WHAT IS A DOULA?
Doula is a Greek word meaning non-medical person who gives physical, emotional, and spiritual support to someone else (Doulagivers, FAQS, 2018). Birth Doulas provide services to mothers and their loved ones before, during, and after birth. End of Life Doulas serve clients and their loved ones at the end of life.
WHAT IS A DOULA COMPANION FOR AGING ADULTS?
End of Life Doulas may choose to specialize, and one specialty involves working with aging populations. A companion for aging adults typically provides emotional support, and as a doula, I'm able to provide additonal holistic support.
WHAT CAN I EXPECT DURING A VISIT?
Each visit is tailored to your unique needs and wishes. This may include conversation, preferred activities, soothing therapies, or simply peaceful companionship. My support spans the full end-of-life journey—from discussing choices and priorities at diagnosis, to offering therapeutic care as health declines. During the vigil, I strive to create a love-filled, peaceful space, and afterward, I hold sacred space to gently guide the soul through its next phase of transition.
WHAT IS THE BENEFIT OF HAVING AN AGING ADULT COMPANION / END OF LIFE DOULA?
Preventing Caregiver Burnout: Family members often bear the emotional and social support for aging adults, which can be rewarding but also overwhelming. A companion or doula can ease this burden, allowing caregivers time for rest.
Improved Quality of Life for Your Loved One: Even in the best facilities, residents may face loneliness. Companions provide deep listening, comfort, and meaningful activities that foster fulfillment and connection, enhancing well-being through every stage of life, right up to the end.
WHY WOULD YOU WANT A DOULA IN AN ASSISTED LIVING , HOSPICE CENTER, OR NURSING HOME FACILITY?
For aging adults in nursing homes or assisted living, I offer personalized companionship and emotional support. My presence provides a safe space for individuals to share thoughts and emotions they may not feel comfortable discussing with others. Whether your loved one desires conversation, spiritual support, or simply peaceful companionship, I am here to offer undivided attention that complements the care provided by facility staff.
WHY DO YOU WORK IN ASSISTED LIVING, HOSPICE CENTERS, NURSING HOMES, OR LONG TERM CARE FACILITIES RATHER THAN PRIVATE HOMES?
I feel called to provide support in settings like assisted living, hospice centers, and nursing homes because these environments allow me to focus entirely on the holistic aspects of care. In these facilities, I can be assured that medical needs are already being attended to by the staff, which allows me to offer additional non-medical support that complements their care. I also believe that individuals in these settings often need extra attention and comfort, as they are usually outside their normal or preferred environment, and I aim to provide that loving presence to help them feel at peace.
WHAT IS HOSPICE?
"The goal of Hospice care is to promote comfort for individuals who are approaching the end of their lives. Hospice care helps to treat pain and other symptoms so that residents and their families can focus on what is important to them with the time they have remaining,"(Minnesota Network of Hospice & Palliative Care, 2010)
WHAT IS A VIGIL?
A vigil is a time period during the last days/hours of life (usually 24-48 hours) when someone keeps watchful presence at the bedside of the dying. During this time, they may follow the dying person's vigil plan (if previously created) and/or tend to the dying person's emotional and spiritual needs through prayer, support, or simply by offering a gentle and peaceful presence.
WHY WOULD ADDITIONAL VIGIL COMPANIONSHIP BE REQUESTED IF A LOVED ONE IS ALREADY IN A CARE SETTING?
Even when individuals are in nursing homes and enrolled in hospice, they are often alone in their rooms. For individuals who wish to have someone present at their bedside during their last days/hours, additional support helps to ensure this wish. A doula offers added support and coverage where hospice and other care providers may be more limited by time and scope of work.
ARE YOU RELIGIOUS?
Doulas come from various faith backgrounds. As a Christian, I stay true to my faith while fully embracing and respecting the beliefs and practices of others. My goal is to honor the wisdom found in all spiritual paths, whether religious, spiritual, or secular. I strive to create a compassionate and open environment that respects each client's unique spiritual journey.
WILL YOU GIVE NURSING, MEDICAL CARE, OR FUNERALS?
No, rather than providing medical care, I walk alongside my clients on their journey offering unconditional support, compassion, and gentle guidance. I listen deeply, ask intuitive questions, hold space, and offer encouragement. I do not provide toileting, ADL assistance, or any medical cares. I can be an extra set of eyes and ears for medical staff and/or family members when I notice a change in condition. Age Well Doula Services LLC is not considered a funeral establishment and I am not a mortician or funeral director.
WHAT TYPES OF PAYMENTS FOR AGING ADULT COMPANION / END OF LIFE DOULA SERVICES DO YOU ACCEPT?
My services come from the heart, with no set or required fee. If you wish to contribute, you are welcome to choose an amount that feels right for you. Your generosity helps me offer care to those who cannot afford it and supports my business and living expenses. I trust that those who can contribute will do so, allowing me to continue providing compassionate care. I accept cash, check, or Venmo. Please note that medical insurance does not cover aging adult companion or certified end-of-life doula services, and contributions are not tax deductible. Guided by my Christian faith and the Holy Spirit, I provide this care with love, trusting that all will work out as it should.
PAYMENTS FOR ARTS / CRAFTS / SUPPLIES: I have many art supplies that I've purchased to use for client projects free of charge. If, however, there will be a fee for a project, such as extra supplies that need to be purchased or for a legacy book through an online publishing service, I will provide an estimate of the cost that would be charged to you prior to purchasing for your approval.
HOW OFTEN DO YOU OFFER YOUR SERVICES?
I typically serve only one client at a time, to ensure that each individual receives my undivided attention. Whether it's a few hours weekly or more extensive assistance, we'll work together, taking into consideration both your preferences and my availability. In the event that I am unable to provide all the services needed, I am committed to assisting you by connecting you with other trusted end-of-life doulas who can offer additional support.
WHERE DO YOU OFFER SERVICES?
I am honored to serve seniors in the Minnetonka community and surrounding areas, who reside in long term care facilities, assisted living facilities, or hospice centers. Please feel free to call or email to check availability.