My Efforts

Time Invested

I spend what seems to be a near-endless amount of time on doing this. I'm not really a "sex worker," as you guys may or may not be aware. I mean by technicality, that's the definition. But my perspective on it is more that it's a hobby, and to keep it feeling less transactional, I tend to enforce that "you're just buying me a cup of coffee." Even though, obviously, I'm not sending you anything if you don't 😅 but what people might not understand is HOW MUCH time it takes to do what I do. The women who do this - it's like a second job.

Every week I put in 40 hours at my day job, and on top of that I monitor and (try to) reply to anyone that sends me a message. Sometimes this can get overwhelming. Like if I post something sultry, I'll get a TON of messages, and I love that! I love being told I'm pretty or hot, but I also have this sense of obligation to respond, and with my knack for not giving short answers.. well, this takes even more time. Even just writing this article out is taking a while hahaha. But let me tell you a little bit about what I do for just a simple 5 picture photo set...

One Set

When I want to make a set, I have so many things to do. I have to style my hair, do my makeup, pick an outfit, get into the outfit (pick another if it doesn't fit)... Then I have to charge my camera, find a memory card, set up a backdrop area, set up the camera, post, take the photos.. (You still with me??) Next I have to upload them to my computer, pick my favorites, adjust the lighting and color, then export them and touch them up more professionally. This can take 15 mintues per photo. Sometimes I stylize them and build a cute little themed template, etc. And if that all wasn't bad enough, I then take the time to send each photo individually to each person one at a time, at their preferred pace.

If that sounds like a lot, that's because it is 😅 It's something I love to do, so I do it. But there are two schools of thought I have when thinking about this kind of thing.

In Demand?

On one hand, there are people that don't want them. They think they're "too pricey" because another girl sells for less. And I'm happy for her of course, I hope every girly gets all the sales they need and then some. But the tremendous amount of effort that goes into this for a "no thanks" is a bummer. Maybe people don't know what the photos'll look like. Maybe they don't know what's in them (like what parts of my body?). Maybe it's an issue with my face being excluded, I don't know. But I'd rather field some questions, it just sucks when someone's like "here's 5 dollars, now show me that butt holeeee" cause it's like.. sir 😂

But on the other hand, I can't be appreciative enough for the people that do send me enough coffee money to afford a set. Especially the nicer ones, like the Cave and Alchemy sets. The last thing I want to do is sit here and complain about the people that shun my work or devalue it, and not absolutely fawn over the people that did invest 😍 Because I adore it SO so so so much. If you're reading this and you've purchased even one set of mine.. Thank you. From the bottom of my tits. Also just to gauge who's listening, click here. Like I was saying though, it fills me with so much energy and happiness when someone likes my stuff 🥺

Some fellas just pop into my inbox to tell me how horny they are all day and like.. I want to help, but the sheer volume dictates, perhaps I should prioritize the people who have ever sent me anything first. Second, prioritize the people that have sent me something more recently next, then finally whoever I currently need to send stuff to takes the top spot 👀 Like if I have 5 minutes to reply, nudes are getting sent first 😅 But I'm rambling at this point, I just wanna say, please PLEASE consider investing in me if you haven't already. I put a TONNNN of energy, like probably 30 more hours a week into this stuff. The photos, videos, flirting, tweeting, this website. Even 5 bucks for a coffee tells me what I do isn't for nothing 🫶