Subject: SEL (Grades 1-3) | Unit: ELA/SEL
Recognize how words and actions affect others’ feelings.
Understand how kind and unkind behaviors can make someone “bloom” or “wilt.”
Reflect on personal experiences of feeling included or excluded.
How do our words and actions affect those around us?
Why is kindness everyone’s responsibility?
Why is honoring names and identities important?
Self-Awareness: Recognize and name emotions; reflect on personal impact.
Social Awareness: Develop empathy by understanding others’ feelings.
Relationship Skills: Practice respectful communication and active listening.
Responsible Decision-Making: Consider effects of behavior and choose kindness.
Lesson Activities
Warm-Up Discussion (5 min)
Discuss times when words made students feel happy (“bloom”) or sad (“wilt”). Introduce these terms.
Read-Aloud (10-15 min)
Read Chrysanthemum by Kevin Henkes. Pause to ask how characters feel and how kindness or teasing affected them.
Class Discussion (10 min)
Create a T-chart of “Wilt” (unkind acts) vs. “Bloom” (kind acts). Connect story examples to students’ real-life experiences.
Worksheet Activity (15-20 min)
Students draw and write about what makes them “wilt” and “bloom,” reflecting on personal feelings and behaviors.
Sharing & Wrap-Up (5-10 min)
Volunteers share their worksheets. Reinforce the power of words and kindness. Close with the affirmation:
“I have the power to help others bloom with my words and actions.”
Assessment
Observe student participation in discussions and worksheet reflections for empathy and understanding.
No formal summative assessment required.
Materials
Chrysanthemum book or read-aloud video
Chart paper or whiteboard
“Bloom and Wilt” worksheet
Crayons or pencils
Extension
Invite students to write a personal story about their name and what it means to them, focusing on identity and respect.
Indigenous Perspectives
Emphasize relational accountability, respect, kindness, and reciprocity as key to emotional wellness and community harmony.
Subject: SEL (Grades 3–5) | Unit: Identity, ELA/SEL
Understand that names carry personal, cultural, and family meaning.
Reflect on their own name stories and how names shape identity.
Respect and celebrate the diverse identities of peers.
Express aspects of identity through writing and art.
What’s the story of your name?
How do names connect us to culture, family, or history?
Why is it important to say names correctly and with respect?
Self-Awareness
Students explore personal identity and reflect on the significance of their name.
Social Awareness
Builds understanding and appreciation of others’ cultural backgrounds and name stories.
Relationship Skills
Encourages respectful communication, active listening, and empathy during class discussions and sharing.
Responsible Decision-Making
Students reflect on assumptions, stereotypes, and the importance of making inclusive, respectful choices.
Warm-Up (10 min)
Pair share or journal: “What’s the story of your name?” to activate personal reflection.
Read-Aloud (15–20 min)
Read The Name Jar by Yangsook Choi. Pause to discuss how Unhei feels, why she hides her name, and what changes her mind.
Class Discussion (10–15 min)
Use guiding questions:
Why was Unhei unsure about her name?
What helped her feel proud of it?
What does this story teach us about assumptions and identity?
Creative Project – My Name Jar (20–25 min)
Students complete a jar worksheet:
Write their name in the center and decorate it.
Choose and complete 4 sentence starters around the jar (e.g., “My name tells a story about…”).
Illustrate each section to express personal meaning.
Gallery Walk or Sharing Circle (10–15 min)
Students share their jars with the class. Celebrate name stories and differences. Encourage them to bring jars home to continue the conversation with family.
Monitor student engagement and participation during discussions.
Review “My Name Jar” worksheets for depth of reflection and connection.
Optional: Have students complete a short exit slip about what they learned regarding names, identity, or assumptions.
The Name Jar by Yangsook Choi (physical copy or video read-aloud)
Chart paper or whiteboard
“My Name Jar” worksheet
Crayons, markers, pencils
Optional: Home Name Research worksheet sent before the lesson
Optional Home Connection
Send home a worksheet asking families to share stories behind their child’s name—its meaning, history, or special significance—to enrich the classroom activity.
Read-Aloud & Modeling
Inquiry-Based Learning
Creative Expression
Student Voice & Choice
Culturally Responsive Teaching
Collaborative Sharing & Reflection
Grade Level: Adaptable (Grades 3–5)
Duration: 15–20 minutes
Setting: Outdoor Learning Space
Students will engage in a quiet journaling activity to reflect on and write three positive moments from their day. The focus is on building gratitude, mindfulness, and emotional awareness. Sharing afterward builds classroom connection and empathy.
Cultivate positive thinking and self-awareness
Practice mindfulness and focus
Strengthen classroom relationships through shared reflection
Self-Awareness
Students reflect on their emotions and experiences to identify moments of joy, success, or comfort.
Self-Management
Practicing mindfulness and journaling supports emotional regulation and gratitude.
Social Awareness
Listening to peers' reflections fosters empathy and appreciation of diverse experiences.
Relationship Skills
Sharing aloud helps students connect and build trust within the classroom community.
Student journals or paper
Pencils
Clipboards or other hard writing surfaces
Set Expectations (2–3 min)
Take students to the outdoor learning space.
If near playground equipment, clarify behavior expectations (e.g., “This is a quiet reflection space today.”)
Model the Task (3 min)
Explain that everyone will reflect and write down three good things from their day.
Share your own example (either verbally or by passing around a sample journal page).
Emphasize full sentences and thoughtful reflection.
Individual Writing (5–7 min)
Students quietly write three full thoughts (not just words).
Optional sentence starter:
“One good thing that happened today was…”
Group Sharing & Wrap-Up (5–7 min)
Invite volunteers to share one or more of their “good things.”
End with a brief discussion:
“How does it feel to focus on the positive parts of your day?”
“Can this help your mood or how you see things?”
Grade Level: Grades 3–5 (adaptable)
Duration: One class block (45–60 min) or split into two sessions
Science: Biodiversity, Ecosystems (types, sizes, components)
Language Arts: Vocabulary, Comprehension, Sentence Formation
SEL Focus: Social Awareness, Self-Management, Empathy
Academic Objectives
Identify and describe ecosystems and their living/non-living components.
Understand and apply key ecosystem vocabulary.
Observe and record details of a local ecosystem.
SEL Objectives
Practice mindfulness and respectful behavior in shared environments.
Demonstrate empathy for peers, community members, and animals.
Collaborate thoughtfully and express curiosity constructively.
Self-Awareness
Students recognize how their focus, behavior, and emotions influence their learning during observation activities.
Self-Management
Students regulate excitement and attention while outdoors, practice patience, and stay engaged in quiet observation.
Social Awareness
Students show empathy for animals and people in shared spaces, listen to peers’ perspectives, and respect the environment.
Relationship Skills
Collaboration and turn-taking during class discussion and partner work promote respectful interactions.
Responsible Decision-Making
Students consider the impact of their behavior on wildlife, classmates, and community members when engaging in the outdoor component.
Ecosystem reading passage (scanned/projected)
Highlighters or pencils
Observation sheet
Clipboards
Walking permission forms
Second adult for field trip support
Part 1: Classroom (20–30 min)
Shared Reading & Vocabulary
Read and annotate the ecosystem passage together.
Highlight key terms like biome, microecosystem, living, non-living, habitat.
Co-construct definitions and use new terms in class-made sentences.
Guided Questions
“What is an ecosystem?”
“What sizes do ecosystems come in?”
“Can you name living and non-living things that work together?”
Part 2: Field Observation (30–45 min)
Prepare for the Walk
Discuss appropriate public and environmental behavior:
“How can we be kind to other trail users?”
“What does respect look like around animals like ducks?”
Observation at Local Duck Pond
Identify the ecosystem as a microecosystem.
Students quietly draw one living and one non-living thing working together.
Encourage thoughtful sharing:
“What’s working together in this pond?”
“What did you notice about the ducks?”
Wrap-Up Discussion
Share drawings and reflections.
Reinforce learning with prompts:
“How did your behavior help you observe more today?”
“How did you show respect—for nature, others, or yourself?”
Drawing-only option for students needing writing support
Sentence starters or visuals for vocabulary support
Peer buddy system for walking or reading
Extension: Create a mini-observation book with labeled drawings
Academic
Participation in reading and discussion
Comprehension of key terms
Ecosystem drawing with labeled or detailed observations
SEL
Observed behavior during walk (mindfulness, respect)
Reflection responses and respectful peer engagement
Grade Level: Grades 3–5 (adaptable)
Duration: One class block (45–60 min) or split into two sessions
Science: Biodiversity, Ecosystems (types, sizes, components)
Language Arts: Vocabulary, Comprehension, Sentence Formation
SEL Focus: Social Awareness, Self-Management, Empathy
Academic Objectives
Identify and describe ecosystems and their living/non-living components.
Understand and apply key ecosystem vocabulary.
Observe and record details of a local ecosystem.
SEL Objectives
Practice mindfulness and respectful behavior in shared environments.
Demonstrate empathy for peers, community members, and animals.
Collaborate thoughtfully and express curiosity constructively.
Self-Awareness
Students recognize how their focus, behavior, and emotions influence their learning during observation activities.
Self-Management
Students regulate excitement and attention while outdoors, practice patience, and stay engaged in quiet observation.
Social Awareness
Students show empathy for animals and people in shared spaces, listen to peers’ perspectives, and respect the environment.
Relationship Skills
Collaboration and turn-taking during class discussion and partner work promote respectful interactions.
Responsible Decision-Making
Students consider the impact of their behavior on wildlife, classmates, and community members when engaging in the outdoor component.
Ecosystem reading passage (scanned/projected)
Highlighters or pencils
Observation sheet
Clipboards
Walking permission forms
Second adult for field trip support
Part 1: Classroom (20–30 min)
Shared Reading & Vocabulary
Read and annotate the ecosystem passage together.
Highlight key terms like biome, microecosystem, living, non-living, habitat.
Co-construct definitions and use new terms in class-made sentences.
Guided Questions
“What is an ecosystem?”
“What sizes do ecosystems come in?”
“Can you name living and non-living things that work together?”
Part 2: Field Observation (30–45 min)
Prepare for the Walk
Discuss appropriate public and environmental behavior:
“How can we be kind to other trail users?”
“What does respect look like around animals like ducks?”
Observation at Local Duck Pond
Identify the ecosystem as a microecosystem.
Students quietly draw one living and one non-living thing working together.
Encourage thoughtful sharing:
“What’s working together in this pond?”
“What did you notice about the ducks?”
Wrap-Up Discussion
Share drawings and reflections.
Reinforce learning with prompts:
“How did your behavior help you observe more today?”
“How did you show respect—for nature, others, or yourself?”
Drawing-only option for students needing writing support
Sentence starters or visuals for vocabulary support
Peer buddy system for walking or reading
Extension: Create a mini-observation book with labeled drawings
Academic
Participation in reading and discussion
Comprehension of key terms
Ecosystem drawing with labeled or detailed observations
SEL
Observed behavior during walk (mindfulness, respect)
Reflection responses and respectful peer engagement
Grade Level: Adaptable (K–5)
Duration: 10–15 minutes
Setting: Calm outdoor space (field, garden, or shaded area)
This mindfulness exercise teaches students a simple belly breathing technique to calm their nervous system, promote emotional regulation, and deepen awareness of their surroundings. Practicing outside enhances the experience with natural sounds and sensory grounding.
Practice a self-regulation strategy for stress and emotional overwhelm
Strengthen body awareness through slow, focused breathing
Cultivate a sense of calm and presence in nature
Self-Awareness
Students tune into how their bodies feel and recognize signs of stress or calm.
Self-Management
Breathing practice builds strategies to manage anxiety, overstimulation, or frustration.
Responsible Decision-Making
Students begin to understand when and how to apply calming techniques on their own.
Social Awareness (indirect)
Respecting group quiet time and maintaining shared calm contributes to a peaceful environment.
None required
(Optional) Towels, mats, or jackets for sitting or lying comfortably on the ground
A quiet, safe outdoor space with room for all students
Find a Calm Space (2 min)
Guide students to spread out with enough room to lie down or sit comfortably.
Ask for quiet voices and still bodies.
Model the Technique (2–3 min)
Place one hand on your belly and one on your chest.
Breathe in slowly through the nose, letting only the belly rise.
Hold for 3 counts, then exhale gently through the mouth.
Repeat this rhythm together 4–5 times:
“In… 2… 3… Out… 2… 3…”
Silent Practice (3–5 min)
Encourage students to listen to nature sounds (birds, wind, leaves) while continuing to breathe slowly.
Remind them this quiet helps both the mind and body relax.
Wrap-Up (2–3 min)
Brief reflection prompt:
“How do you feel now compared to before we started?”
Optional: Invite students to share one word describing how their body or mind feels.