David Kolb’s Experiential Learning Cycle (1984) describes learning as a lifelong process in which knowledge is created through experience. Kolb’s model consists of four stages:
Concrete Experience – engaging in a new experience.
Reflective Observation – reflecting on what occurred.
Abstract Conceptualisation – drawing conclusions and forming theories.
Active Experimentation – applying learning in new situations.
I chose Kolb’s model because it describes both action and reflection, which complements my preference to learn by practicing as I go through while also reflecting and assessing this experience. It frames the development of a professional identity in a more integrative way, involving personal reflection and wider theorizing and thinking concepts.
As an Executive Officer at Probashi Kallyan Bank in Bangladesh, I regularly dealt with customers from a variety of socioeconomic backgrounds. I had a situation one time where a migrant worker's loan sanction was taking longer than normal because the documents he submitted for his guarantors were not enough. It was clear to everyone that the client was understandably upset about that. The client had to book his flight to UAE within a short time limit, as his visa expiry date was very close. At first, I just paid attention to the formal way of fixing the problem, ignoring the client's emotional distress, which made things worse.
As I thought back on the situation, I realized that I had put administrative effectiveness above interpersonal relationships. Mezirow's (1991) Transformative Learning Theory states that critical reflection requires challenging presumptions and changing perceptions. In this particular case, I came to see that providing effective financial services required more than just functional efficiency; it also called for empathy, active listening, and cultural awareness.
I gained a greater understanding of financial services' deep relationship to clients' personal lives and emotions as a result of this reflection. Using the Emotional Intelligence Theory (Goleman, 1995), I determined that two important skills I wanted to improve were self-control and kindness. I reasoned that the institution and its clients may benefit from a combination of empathetic communication and administrative efficiency.
Connecting to this learning, I tried to modify my communication style in future encounters by addressing the client's queries, being patient, and offering comfort when there were delays. This strategy decreased disagreement and greatly increased the satisfaction of clients. My decision to pursue a career in social work, where empathy and human-centered practice are fundamental, was influenced by my experience in this public welfare bank in my motherland, which also improved my professional skills.
Kolb's framework provided a systematic way to travel the path from experience to action. Through the combination of Goleman's emotional intelligence and Mezirow's transformative learning, I was able to identify the emotional dimensions of professional practice and to critically reflect upon my own assumptions. My capacity to transform abstract knowledge into significant changes in behavior improved as a result.