identity

Gender is something beyond two sexes (male and female) , it’s

something very personal. at present where world is growing at fast pace we need to identify a person by their talent , instead of how they perceive themselves or what there sexual preferences are . society has constructed barriers of what a male or female should do. from childhood onwards we have been taught that a boy will play with cars and a girl will play with dolls , ever asked why ? Why a boy can not play with dolls and a girl can not ride cars ? not only toys but costume orientation also begins at very root level , pink frock for new born princess and a blue suit for little prince . Due to these teachings of parents which are totally inappropriate and illogical ,it becomes so difficult for a child to come out as who they really are in front of them and pressure of fitting into there mould ( fitting a cube into a sphere) leads to deep psychological effects . Norms or rules such as good girls stay at homes and a men who disrespect girls roaming around are macho , makes this society even worse to reveal our own identity . yes , our true gender defines a part of our identity , but the social norms that comes in two group of sexes male and female definitely do not defines identity of a person . It’s a personal choice to appear , to behave feminine or manly . to love male body , female body or both . to stay as a male , female or any other they choose.

ASK CHILDREN TO BE A GOOD PERSON 1^ST AND LET THEIR GENDER BE THERE CHOICE THEN.

TOO BLACK , TOO WHITE , TOO THIN , TOO FAT , TOO TALL ,

TOO SHORT , ETC.

Physical features are just to identify appearance it has nothing to do with a once identity other than the visual image . we humans are always in a race to proof ourselves but i think beauty is something what we have inherited in our genes and is nothing to show off for , if we have transformed us than it can be one part of our identity . or if we have any challenge that we face in our body functioning than too it can not decide what can we do and what we can not , a person's will to do a task matters more than any other thing . we were created by this universe and universe is always original while creating , so everyone has something unique in there physical features so we can just identify the person , example even in identical twins there is a slight difference which make them unique in there own way. not just the features we get by birth but also how everyone likes to appear comes in physical identity . even in one family we live we can observe everyone have there own unique style which express them . according to me or as far as i have observed we try to represent our thoughts , our group , our culture , our profession , n all we are through the way we dress up and style .

LIVE FREELY THE WAY GOD CREATED YOU AND EXPRESS BOLDLY THE REAL PERSON IN YOU .