Now to start, think of a time you really really really wanted to hurt someone. It could be your worst enemy, an annoying sibling, or it could be people who chew with their mouth open… ugh! It’s not that hard to eat with your mouth closed. Now, think why you felt that way towards them. Why did you want to hurt them that badly? What were the possible reasons, factors, and experiences that brought you to that situation? A lot of people nowadays, they don’t really think about what led to a situation. Most people just worry more about what happens after. 

Instead of preventing cyberbullying by just spreading awareness, we should focus more on tackling the reasons that make online users cyberbully in the first place. Here is why.

Addressing the root causes is much more effective. Cyberbullying is typically done by people who experience behavioral issues such as low self-esteem, aggression, anger management issues, etc. And these are usually caused by family problems, social rejection, trauma, and other personal issues that could be big or small. Doesn’t it seem easier and more efficient to prevent the events that lead up to cyberbullying than just campaigning?

Next, a behavioral change makes more sense than punishment. Awareness campaigning may promote shaming the “cyberbullies” and push them into more negative behavior. This will lead to more incidents and hurt more people.

People might say “Punishing the person responsible gives victims of cyberbullying immediate relief and safety!”

Yes, I agree with this and I’m sure there are other people that also agree with it. It does help the victims if we immediately result to punishment. Although, what would happen if it pushes the person responsible to do more harm? If we help them instead of shaming them for their actions, less people in the future will be hurt. If we help individuals change their behavior and attitudes, fewer people will engage in cyberbullying and lead to a safer online experience, not just for them but for everyone.

In conclusion, developing a safer online environment requires an understanding of the factors and motivations of cyberbullying. We can create a more peaceful online environment that benefits both potential victims and those who are at risk of becoming cyberbullies themselves by putting more emphasis on prevention through addressing root causes and encouraging behavioral change rather than punishments. Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Shower Thoughts Outside the Shower. I’m Marquix Cruz and see you next time!