How long does it take to adopt a child?
Adopting a child is a big decision, and we wanted to make it easier for people to navigate the adoption process. To do this, we’ve compiled a list of common questions and answers to help prospective parents get ready for their adoption journey.
Questions about adoption
1. Do I need to be pregnant to adopt?
No. You don’t have to be pregnant to adopt a child. Many people who adopt children are either pregnant or have recently given birth.
2. How much does it cost to adopt?
The average adoption cost is about $30,000.
3. Are there any financial restrictions?
Yes. The IRS does not allow adoptive parents to claim a dependency exemption for an adopted child on their federal tax returns. The exemption would be considered income, which is taxed at rates of 28 percent for individuals and 39.6 percent for couples. The same is true if an adoptive parent claims a child as a dependent on his or her state income tax return.
4. What happens to my family after the adoption?
You and your family are able to maintain the same insurance coverage. Adoptive parents are required to notify their health insurance providers of the adoption.
5. How long does it take to adopt?
The typical time frame to adopt is 2 years.
6. Can I choose the gender of my child?
Yes. There are no set guidelines regarding the gender of an adopted child. You are free to choose the gender of your child.
7. Do I need to meet the child first?
No. Adoptive parents are free to choose whether to meet the child before the final adoption is finalized.
8. Will my child need therapy?
No. There are no specific guidelines regarding therapy for adopted children, but it is usually recommended that children receive counseling or therapy.
9. What age is my child eligible to be adopted?
There are no guidelines about the age of an adopted child.
10. How do I find an agency to help me with the adoption process?
It depends on where you live. Some states have online adoption websites that can help you search for a licensed adoption agency near you.
11. Can I still be my child’s primary caregiver if I am adopting?
Yes. Your child will be placed with an adoptive family, but you can still act as the child’s primary caregiver.
12. What are the steps of the adoption process?
The process for adoption varies by state. If you are interested in adopting, you should contact a local adoption agency to learn more.
13. What are the risks associated with adoption?
Adoption has risks and benefits. Read more about them in our blog post, “The Pros and Cons of Adoption.”
14. Is there a stigma attached to adoption?
No. There is no stigma attached to adoption.
15. Why does my child need to have a home study?
A home study is a safety and background check that is performed on a potential adoptive family. It looks at factors such as criminal records and drug use.
16. Will I be able to get a refund if I don’t want to adopt?
No. The IRS does not allow adoptive parents to claim a dependency exemption for an adopted child on their federal tax returns. The exemption would be considered income, which is taxed at rates of 28 percent for individuals and 39.6 percent for couples. The same is true if an adoptive parent claims a child as a dependent on his or her state income tax return.
17. What are the pros and cons of adoption?
Adoption has both pros and cons. Here are the top pros and cons of adoption.
18. What are some of the legal issues surrounding adoption?
Adoption raises a number of important legal issues. You should consult a lawyer to learn more about the legal aspects of adoption.
19. Will I be able to adopt a special needs child?
Some states are beginning to allow families to adopt special needs children. This is still a developing area of law. You should consult a lawyer to learn more about the legal aspects of adoption.
20. Are there adoption agencies in Windsor, Connecticut?
Windsor, CT has an active adoption community. Find an adoption agency in Windsor, CT by searching our directory.
21. Will I be able to see my child after the adoption?
Yes. You will be able to visit your child when you go to the adoption court for your final adoption hearing.
22. Can I travel to another state to meet my child?
If your child is older than three months of age, you may be required to travel to the state where your child resides. Some states will allow the adoption agency to handle the travel arrangements, while others require you to make these arrangements on your own.
23. How can I know if I’m ready to adopt?
The best way to know if you are ready to adopt is to ask yourself if you are willing to make the necessary sacrifices to care for a child. This includes making sure you have adequate health insurance coverage, financial resources, and emotional stability.
24. How can I learn more about adoption?
If you have any more questions about adoption, please reach out to our adoption agency.