Premarital
The premarital/pre-engagement "program" includes:
an online inventory (Prepare/Enrich) of the relationship
6 to 9 sessions (50 minutes each) spread out over whatever period of time is convenient
regular homework tailored to your availability and resources for further growth
Areas covered:
assessment of boundary issues
elements of differentiation
stages of couple development
influence of family of origin on couple relationship
vicarious living and othering
Enneagram workup (if desired)
marriage expectations
personality issues
communication and conflict resolution
the 4 horsemen: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling
sex and intimacy
finances
children and parenting expectations
expectations around martial roles
expectations regarding spiritual practices
leisure activity compatibility issues
cross-cultural issues (if relevant)
Family System Evaluation (if time allows)
traditions and tools for couple enrichment
In general, the majority of the sessions are given to the most prominent issue(s) in your particular relationship. The items on the list above are not given equal time.