The moment I held my tiny bundle of joy nine years ago, my heart whispered that our family was complete — that life had given me all I ever needed. When you live in a nuclear family, one of the biggest challenges is having to care for your baby entirely on your own. Balancing your career while trying to be the best mother you can be can take a real toll on you. That was the reason I didn’t want another child. Despite my mother’s constant reminders and gentle persuasion, I never paid heed to her. It was my daughter’s heartfelt wish for a sibling that gently stirred something within me and made me reconsider what I once thought was final.
Our second baby — a little boy — arrived on 7th August 2025, filling our home with new joy and laughter. My daughter has been on cloud nine ever since. For her, he’s the best gift she could have ever asked for — her favorite “living toy.” She’s like a little mother to him, from changing his diapers to dancing to silly songs just to make him smile. Her constant complaints about having no one to play with have completely vanished. And their father? He’s embracing this new chapter with renewed energy and a heart full of happiness.
With a smile that rarely leaves my face, I adore my little cupcake, who turns three months old today. The first month was quite tough as I navigated through the many postpartum challenges — both physical and emotional. Our home has transformed in the most delightful way: new almirahs filled with tiny, adorable clothes, shelves stacked with endless packets of diapers, and a gentle chaos that feels oddly comforting. The house buzzes with life — and so does my mind, like a field of Brownian motion. My thoughts constantly bounce between caring for the baby, diving into my research, and sneaking moments to read a new book.
It’s true — motherhood reveals parts of yourself you never knew existed. You discover a patience you didn’t know you possessed, and a boundless capacity to care and nurture. I’ve learned that this phase, though demanding, shouldn’t drain you completely. Seek help whenever you can — lean on your mother, your family, or even a trusted nanny. It’s perfectly okay to take a break. A rejuvenated mom is far better than an exhausted one, because only when you care for yourself can you truly give your best to your little one.
(7 November 2025)