I've also been informed that the school is going on tours, at least one so far, to another public school to decide if its suitable for Lacey. They emailed me talking about this other school and its reputation for its behavioral program and 'invited me' to attend. Knowing I have transportation issues that require time for me to come up with transportation and that my team has busy schedules and also require time for all 3 of them to come together on dates and times. So they are touring schools with me, deciding what's best for Lacey without me, and it's pretty clear regardless of what we think or feel they are going to do what they want. WHY do I have to keep reminding them this is about more then behavior, oh that's right, they don't recognize her diagnosis.