Tools for Parents


Articles/Books

Kindergarten Separation Anxiety

Back to School Anxiety

Helping Kids Handle Worry

Parenting Tips

Anxiety & Anxiety Disorders in Children

Tips for Calming Anxious Kids

What to Do (and Not Do) When Children Are Anxious

72 Phrases to Calm an Anxious Child


The Behavior Code Companion, Jessica Minahan

When Worries Win-Over: Anxiety in Elementary School Students, Samantha (Leney) Ruggiero

Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents: 7 Ways to Stop the Worry Cycle and Raise Courageous & Independent Children, Reed Wilson & Lynn Lyons

Helping Your Anxious Child: A Step-by-Step Guide for Parents, Ronald Rapee PhD, et al

GoZenPlus_EightAnxietyReliefTools.pdf

Books to Read with Your Child

Title: You’ve Got Dragons

Author: Kathryn Cave

Ages: 5-9

Description: A little boy is afraid of dragons (representing every day worries), it describes physical worry responses such as rumbly stomach and shaky knees and gives some tips at the end as well.


Title: Is a Worry Worrying You?

Author: Ferida Wolff

Age: 4-8

Description: This book addresses different ways of dealing with worries from confronting it to using happy thoughts, humorous


Title: Silly Billy

Author: Anthony Browne

Ages:

Description: This book is about a little boy who worries about a variety of things, his grandmother introduces him to the concept of worry dolls and using his imagination to overcome fears.


Title: Ready for Anything

Author: Keiko Kasz

Ages: 3-8

Description: This story gives examples of two friends with different thinking styles and how positive and negative thinking affect experiences.

Title: Cool Cats, Calm Kids

Author: Mary L Williams

Age: 7-12

Description: This book offers practical strategies for relaxation and stress management, through the world of a cat.


Title: When My Worries Get Too Big

Author: Kari Dunn Buron

Ages: 5-8

Description: This books includes activities for teachers and parents included with a children’s book to develop self-regulation and calming strategies.


Title: David and the Worry Beast

Author: Anne Marie Guanci

Ages: 4-9

Description: Story on conquering fears, and not avoiding them. Strategies on controlling the “worry beast.”


Title: Wilma Jean the Worry Machine

Author: Julia Cook

Ages: 7-12

Description: Humorous book that addresses common worries and strategies that can be used to lessen the severity of the response. Very child friendly.


Title: Violet’s Cloudy Day

Author: Roz MacLean

Ages: 4-8

Description: First day of school jitters that turn into worry clouds that follow the child around. Strategies for managing anxiety including how to be a resilient and empowered thinker, using positive self talk and a self-compassionate attitude to overcome anxiety.


Title: Peaceful Piggy’s Meditation

Author: Kerry Lea MaClean

Agues: 3-9

Description: The young pigs in this story use meditation to deal with a busy and stressful world. Finding peace and calm.


Title: Wemberly Worried

Autho: Kevin Henkes

Ages: 4-8

Description: Wemberly worries about a lot of different things, especially her first day of school. She does end up meeting a friend who also worries which seems to help. This book introduces children to the idea of having worries. It is a good beginning point to discuss coping strategies.


Title: The Invisible String

Author: Patrice Karst Links

Ages 4-8 years

Description: This books describes how even if we can’t always be with our loved ones, we are always connected by our hearts. Good for discussions of separation, loss, and death as well.


Title: What to Do When You Worry Too Much: A Kid’s Guide to Overcoming Anxiety

Author: Dawn Huebner

Ages: 6-12

Description: An interactive book that uses cognitive behavior strategies to help children overcome worries. Having specified worry time, naming the worries or creating a worry box are some of the tools suggested in this book that includes opportunities for drawing.

Videos

Separation Anxiety

Progressive Muscle Relaxation

Guided Relaxation

What is Mindfulness?

Mindfulness Meditation