Looking for info about adoption in Windsor, Connecticut?

I'm in the middle of the process of becoming a foster parent. I would love to hear from any others in the same boat. If you have any questions about the process or are looking for info about how to get involved, let me know!

Here are my answers to the questions I have been getting a lot lately:

How do I get involved?

My main source of info has been the Foster Parent Support Group (FPSG) in Windsor. They have been very helpful and informative. There is also a Facebook group called the Adoption Community, which is very active and supportive.

How much does it cost to be a foster parent?

It's really up to you. Some parents pay for the foster care themselves, while others may choose to receive help from the state. You can find out more here.

When you adopt, do you have to pay anything to the birth mother?

No. You are paying the state for the care of the child. The state covers everything from food to medical expenses.

Do I have to give up my parental rights to the child?

No. You can always petition to regain custody of the child after they are adopted.

When do I become a foster parent?

You can begin the process at any time. If you want to become a foster parent, check out the FPSG and the Facebook group.

What happens when the child is placed in your home?

After the child is placed in your home, you will receive training from the Department of Children and Families. This includes education about how to parent children with disabilities, what to expect during the first few days, and how to make sure the child feels safe.

What happens after the child is placed in your home?

The Department of Children and Families will send you an evaluation and will set up visits. The first visit will be to observe you interacting with the child and to determine whether you are a good fit. After the initial visits, DCF will schedule monthly visits to see how you are doing.

What happens if you want to get the child back?

If you don't feel like the child is fitting in with your family, the Department of Children and Families can petition to take the child back. However, there may be restrictions on when you can get the child back.

What is the process like to adopt?

The adoption process can be overwhelming, especially when you’re considering it for the first time. There are many questions you may have about the process, from how long it takes to complete to what happens after you adopt. Here are answers to some common questions.

When is the deadline to apply?

It’s never too late to apply for an adoption! However, there is a deadline to apply to adopt a child through the Adoption Resource Exchange (ARE) of the state of Connecticut. This deadline varies based on the age of the child, and can range from one month to two years. For example, if a child is under six months old, the deadline is one month. If a child is older than one year and under four years old, the deadline is two years.

How long does it take to complete the application?

Adopting a child from the state of Connecticut is a lengthy process. The typical timeline can take anywhere from six to eight months, although it may take longer depending on your personal situation. During this time, you will be contacted by someone at the adoption agency to discuss your application.

After the application is submitted, it will go through the vetting process. The adoption agency will check your criminal background and run your credit reports. They will also check references and your financial situation. Once the agency is satisfied with your application, they will send you a letter stating that they are accepting applications for your child. This letter is not an acceptance. After this, you may start the home study process.

What is a home study?

A home study is an investigation into your personal situation and your ability to care for a child. Your home will be inspected by the adoption agency. You may need to meet with a professional who specializes in child development. A licensed social worker or psychologist will evaluate your family dynamics and your child’s needs. The adoption agency may also conduct a family meeting to speak to family members and friends who will live with you. If the agency is satisfied with the results, they will make a decision to either approve or deny your application.