In an unprecedented time of turmoil and political chaos creating personal conflicts and public crises, increasing numbers of Americans are moving out of their country for a better, more peaceful life ... and to enjoy a higher standard of living at lower costs.
The U.S. State Department estimates that nine million Americans are living abroad. And the emigrant exodus is rising!
It's one thing to travel the world with a USA passport … quite another to actually live in – not just visit – "foreign" countries.
EXPAT details the differences.
Gains and losses. Trials and tribulations. Physical upheavals, emotional pathos. Rules and regulations, peculiar processes and protocols. Bureaucracy and red tape. Finances and household budgets. Conflicts, crises, challenges. Special satisfactions. Unknown languages and lingos. Assorted hodgepodge.
All told, with color and candor.
https://www.amazon.com/EXPAT-Leaving-Bruce-H-Joffe/dp/B0D7ZB9H2J/ref=sr_1_2
Moving internationally is a series of experiences: Physical. Logistical. Emotional. Mental.
Don’t let anyone tell you that it’s easy.
The two key resources are patience and persistence.
You’re not going to find them in most tour guides or travel books. Because learning to live abroad is experiential. You must partake and process it.
Especially in Portugal and Spain.
Whether expat (planning to return to your homeland), immigrant (you’re staying and not looking back), or tourist and visitor, it’s the daily rhythms and traditions that will make or break you.
In Expat: Leaving the USA for Good, award-winning journalist Bruce H. Joffe wrote about his motivations to leave the USA and emigrate to Iberia, where he divides his time between Spain and Portugal.
Spanish Towns, Portuguese Villages continues his story of "foreign" experiences and anecdotes following the move and several years of residency.
If you're considering relocation to Portugal and/or Spain, this is the book that will prepare you.
And if you're already living in Portugal or Spain, you'll enjoy comparing your life abroad with his.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CCCSLFTS
Fado & Flamenco:
Living Abroad in Portugal and Spain
A few curiosities comparing Spain and Portugal:
⦿ Shops are closed, and people generally don’t work on Sundays in Spain; in Portugal, they do. So, especially along the border, you’ll find many Spaniards in Portugal on Sundays, expecting the Portuguese to understand Spanish.
⦿ Portugal is loud, but Spain is louder.
⦿ Spanish drivers are bad; the Portuguese worse.
⦿ Right turns on red lights are illegal in both Spain and Portugal.
⦿ Sales tax (IVA) is usually 23% in Portugal v. 21% in Spain.
⦿ The “Mediterranean Diet” is commendable, but don’t expect many Spanish or Portuguese people to follow it; younger ones, especially, prefer MacDonalds, Burger King, Pizza Hut, and KFC. It’s not just junk food but the corporate bite.
⦿ Over 50 years ago (September 1975), the first Burger King in Europe opened its doors in Plaza de los Cubos, just off Madrid’s Plaza de España.
⦿ Hollywood and other English movies are shown in their original language with Portuguese subtitles; in Spain, these movies are dubbed in Spanish.
⦿ Spain can’t hold a candle to Portuguese pastries and bread, while nothing quite compares to delicious Spanish tapas for their price and diversity.
⦿ Secondary roads in Portugal need some repairs; in Spain, they’re downright dangerous … with very short passing zones before curves and elevations that are impossible to see past.
⦿ To reside as retired in Spain, one must prove “passive” income of about US $28,000 for the “pensioner” plus $8,000 per dependent. None of your family can work … even remotely. In Portugal, you need to deposit at least one year’s minimum wage in a bank account or document that you receive at least that amount each year through retirement income. Paid over 14 installments per year, the national minimum is approximately €1,073.33. Anyone can work in Portugal once granted a visa and residency.
⦿ For flexibility, ease of operation, and sheer number of functions it can perform, Portugal’s award-winning “Multibanco” system puts to shame American ATMs. Spain doesn’t have a direct equivalent to Portugal's Multibanco system, but it does have a payment and instant transfer service called Bizum.
⦿ Thinking about buying rather than renting? The price of property is comparable in both countries. The difference, however, is when it comes to finalizing the deed. Depending on location, for instance, transfer taxes can range from 6-8% (€6,000-€8,000) in Spain, a hefty sum when purchasing a €100,000 property. Add to that legal, notary, and registration fees, and you’ll be spending at least 10% on top of the purchase price. In Portugal, if it’s your primary residence in the country, you’d pay 0% transfer taxes for properties costing up to €101,917. Legal and notary fees, along with administrative expenses, are added on … but, by and large, they are lower than in Spain.
From Fado & Flamenco: Living Abroad in Portugal or Spain
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0HBNGHW75
Written specifically for American expats, Bruce H. Joffe’s Adapting Abroad peels back the layers of relocating to one of the world's safest and most welcoming countries. This isn't just about paperwork; it's about the "art of the greeting," the "fluidity of time," and the deep family values that define your new home.
Inside, you will discover:
Culture Shock to Cultural Connection: Understand why a friendly kiss on the cheeks replaces the brisk handshake and how to navigate the local "Sunday family dinner" tradition.
The Concept of Time: Learn to trade American punctuality for a more relaxed, organic rhythm that prioritizes relationships over the clock.
Beyond the Language Barrier: Master the nuances of formal vs. informal speech and the critical non-verbal cues that build true rapport with locals.
Navigating Social Scenes: From the "Art of Small Talk" to forging lasting friendships, gain the confidence to integrate into your new community.
Stop dreaming about a fresh start and start living it. Whether you’re eyeing the Algarve’s beaches or Lisbon’s historic alleys, this guide ensures your transition is as smooth as a leisurely afternoon coffee.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GKNM9W7J
Bureaucratic Boondogles in Spain and Portugal
This is my all-time favorite video about dealing with the challenges of never-ending red tape and bureaucracy in Portugal and Spain. You don't need to speak a single word of Spanish or Portuguese to understand the side-splitting, deadpan humor of this video.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2wtbQUaC9mE
Portugal's Pastel de Nata
"Before anyone starts dusting off their virtual pitchforks, let me be clear about this: I know that, for most people visiting Portugal, the pastel de nata is the safest option.
"It reminds me of those people who go for brunch all the time during their time abroad because they don’t want to try new foods, because it’s trendy, and because they tend to look down on the food that’s different from what they’re used to.
"Sure, the pastel de nata offers a flavour-safe combo of flaky, buttery pastry with a creamy filling, without being too sweet or too big. A 10 out of 10 for non-adventurous people who want to try something local and share pics on Instagram to show they’re also trendy and have done what everybody else is doing – boringly performative.
"But to be honest, I really don’t get it. Yes, it’s good, but is it *that* good?"
https://beyondlisbon.wordpress.com/2026/06/29/beyond-pastel-de-nata/