Hormones and changing bodies, locker combinations and big campuses, bullies and crushes: Is it any wonder that some middle school students let their grades slip? But even the most flustered kids can succeed when they receive a little extra help at home.
Middle school can be a confusing time, for parents as well as for their kids. Your child is becoming more independent yet still needs your support as much as ever. While you may decide to allow your child more freedom in some areas, be sure to stay actively involved in your child’s school. Research shows that children whose parents are engaged in their education are more likely to achieve academic success. Here are some tips for getting involved in your child’s middle school learning experience.
Get to know the teachers. It’s a good idea to meet each of your child’s teachers. Ask about their expectations. Find out how much time your child should spend on homework each night. Find out whether there will be regularly scheduled tests and if so, when. Ask about the best way to get in touch if you have questions.
Go to school meetings and events. Attending concerts, plays, assemblies, meetings, and other activities is a good way to become familiar with your child’s school community.
Find out about homework assignments and school tests. Get in the habit of checking your AERIES parent portal regularly. Also, check with your child's teachers to find out where the teacher lists homework and other assignments.
Stay involved and show consistent interest. Talk to your child about school, ask specific questions to draw out your child. Ask “How do you think you did on the math test?” “What did you like best at school today?” “What games did you play in PE?”.
Give your child a quiet place to study and do homework. Find an area in your home that is free of distraction where your middle schooler can concentrate on homework. Be available to help if your child has a question.
Check your child’s homework, but don’t do the work for her. Offer to check math problems, proofread written papers, and look over spelling words. If you find a mistake, point it out to your child and help her figure out the correct answer.
Post a family calendar in a central place. Write down important school dates, including parent meetings, due dates for projects, and tests. Encourage your middle schooler to add to the calendar and to check it daily.
It is important for students to improve areas of relative struggle, but your child's future lies in their strength. Help your student to identify and develop their talents and strengths.
Teachers, counselors, and administrators are here to help your child get the best education possible. Working together as a team is the best way to help your child succeed in school.
Nothing will affect the kinds of opportunities your child will have in life more than education. Make education a top priority in your home.