How to avoid Love Scams in the Philippines?
First Step: Stay away from dating websites, and online dating (in general). Please understand that all dating websites (linked to the Philippines) are not operating inside the Philippines!
Yes, matchmaking is generally legal in the Philippines, but with specific restrictions related to international partnerships. The "Anti-Mail-Order Bride Law" (Republic Act 6955, now superseded by RA 10906) prohibits businesses that specifically target Filipino women for marriage to foreign nationals on a mail-order or similar basis. However, other forms of matchmaking, including local or general matchmaking services, are not explicitly outlawed.
PS: The first date should be a coffee date (only), and it's okay if she wants to bring a friend or family member (one or two maximum). Ask questions and don't focus on her appearance (only). Most girls (and transgenders) in the Philippines are nice, kind and lighthearted.
As a foreigner (newcomer), avoid bar girls. You won't find true love with bar girls.
Please note that before the internet and social media - a country girl (traditional Filipina) was every foreigner's dream, but nowadays, there is not much difference between a country girl and a city girl.
I advise you to build a local network, and find your Filipina through your network.
Second Step: Stay away from under age girls/boys.
Always ask for a proof of identity, to confirm the age.
Third Step: Stay away from your Filipina's family.
I mean do not live in the same city/town/village where your Filipina's family members are living.
Fourth Step: Stay away from greed and/or being cheap!
Stay balanced - between kindness and seriousness.
Important Note: Filipina is family oriented. Which means supporting her family (financially and emotionally) is her priority in life.
If she is working then please understand that all her income will go to her family, but if she is not working of course she will ask you (directly or indirectly) for financial support.
There is nothing wrong with supporting (financially) your Filipina, if that is not the only reason for her being with you!
The best solution is to sign a relationship contract, then live-in with your Filipina for a period of time, till you are sure, then get married (sign a marriage contract), if marriage is your goal.
Big cities mean big risks (to get scammed).
Remember; there is a high % of single mothers in the Philippines, (Why? The law prohibits abortion), of course, single mothers are in need emotionally and financially.
The younger the better, correct, to build memories and experience life together.
Most Filipinos do not use sexual protection products.
Build a strong social network to protect yourself, and hire a legal advisor (Private Attorney) who is worthy of your trust.
Fifth Step: Stay away from stress - and be positive, careful, patient and polite - to get the best of the Philippines.