually, then walk away.

When a girl sends out mixed signals, it's to resist him. She'll fail to acknowledge something you did, or pretend like she's not pleased with FriendFinder .com review something, or just not impressed. She needs to see if he gets all emotional or stays calm.

Just keep doing what you want to do. And she'll be a little more attracted.

Be Direct With Her.

Let her know you're interested in her as more than just a friend.

Reveal the emotions you have for her.

Don't be ashamed of your feelings!

It's not just what you say to her, it's how you feel about what you say to her.

Bad boys are attractive to women because they let their emotions guide their actions.

Some guys are always walking on eggshells around women.

Don't get all hung up on what she might or might not do.

Just say what you want to say to her, and do what you want to do with her!

You can only control your actions, not her reactions.

So focus on what you can control.

Girl Game.

Masculine energy is supposed to be the active energy in a relationship, I'll grant you that.

You should expect the man to initiate, most of the time. Although, aroused girls do initiate!

Girl Game is all about looking good, staying fit, being open, available, responsive, reacting, reciprocating interest, caring, trusting, accepting, rejection, resistance, saying no, finding fault and competence in a male prospect, letting his emotions guide your actions, and loving.

A girl's feminine energy is the responsive energy and it is very powerful even though to girls, it's no big deal.

Men really like it! Well most of it anyway. We like the good looking, fit, open, interested, caring, trusting, accepting, positively asiandate.com review responding, loving and being available parts. We usually have problems with the negative reacting, resisting, rejecting, saying no and finding fault parts.

Resistance is the active part of girl game.

Learn to welcome female resistance. Without her resistance you can't show her your abilities to get what you want. You'll notice some women cringe when they give you resistance. I know I have. They don't always like doing it!

But they do it to see what kind of man you are. To see if you'll calmly and competently just keep focused on doing whatever you want to do with her, even with the added pressure of her giving you some resistance or mixed signals. Do that and she will definitely want to know more about you! Why?

Because you've proven that your confidence is based on competence. That you are an alpha male who knows what he wants, and knows how to get it!

You don't get all nervous and start apologizing for what you're feeling and doing, like an emotionally weak beta male would do. You do what you want to do. And you're cool with that!

Her resistance gives you the opportunity to display the qualities and competencies that make you such a confident man. By offering this proof about who you are, you'll peak her interest in you and she'll start chasing you!

The pull of attraction and the push of resistance is completely normal and has to happen between a man and a woman. That is what "The Game" is all about!

Pulling/attracting takes some skill because you need to really be in touch with what you feel about women and what you feel for this particular girl.

Pushing/resisting takes some skill for the girl to do without causing offense. This may surprise you, but most women don't always like to resist a potentially high quality man. But, she has to!

The tension caused by the pull and the push will bring the two of you together. She knows how difficult this is for you, and when you just handle it with no problem, then she'll know you are unique among men. And she is right!

Don't be offended, she's giving you the rare opportunity to prove how masterfully you handle things. And when you do, she'll be more attracted to you. So just be yourself, keep your eyes on the prize, and know you've got this!

Resistance and Attraction - Role Reversal Loop.

When you break rapport or walk away, you're playing the resistance game. When she shows interest and chases you, she's playing the attraction game. This completes the loop that starts with male attraction and female resistance.

Man accepts girl, girl accepts man.

Connection made!

Make it fun.

You will find that the polarity between attraction and resistance will always be there between you and your girl. So if you want her to keep thinking of you as her attractive man, you'll be playing this game for the rest of your life.

So keep it fun.

Girl game is very important. Resistance (101)

So why are most guys not players in the resistance part of "the game"?

Because, they think resistance is a sign that she's rejecting them.

But, here's the real point of it all, true confidence comes from a sense of competence.

So she has to test that male confidence. Plain and simple.

She's not being mean, she resists to see how he handles the pressure.

How else will she know that his confidence is based on something real?

Hot Guy (101)

Being confident makes you the hot guy every woman wants.

You will be desired by women just like hot girls are desired by men.

But, women can't see your hotness, like we can see theirs.

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You have to be strong and stable enough to let her go in and find it!

We both probe each other, just in different ways.

You let her in, she lets you in.

Yes, it's that important!

Attraction vs. Resistance.

It's not a battle. It's just simply a polarity issue.

Masculine Dominance Meets Feminine Submissiveness.

The give and take creates the attraction and connection between the man and the woman.

At times the polarity can temporarily turn into feminine dominance and male submissiveness.

She'll display her confidence now and then, by taking the lead on occasion.

Women know that being sexually assertive is sexy.

She wants to feel sexy by acting sexy.

She can be passively sexy looking, and also, assertively seductive. That way she gets to experience being physically attractive and sexually dominant. That is very sexy to women!

Most men can be sexually dominant. But, being physically attractive isn't a huge concern for most guys. Because women really aren't turned on by a man's body, like women's bodies turn us on.

On Being a Sexy Gentleman.

Now here's the really tough part for me as a man. And that is having patience!

When I first meet a girl, I've found that the only way I can talk with women I like, without coming off as a total sex maniac, is to patiently open her with mostly platonic (non-sexual) conversation. Just talk about what she's doing, what she's wearing, stuff like that. Touch her with a handshake (non-sexual touching). And as the conversation progresses I spice it up by mentioning something sexy, and to accentuate something I said, I'll touch her in increasingly sexually charged ways.

Surely if she's enjoying being with a man that's interested in her and is not afraid to be a man in her presence, and I'm escalating toward having sex, she'll interact with me on that level. If it makes her feel connected and wanted when I touch her, she'll let me know by mirroring what I'm doing to her. I rub her leg, she rubs mine.

Patience is a virtue! And it is attractive!

Turning Her On.

Something most guys don't know is that girls who like you, might never sleep with you. But a girl who is turned on by you will try to get you into bed with almost no further effort on your part. She doesn't have to like you, to want to have sex with you. But if she's turned on, and chasing you, it's easy to get her into bed.

Most of the problems women have with men is when the man is incapable of turning them on. If I find there are roadblocks to me turning a woman on, I'm introducing myself to the next girl. Why waste my valuable time. There has to be good things happening for me to stay with her.

She gets turned on, good! She doesn't. Oh well. Gotta move on!

Well, I'm certain that you found some helpful tips in this article.

Put them into action, it'll change the way women see you and react to you.

So don't just sit there feeling better about yourself.

Get out there are start dating hotter women.

Cheers.

This article is intended to be applicable to men and women.

So girls, you are acting naturally when you resist men.

This article explains to men what resistance is and what it isn't. And how to deal with it like a man.

Resistance is not rejection.

Men have to see things to be aroused. Women have to know things to be aroused. Generally, that's just the way it is.

As you have seen though, occasionally guys have to take a gamble on resisting girls, and we too risk losing.

So Cheers to you girls. Keep playing your part.

The more guys and girls this article reaches, the better.

So tell your friends.

We all need an overview of the male - female interaction ("Game") from the standpoint of how men are expected to approach an interaction, and how women are expected to approach it as well.