Destiny Calling
Do you really want to help people? And empower them to stand up and solve their problems by themselves
Give a man fish you save him for a day, teach him or her how to fish save them for life this program go even further than that
Let them have access to quality education
One of the Wold highest literacy rate and number of educated people but still in poverty
What’s missing is Political System and Mindset of the People
Hear we focus on Personal Success and It is Because
Success in any area is 80% Mindset and 20% Strategies
More and more people spend their life miserable way
extremely critical of them self
Downplays or ignores their positive qualities
Judges themselves to be inferior to their peers
Uses negative words to describe themselves such as stupid, fat, ugly or unlovable
Has discussions with themselves (this is called ‘self talk’) that are always negative, critical and self blaming
Assumes that luck plays a large role in all their achievements and doesn’t take the credit for them
Blames themselves when things go wrong instead of taking into account other things over which they have no control such as the actions of other people or economic forces
Doesn’t believe a person who compliments them.
Negative feelings – the constant self-criticism can lead to persistent feelings of sadness, depression, anxiety, anger, shame or guilt.
Relationship problems – for example they may tolerate all sorts of unreasonable behavior from partners because they believe they must earn love and friendship, cannot be loved or are not loveable. Alternatively, a person with low self-esteem may feel angry and bully other people.
Fear of trying – the person may doubt their abilities or worth and avoid challenges.
Perfectionism – a person may push themselves and become an over-achiever to ‘atone’ for what they see as their inferiority.
Fear of judgement – they may avoid activities that involve other people, like sports or social events, because they are afraid they will be negatively judged. The person feels self-conscious and stressed around others and constantly looks for ‘signs’ that people don’t like them.
Low resilience – a person with low self-esteem finds it hard to cope with a challenging life event because they already believe themselves to be ‘hopeless’.
· Lack of self-care – the person may care so little that they neglect or abuse themselves, for example, drink too much alcohol.
· Self-harming behaviors – low self-esteem puts the person at increased risk of self-harm, for example, eating disorder, drug abuse or suicide
Many of them are a victim of
· Unhappy childhood where parents (or other significant people such as teachers) were extremely critical
· Poor academic performance in school resulting in a lack of confidence
· Ongoing stressful life event such as relationship breakdown or financial trouble
· Poor treatment from a partner, parent or carer, for example, being in an abusive relationship
· Ongoing medical problem such as chronic pain, serious illness or physical disability
· Mental illness such as an anxiety disorder or depression
· Victim of bully
· Victim of abuse
Outline of Adult Education Program
Success and happiness Formula
ü Where I am now – Get clarity – understand self and environment
ü Solve immediate pressing problems and brake away from the fast
ü Cultivate better frame of mind – Love forgiveness, gratitude
ü Understand your true self, who I am? Why I am here for?
ü Goal Setting – where do I want to be? & how to get there
ü Get Organize
ü Create success habits
ü Keep pursuing goals while facing the challengers day in and day out
Mastering Mindfulness
ü Enjoy the results
ü Serve the humanity, Leave legacy, wright your life story
ü Fallow chosen religious faith or develop your own realistic philosophical approach to see Life and Life after death
ü Role of the life coach, counsellor, role model & mentor
ü Especial module 1 : installing entrepreneur Mindset
ü Especial module 2: Leadership
Total value over $ 7000 now deliver on non-profit basis and want to make this training available to everyone. Therefor participant can contribute as they wish at the end of the program.
We need your help to make this effort continue and scale up to reach at least 1 Million people
Changing behavior means result
However sustainable behavior changes comes from addressing Identity, values, beliefs, attitude issues
This is only one of kind program in Sri Lanka
Kind of therapeutic help we may need
Adjustment / Transition to / from College
Alcohol / Other Drugs
Anger Management
Anxiety / Stress
Behavioural / Mood Changes (Depression)
Eating Concerns / Self-Esteem / Body Image
Grief and Loss
Gender Identity
Relationship Conflicts
Sexual Identity Concerns
Spirituality
Suicidality
Kind of coaching and Mentoring people may need
Professional Growth & Direction This improves all the various aspects of your professional life in which you will like to see growth.
Values Alignment This introduces you to the best strategy to realign your work values with your goals.
Goal Setting This teaches you how to set goals and stick to them effectively.
Skills Acquisition This helps you identify the skills that will allow you to achieve your goals.
Strategic Decision Making This is a topic that assesses your decision-making skills as well as utilizes feedbacks from your coworkers and superiors to enhance them.
Self-Induced Obstacles This builds your confidence level and improves the way you address yourself and others.
Performance Reviews This provides lessons that teach you how to plan and prepare for reviews so that you can boost your chances of optimal outcomes.
Productivity This brings to light your workstyle and daily routine so that you can find ways to become better at your job.
Habits & Routines This identifies the periods where you are most productive in the day, to develop a strategy to optimize your efforts.
Time Management & Focus This teaches you how to set boundaries with yourself and people around you, to keep you focused and properly manage your time.
Motivation This highlights the factors that keep you motivated and also teaches you how to optimize or increase them.
Team Buy-In This helps you determine how to identify important stakeholders in your organization so that you can gain their support.
Proactiveness This showcases areas in your life where you need to plan so that you can avoid obstacles and reduce the amount of work on your plate.
Conflict Management This builds communication skills that help you manage and overcome conflicts that may arise during project management.
Delegation This prioritizes your workload for you and teaches you how to distribute them among your team members or subordinates properly.
Image Branding This deals with your personal and professional image, as well as how best to manage them. It is best for enhancing your image within and outside the office.
Behavior Consistency This helps you to determine how you would like to be seen by others and also teach you how to align your strategies accordingly.
Personal Pitching This gives you skills you can utilize to articulately share your story in not only professional settings but social gatherings as well.
Rewards & Recognition This is a great way to motivate yourself and your team members/employees, and to also show them that they are appreciated.
Image Presence This identifies improvement opportunities, especially in the aspects of presentations and meetings.
Network Building This teaches you how to identify interesting individuals in your chosen field as well as how to build and maintain relationships with them.
Credibility This focuses on strategies that give people the courage to carry out businesses with you. It is more concerned with your actions and communication style.
Self Awareness This helps to develop the right strategy to enable your to partner with people around you and also identify your blind spots.
Accountability This is essential to your personal brand as a person, and your life coach can help you develop plans to make you more accountable.
Networking This deals with interacting with different groups of people to gather information which can be very useful along the line.
Intelligence Gathering This shows you tactful ways you can use to gather information from the outside, which can make you a valuable member of your team/organization.
Resource Gathering This helps you determine how to use the network of people you have built effectively as well as when to do so.
Working Relationships This can show you strategies you can use to get along well with not only your superiors but co-workers too.
Boundaries This is important in all aspects of life, and you can learn how to properly set them and ensure that they always remain in place.
Expectations This can cause serious challenges in professional and social settings if they ever become misaligned.
Collaboration This helps you identify the best practices you can employ when it comes to partnering with teams and people around you.
Onboarding This provides you with the best strategies you can use to properly secure yourself in any kind of setting you to find yourself in.
Communication This looks at how you convey information to those around you, as well as proffer strategies to enhance your communication skills.
Feedback This helps to shape your immediate environment by providing you useful ways to give and receive feedback.
Conversations This may prove to be difficult for you if you do not have the required skills. However, your life coach can teach you the proper response to triggering conversations.
Management & Leadership This teaches you ways to motivate your team and also communicate effectively the expectations and goals required of them.
Team Building This exposes you to important tips you can utilize when forming or building a new team.
Delegation This provides you with skills that will help you determine who or what teams are perfect for certain jobs/tasks.
Brand Awareness This teaches you the strategies to employ, to portray your brand in the best way possible.
Time Management This exposes you to skills to effectively use whatever limited time you have.
Establishing Priorities This helps you determine pressings tasks that need attending to, so that they do not become neglected.
Enhancing Productivity This shows you the proper ways to go about your day, so that you get the most done.
Work/Life Balance This is crucial to your wellbeing and being able to keep work and life is one way to achieve this.
Crisis Management This shows you the strategies you can use to prevent volatile situations from arising in the first place.
Succession Planning This teaches you how to identify and develop new leaders who will step in when the older leaders retire.
Problem Solving This equips you with skills that you will need within and outside work to overcome certain situations.
Change Management This provides you with real-life skills you can make use of to cope or overcome drastic changes that go on around you.
Creativity & Innovation This enables you to think outside the box, to conceive something original or unusual.
Career Development This shows you the strategies you can use to effectively manage your career to the best of your ability.
Process Improvement This teaches you how to identify, analyze and improve already established processes in your organization optimally.
Successes & Accomplishments This allows you take the full credit for work done, which can be a huge motivator down the line.
Business/Personal Overwhelm This provides you with techniques you can use to release some of the stress/tension build-ups.
Overcoming Challenges This equips you with the right skills to overcome some of the challenges that may come your way.
Project Completion This shows you the techniques to employ so that you can finish your projects promptly.
Team Collaboration This teaches you some skills required to work effectively with members of your team/organization.
Project Management This not only shows you how to handle your projects, but also how to stay focused and relaxed when on one.
Career Exploration This exposes you all the possible occupations within your field, also which opportunities match your skillset.
Health and Wellbeing This coaches you on strategies you can employ to leave a healthy and fulfilling life.
Passion Rediscovery This places you back on the right track if you happen to have lost track of your set goals.
Understanding Cultural Differences This is great for promoting engagement with other members of your team/organization, especially in diverse ones.
Expressing Feelings This enables you to move on from troubling and negative emotions which can greatly affect your lifestyle.
De-cluttering This not only helps to keep you sane and organized but also enables you to have a clear head which is very important.
Risk-Taking This educates you on which opportunities are worth going for, as well as how to minimize any eventual downsides.
Gratitude This shows you how to express appreciation to fellow workers when it matters most.
Confidence This teaches you how to be in acceptance of your skills, ability, and experience regardless of extenuating circumstances.
Perseverance This exposes you to strategies that help you forge ahead, especially when you are experiencing delay or difficulty.
Day today Issues people have to deal with
girl/boy problems are definitely number one.
2. Money problems.
3. Roommates problems.
4. Credit card debt.
5. Other debt we didn’t know existed until we had it.
6. Parents who don’t understand us.
7. Friends who don’t support us.
8. Having rent to pay every month.
9. Hating our jobs.
10. …Being unable to find a better job.
11. Deciding whether or not to go back to school because we can’t find jobs.
12. Hangovers.
13. Trying to stay trendy.
14. Not realizing that being trendy is pointless... and expensive.
15. Not knowing what’s going on in the world.
16. ...Knowing Kanye’s shoe size despite not knowing what's going on in the world.
17. Not being able to eat healthy because it’s too expensive.
18. Finding a soul mate.
19. Thinking that finding a soul mate is the best use of our time.
20. Not knowing ourselves well enough.
21. All our bad habits. (You know you have them.)
22. Thinking we know it all.
23. Not understanding that in the grand scheme of things, we don’t know sh*t.
24. Spending too much time on Facebook.
25. Not getting enough exercise.
26. Playing video games until we literally can’t see.
27. Pulling an all-nighter and then regretting it in the morning.
28. Using beer goggles to make poor decisions.
29. The walk of shame.
30. Deciding which tattoo to get -- aka which one we will regret the least in 20 years.
31. Not listening to others.
32. Feeling privileged.
33. Being unable to empathize.
34. Using sympathy as a way to insult people.
35. Being opinionated on subjects we know nothing about.
36. Trolling everyone who speaks their mind.
37. Not realizing that most EDM music and Dubstep are complete crap.
38. Not reading enough.
39. Watching reality TV (while ignoring reality).
40. Complaining about everything and anything.
41. Being too picky.
42. Being too stubborn.
43. Being close-minded, but thinking we're open-minded.
44. Having to tell a partner it’s not going to work out.
45. Trying to figure out if we should be the first to say “I love you.”
46. Having to tell a partner we don’t love him or her anymore.
47. Keeping it in our pants -- generally speaking for both genders.
48. Music festivals.
49. Tanning beds.
50. Paying for the label.
51. Buying sh*t we don’t need.
52. Not donating. (If you don’t have money, you surely have time.)
53. Bringing the wrong people into our lives.
54. …Allowing those wrong people to remain part of our lives.
55. Allowing others to make decisions for us.
56. Not speaking up.
57. Being afraid of greatness.
58. Pretending like we’re braver than we are, and believing it.
59. Being too proud to ask for help when we need it.
60. Not being considerate of others.
61. Thinking the world revolves around us.
62. Lying for the hell of it.
63. Having sex with all the wrong people.
64. Not being able to find a suitable mentor or role model.
65. Not being in love with learning.
66. Not bothering to educate ourselves after snatching that diploma.
67. Thinking "YOLO" is short for “do something crazy and hope you don’t die.”
68. Thinking molly is a great drug.
69. Thinking too highly of ourselves.
70. Letting the opinions of others influence us deeply.
71. Allowing ourselves to be wounded by careless, hurtful people.
72. ...Expecting those people to change their ways.
73. Not accepting the fact that manipulation is important if we wish to succeed.
74. Spending our time foolishly.
75. Never slowing down... Because we're afraid life itself is boring?
76. Not traveling enough and experiencing other cultures.
77. Not giving a damn -- about anything.
78. Being environmentally friendly as a fad.
79. Posting stupid sh*t on YouTube. (Most of us already know you’re stupid; don’t need to prove yourself again.)
80. Smoking too much.
81. Bullying people. We all do it, even if we don’t realize it.
82. Not saving money because we think there is no way possible that we can.
83. Not dancing enough. I’m not talking about raving. I mean actually dancing.
84. Forgetting about the concept of courtship.
85. Most one-night stands.
86. Doing things without a purpose.
87. Not thinking before acting.
88. Not spending more time with our families.
89. Not telling those that we love, that we love them.
90. Not appreciating the little things.
91. Not appreciating the individuals who are most important in our lives.
92. Not spending enough time outdoors.
93. Not living life. Most of us are fooling ourselves into believing we are.
94. Giving up on dreams when the going gets tough.
95. Being very good at coming up with excuses.
96. Being too overloaded with unimportant information to remember the important information.
97. Not writing.
98. Thinking there will always be a tomorrow.
99. Not spending every hour of every day improving ourselves, making ourselves better, stronger, smarter people.
Stop Complaining
· No Money to Invest
· Haven’t had good parents
· Haven’t had good education
· Don’t have supportive people
· Don’t have good employees
· I am afraid
· Rich people are bad, they go to hell
· Only criminals can get rich
· Economy and politics are bad
· I am not lucky
· My horoscope is bad
……
1. Develop healthy self -esteem and confidence, able to take criticism and able to develop growth mindset as Individuals as well as community
2. Learn to understand strengths, develop them and achieve what set to achieve
3. Have life purpose, goals and plans and achieve them
4. Develop strategies to overcome weaknesses
5. Develop ethics and be a confident, happy and feel good about yourself
6. Recognize opportunities career and business and earn lots of money by making peoples life convenient, happy and feel good, healthy, wealthy, ….
7. Energized your passion, stay motivated
8. Be resilient in difficult time
9. Create better life for yourself, your loved one, and make them proud
10. Be a high productive person and produce more results
11. Learn to handle bullying and unpleasant situation
12. Cultivate, and feel love and compassion
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