What not to do to find, attract and keep the healthy relationship and love you desire?

If you are looking for a healthy relationship with someone who is looking for whatever you want, but you find your current reality different from what you want, then this article is for you.

For most people, the dating world seems confusing, frustrating and downright annoying! You have an intent to find a relationship, but then the people you seem to be attracted to themselves seem to distance themselves, only want casual communication, and/or seem to become distant. You feel perplexed and therefore find the whole dating process more and more challenging. You start to feel unattractive, unwanted and like there is something wrong with you. Many so-called "experts" will teach you techniques and tips about what to be, do and say to keep love. However, if this doesn't resonate with you and feels like hard work, this article will shed some light on what is creating your unfulfilled reality.

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Did you know that needy behavior is the most common killer of any relationship? Did you know that the majority of adults carry this destructive tendency? Did you know that all neediness is rooted in old emotional baggage that is stored in the subconscious in the form of negative beliefs, negative emotions and negative memories from the past? Finally, did you know that just like deleting an old unwanted computer file, all 'subconscious software' can now also be permanently deleted, restoring an individual to wholeness, completeness, self-confidence, self-esteem, self-esteem, thus giving them their authentic, reclaim attractive self and make healthy relationship choices? Want to learn more about how to improve your life and relationships in ways you can't even imagine?

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For those of you who are not yet aware of the negative consequences of neediness, I will briefly outline them here.

Need makes a person vulnerable, insecure, jealous, afraid of being rejected or abandoned, afraid of being alone, desperate, and can lead to negative behaviors such as manipulation, controlling tendencies, suffocating tendencies, stalking, abusive behavior and even self-destructive tendencies such as self-harm , just to name a few.

Does that sound like an attractive, emotionally mature and independent adult to you?

Hardly!

I'm sure it won't surprise you if I say that a sane, self-respecting person will "run for the hills" if they see such a person coming.

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So where does that leave the needy person?

Either alone or with someone just as desperate and needy as she is. This is what many call codependent. It's also how often abusive relationships start

If you are one of those needy people, it may be comforting to know that neediness doesn't have to be a life sentence.

Need is anchored in a deep sense of emptiness that most - yes most - people feel inside. That feeling of emptiness is the result of a relative shortage of what I call one's Life Force Energy or LFE.

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LFE is not only the vital energy of life, it is also the essence of an individual and the source of all one's positive resources i.e. self-esteem, self-esteem, self-confidence, inner strength, inner wisdom, resilience, inner peace, creativity, spontaneity and so on .

These resources are what one needs to make them feel whole, complete, competent and able to care for themselves as an emotionally independent, self-sufficient and self-respecting mature adult.

What many do not know is that LFE actually gradually becomes exhausted from body/mind each time a person experiences a negative or emotionally traumatic event in life. To understand this more clearly, it can be said that any disappointing or painful negative life event "knocks" a little LFE (i.e. you) out of your body or effectively causes someone to "die" a little bit.

Every time a negative event occurs, it leaves a scar of the event in the person that many call the "negative memory" of that event. However, that memory is more than just a scar. It also serves to act as what I've called an LFE (energy) "parasite" that continues to deplete LFE while remaining in the person, thereby endangering their emotional, physical, and relationship health.

More than a decade ago, it was discovered that such negative memories can be permanently and completely removed or erased from within, allowing the individual to gradually and cumulatively restore and reintegrate their LFE into their mind/body.

This process helps an individual eliminate all neediness and restores a sense of wholeness, completeness, confidence, self-esteem, self-esteem, attractiveness, emotional independence, maturity and much more.

Needless to say, the positive effects on one's life and relationships are huge and permanent.

To learn more about a process that can help you heal, be more attractive, and improve your relationships, contact me at the link below for a free phone/Skype coaching call that will change your life forever. change.