This module highlights the importance of engaging families and fostering a facility-wide culture of inclusion. It provides practical strategies for building trust with caregivers, using their insights to support children effectively, and promoting shared values within the climbing team.
🎯 Learning Objectives
Participants will be able to:
Build respectful and constructive relationships with families.
Collect and apply caregiver insights to better support neurodivergent children.
Respond confidently and appropriately to parental feedback.
Foster a culture of inclusion across the climbing team and facility.
👥 Target Audience
Climbing coaches and trainers
Gym staff and facility managers
Families and caregivers
📌 Key Concepts
Family engagement as a pillar of inclusive practice
Active listening and respectful dialogue
Gathering and using key information (e.g. triggers, calming strategies)
Adapting support based on family input
Promoting shared values and consistent messaging across the team
Building trust through open communication and clear protocols
Welcoming new families with inclusive admission and orientation practices
Working with families of children with neurodivergent characteristics is key to the successful implementation of inclusive climbing programs. This module focuses on developing trust, sharing information, and establishing a common culture of acceptance and adaptation within the climbing team. Participants will learn how parental involvement is not just support for an individual child, but the foundation of a wider inclusive environment.
Why is working with families crucial?
Families are often the only constant link in a child's experience. They have an in-depth understanding of their needs, responses, habits, and strategies that work at home or in other settings. When coaches treat parents as part of a team, there is room for greater trust, fewer misunderstandings, and better planning.
Important reasons for active participation:
Parents can give early warning of triggers or adjustments.
information reduces uncertainty in coaches,
open communication reduces the likelihood of conflicts,
The child receives uniform messages from the home and sports environment.
Obtain key information in a respectful manner
One of the most common mistakes is asking questions that seem invasive or too "medical." Instead, coaches should ask questions focused on the child's practical needs and everyday responses.
Examples of good questions:
What usually helps when a child finds himself in a new situation?
How do you recognize that a child is stressed?
Does the child have any important routines that give him a sense of security?
What usually helps him when he's upset?
It is important to create the feeling that we are not asking because of the "difficulty", but because of the overall success.
Building trust and respectful attitude
Trust is built through consistent, respectful, and open interactions – not just when problems arise.
Key practices for building trust:
Always greet your parents or guardians when you arrive or leave.
Offer a short conversation and an information sheet (e.g. a question form) when you get involved for the first time.
regularly share small successes or observations ("Today alone climbed for the first time..."),
If there is a problem, respond calmly and without recrimination – invite to talk.
A unified team voice – supporting a culture of inclusion
A culture of inclusion is not a matter of one individual, but the result of the coordination of the entire team. It is important that all coaches and staff understand the agreements with parents, use similar terms and act in accordance with common values.
Examples of common practices:
determine what basic information each trainer needs to know (e.g. triggers, safety signals),
use the same feedback system (note, mail, conversation),
if one of the coaches gets the information, he clearly and respectfully conveys it to the team.
Parents are quick to sense if "the team doesn't speak the same language" – which can lead to mistrust.
How to act when criticism or concern arises
Parental feedback is not an attack – in most cases, it expresses concern, confusion, or frustration because parents don't have enough insight or feel that the child isn't being heard.
Steps in responding to criticism:
Listen first – don't interrupt.
Acknowledge feelings: "I understand that you are worried."
Offer a solution, or at least the next step: "I'll talk to a colleague and come back with an answer."
Avoid defensive phrases ("That's not true." or "We always do that.").
Maintaining a professional and empathetic tone, even in difficult conversations, builds trust in the long run.
Case study: Daily routine for Lana
Lana is 9 years old. She is a girl with an autistic disorder. On her first visits to climbing practice, she often froze at the beginning of the class. Parents said that at home, she always needs 5 minutes in a quiet corner first before starting a new activity. The coach included an "introductory corner" with a soft cushion where Lana could watch the other children for a few minutes.
After two weeks, Lana started working as soon as she arrived. The parents said that for the first time, they felt that someone really heard their needs – and that Lana asked every week, "When are we going again?"
Key highlights for translating into practice
Trust is built in the face of a problem – through regular and human communication.
Parents are partners, not a "problem" that needs to be managed.
Clear questions, regular feedback, and a unified team voice are the foundation of a safe environment.
Every contact with a parent is an opportunity to consolidate a culture of cooperation and inclusion.
Next steps:
Make sure you have a system in place to collect parental information (form, questions, short interview).
Agree with the team what information needs to be shared.
Write down one positive moment after each workout – and share it with your parent once a week.
Activity objective:
Participants develop an understanding of how to communicate effectively with parents and how to incorporate their information into exercise planning. Through real-life examples, they learn how to respond to challenging situations and encourage cooperation.
→ Scenario 1: A parent wants their child to always be "at the forefront"
Description of the situation:
A parent insists that his child gets more opportunities than others – more time on the wall, first in line, constant attention. In doing so, he often interrupts the workout with instructions to the trainer and causes discomfort to other parents and children.
Tasks for participants:
How do you react respectfully to excessive interference from a parent?
How do you establish a boundary without conflict?
How do you secure the whole group experience?
Purpose:
To develop self-confidence in managing demanding expectations and protecting group dynamics.
→ Scenario 2: Parent expresses doubts about the coach's abilities
Description of the situation:
After practice, the parent declares, "I don't think you know what you're doing with kids like mine." He doubts your methods and seems distrustful of the program.
Tasks for participants:
How to react without being defensive?
How to involve a parent in a solution, not a conflict?
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Purpose:
Learning to accept criticism as an opportunity to improve and strengthen the partnership.
→ Scenario 3: The parent does not provide key information
Description of the situation:
The child experiences a strong emotional outburst during exercise. You later learn that he has been diagnosed with anxiety and known triggers that were never communicated to you.
Tasks for participants:
How do you approach a parent after an event?
How do you create a space where parents feel safe to share sensitive information?
How to improve initial data collection?
Purpose:
To be aware of the importance of asking the right questions and creating trust at the beginning of cooperation.
Running time: 30-45 minutes
Method: Work in pairs or small groups (3-4 people)
Tool: Printed sheets with scenarios and space for notes
Instructions for participants:
Read the assigned scenario.
Write down the proposed responses and strategies.
Present your solution to the team.
Group discussion – comparison of approaches and exchange of experiences.
Strengthen empathy and communication skills.
Develop boundary-setting and confidence-building skills.
Recognize the importance of working with families for the well-being of children.
Prepare coaches for realistic and emotionally demanding situations.
Below is a set of practical, text-based tools to help you implement the principles from the module Collaborating with Families and Creating a Supportive Culture. These resources are designed to support inclusive communication, promote consistency across staff, and build trusting relationships with caregivers of neurodiverse children.
These tools help you gather and apply family insights, respond to concerns confidently, and foster a culture of collaboration and shared responsibility in your facility.
1. Family Communication Planner
A planning template to guide coaches and staff in preparing for initial or ongoing conversations with caregivers.
Key Sections:
Session or Event Focus:
What’s the purpose of the upcoming contact? (e.g. intake, feedback follow-up, sharing progress)
Information to Collect from Family:
Routines, sensory sensitivities, triggers
Successful strategies used at home
Social or emotional goals
Information to Share with Family:
Session structure and expectations
Adjustments or supports in place
How feedback will be gathered and used
Preferred Communication Method & Frequency:
(e.g. after session, monthly update, only if concerns arise)
2. Respectful Interaction Checklist (for Staff)
A quick-reference checklist to ensure that communication with caregivers is clear, inclusive, and trust-building.
Checklist Prompts:
☐ I used plain, respectful language and avoided jargon.
☐ I asked open-ended questions and gave time to respond.
☐ I acknowledged family insights and thanked them for sharing.
☐ I followed up on previous concerns or suggestions.
☐ I clarified how we’ll keep in touch and offered options.
☐ I reflected on my tone, body language, and active listening.
3. Visual Welcome Guide for Families
A visual introduction page to give to caregivers upon enrollment.
Includes:
Photo or name of the coach and contact info.
Sample schedule or structure of a typical session.
Icons showing key principles: safety, support, choice, communication.
Reassurance that family knowledge is valued and will be used to help their child thrive.
Brief FAQ: “What if my child has a tough day?” / “Can I share updates with the team?”
4. Caregiver Feedback Integration Log
A tool for coaches or facility leaders to track input from caregivers and ensure it leads to real change in practice.
Use this log to:
Document changes made in response to family concerns
Monitor consistency in follow-up
Support reflective practice during team meetings
5. Parent Relationship Tracker
A simple tracking sheet to observe and evaluate the progress of family relationships over time.
Key Indicators:
Openness to communication
Frequency of contact
Nature of feedback (positive, neutral, concerned)
Responsiveness to changes
Notes on key developments
These Takeaway Resources offer practical tools to ensure that collaboration with families is consistent, respectful, and embedded in your coaching culture. By using them regularly, you can:
Improve communication with caregivers.
Personalize support for each child.
Ensure team-wide alignment on inclusive practices.
Build stronger, lasting partnerships with families.
Introductory presentation + discussion on the role of parents: 10 minutes
Infographic overview and examples of good practice: 10 minutes
Video "The Parent Conversation" + brief analysis: 10 minutes
Scenario analysis (3 examples in groups): 20 minutes
Final discussion and reflection: 5 minutes
Completion of the evaluation/feedback form: 5 minutes
🕒 Total estimated time: 60 minutes
✅ Short Quiz
Purpose: To check the understanding of the key content and approaches to cooperation with parents.
Why is it important to ask families about their child's routines and triggers?
a) To compare with other children.
b) To avoid conflict with parents.
c) To better adapt support and create a predictable environment. ✅
d) To shorten the session time.
What is a recommended response to a parent's criticism or concern?
a) Explain why they are wrong.
b) Avoid the topic.
c) Acknowledge the concern and offer to follow up. ✅
d) Tell them to speak to management.
What does "shared team communication" mean in an inclusive facility?
a) All staff deliver consistent and respectful messages to families. ✅
b) Only the head coach speaks with parents.
c) Staff communicate mainly through technical terms.
d) Everyone gives their own opinion.
When a parent doesn't provide information about their child's needs, the best approach is:
a) Gently ask specific, open-ended questions and build trust. ✅
b) Assume the child doesn't need support.
c) Wait until problems occur.
d) Discuss the child in front of the group
Reflection question:
After completing this module, what is one specific thing you will change or apply when communicating with families during your next session?