Pride Month is a month-long observance in celebration of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer people—and the history, culture, and contributions of these people and their communities.
It is not limited to people with these sexualities or gender identities. Pride Month also celebrates and is celebrated by those with a range of other identities considered outside of the cishet (cisgender heterosexual) mainstream.
The observance of Pride Month (and earlier events like Gay Pride Day) traces back to a parade held in New York City in 1970 to mark the one-year anniversary of what became known as the Stonewall Uprising. This event, sometimes referred to simply as Stonewall, started on June 28, 1969, at the Stonewall Inn, a New York City bar frequented by gay and gender-nonconforming people (at a time when terms like LGBTQ didn’t yet exist).
It began with a police raid on the bar—which at the time was a common occurrence supported by discriminatory laws. Police arrested several people, including gay people, drag queens, and transgender activists Marsha Johnson and Sylvia Rivera. Many of them resisted, sparking protests that lasted for the next several days, during which there were many incidents of police violence against the protesters. Though such resistance had occurred before, the Stonewall protests are widely thought to have increased the momentum of the movement for equal rights for members of LGBTQ communities.
Today, many Pride Month events are a combination of celebration and activism during which people show pride in identities that have made them and continue to make them the target of marginalization and oppression, including through discriminatory laws.
excerpted from dictionary.com
Here are some read alouds and book recommendations for the month of June. These are great titles for learning together, inspiring thoughtful conversation and celebrating acceptance, differences, love and PRIDE!
Book descriptions borrowed from Mayasmart.com, readbrightly.com, spl.org
This book shows that it doesn’t matter what your family looks like, the only thing that makes a family a family, is love! Each page showcases bright illustrations of diverse families doing special activities together, from baking a cake to finding a lost shoe. Your little one will love looking through the pages to see their own family reflected, and of course feel the love your family shares together.
This gorgeous Stonewall Award-winning picture book stars Julián, a child coming to understand their gender nonconformity after a joyful encounter with three women dressed as shimmering mermaids. Julián fantasizes about dressing up like a mermaid too, and wonders what his Abuela will make of it in this celebration of self-love and individuality.
Young readers can now learn the momentous and inspiring story of the Gay Pride Flag, created in 1978 by social activist Harvey Milk and designer Gilbert Baker. More than a history, Pride vibrantly illuminates the reach and timelessness of the rainbow flag, a global symbol of equality and inclusion.
Pride author Rob Sanders adds another title to the LGBTQ+ historical canon with Stonewall, the moving story of the 1969 police raid and ensuing protests that played a crucial role in the gay civil rights movement. Narrated by the Stonewall Inn itself, this accessible and empowering book is an essential piece of pride history.
This adorable, award-winning book takes place at a Pride parade. It’s written in rhyme, so it’s extra cute. It talks about who you’ll see at Pride and who is invited—everyone! My students love pointing out the bright colors and costumes, as well as giggling at the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. It’s really just a joy to read.
Red: A Crayon’s Story is one of my all-time favorite books. It shows the experience of a transgender child through the metaphor of crayons. A blue crayon has a red wrapper, and everyone around the crayon keeps trying to get the crayon to draw red things—fire engines, strawberries—but everything comes out blue. Eventually another crayon acknowledges and appreciates that this crayon is actually blue. All the other crayons soon realize this too and begin celebrating the blueness of the crayon. The concept is so simply laid out that from the first page, my students began to yell, “No! Not red, blue!”
Quite often, the experiences of Indigenous LGBTQ+ people are overlooked in children’s literature. 47,000 Beads is here to change that! Peyton is a child who loves to dance, but when the annual pow-wow comes around, this year Peyton doesn’t want to wear the jingle dress that girls wear. Auntie Eyota reaches out to the entire community to help Peyton feel loved and welcomed as a Two-Spirit member of their nation. Everyone pitches in and makes a beautiful new pow-wow regalia, perfect for Peyton.
In this book about gender exploration, a young South Asian child is fascinated by his mother’s bindi. When he seeks to know more about them, his mother gives him a bindi to wear. The child feels more authentically themself and connected to their culture. This story lets children look at the way we connect gender and culture in uplifting, kid-friendly language. Quite the gem!
I adore this book because it shows a positive family dynamic shift when Aidan comes out to his parents as a transgender boy. Rather than simply stopping the book once Aidan and his family make changes, it moves forward to show Aidan’s family growing. Aidan worries about gender being placed on his unborn sibling and begins to help his family make choices that will allow that sibling to flourish, no matter how they identify. It teaches the moral that the most important thing about taking care of a child is knowing how to love them, just the way they are.
At school, they tell Stella to bring her mother in to celebrate mother's day. But Stella doesn't have a mother- she has two dads. She decides to bring her dads instead and discovers that her family extends even further than just her two parents.
This book is funny and sweet and refutes gender roles. Worm loves Worm and they decide to get married. Lots of other bugs intervene, explaining that it isn’t a wedding without cake (even though worms don’t eat cake), or rings (even though worms don’t have fingers), or one groom and one bride. The excuse is: “That’s the way it’s always been done.” But Worm and Worm decide that they’ll both be the groom and both be the bride. They rebuff criticisms that it’s “not how it’s done” with: “It’s how we’re doing it now.” All sorts of families will value the message of cherishing loved ones in a way you both want, regardless of what has always been done.
With clarity and insight, Jazz Jennings shares her story of realizing at a very young age that, though she was being raised as a boy, she was truly a girl. An essential read for children and families of all experiences, I Am Jazz has an empowering message of celebrating what makes us unique and respecting everyone’s differences.
"We get a lot of questions about what the ‘right’ terms are. The truth is: Terminology is a moving target! We encourage folks to talk to one another, listen to how people self-identify, and figure out what works best for them. Here are some definitions to get you started, gently adapted and posted with permission from TSER." - www.outrightvt.org
A moving read for adults : This Is How It Always Is by Laurie Frankel
This is how a family keeps a secret…and how that secret ends up keeping them.
This is how a family lives happily ever after…until happily ever after becomes complicated.
This is how children change…and then change the world.
This is Claude. He’s five years old, the youngest of five brothers, and loves peanut butter sandwiches. He also loves wearing a dress, and dreams of being a princess.
When he grows up, Claude says, he wants to be a girl.
Rosie and Penn want Claude to be whoever Claude wants to be. They’re just not sure they’re ready to share that with the world. Soon the entire family is keeping Claude’s secret. Until one day it explodes.
Laurie Frankel's This Is How It Always Is is a novel about revelations, transformations, fairy tales, and family. And it’s about the ways this is how it always is: Change is always hard and miraculous and hard again, parenting is always a leap into the unknown with crossed fingers and full hearts, children grow but not always according to plan. And families with secrets don’t get to keep them forever. - BARNES AND NOBLE