JUDGE the judgeMENTS

Do what they say, and see how easily they will ask you to change AGAIN.

This is called the imperfection that always exists.

Not an imperfection of yours. But, others' when it comes to you.

Also you when it comes to others, in case you are not conscious enough :)

You see, critics are significant in terms of growth.

But, following their suggestions blindly is degradation.

When you receive a judgement, it is not up to the one who judge but rather you, to take and action about it. That is, to REACT.

Very simply, the solution lies in the very fact that not every action requires a reaction.

Do not react unnecessarily. Do not react as much as you can.

And in case you do, ensure it is worth the change you try to bring in yourself with respect to their judgement.

If you think that only doing something wrong will bring you criticism, you are absolutely wrong.

Cuz even when you do the right things in life, you are always entertained with criticism.

So, first and foremost, leave the consideration that criticism comes only with the wrong actions. In fact, it is beyond the idea of you doing wrong or right.

Take a moment. Rethink.

What was passed to you was A judgement. A point of view. A perception it is.  A choice.

And most importantly, not a choice you should be concerned of to the extend that it makes you slow, or maybe even stop.

REMEMBER, you know yourself best, you can judge yourself best, you can better yourself best.

Go through everything you receive but do not apply anything blindly for not everything you are told is true or even one with the right intent.

So take a moment to JUDGE the JUDGEMENTS.

Understand, is it really so?

Cuz if it is about you, you will be able to judge it best.

And only when you know that yes, it is. Not one with doubt that IF it is so, but the one you KNOW is so.

Apply only and only so.

So, listen to everything but do not accept and do not apply all.

Once again, REMEMBER, The ONLY kind of feedback you would require to grow is CONSTRUCTIVE.

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