เรื่อง bad behavior

Read the passage and answer the question

Here are the behaviors to look out for:

1. Having angry reactions to feedback instead of being open to it.

Communication is key to a close relationship. However, when we establish a fantasy bond, we tend to become increasingly closed off to real dialogue, or a kind and compassionate way of exchanging impressions and ideas. Instead, we tend to be defensive and have angry or intimidating overreactions to feedback from our partner; these shut our partner down. Whether we punish our partner by emotionally breaking down, giving them the silent treatment, or screaming at them, we’re telling them that we don’t want to hear what they have to say. We may provoke additional emotional distance by saying things we know will sting our partner the most.

2. Being closed to new experiences instead of open to new things.

In every relationship, it’s important to maintain a sense of ourselves as a unique person. When we get involved with someone new, it should expand our world, not shrink it. When we first fall in love, we tend to be open to new things. However, when we start to engage in a fantasy bond, we tend to adopt roles and routines that limit us and close us down to new experiences. We may become more rigid and automatic in our responses. “You know I don’t like that restaurant,” or “We always see a movie on Saturday night.” It actually hurts the relationship when we stop being free and open to developing new shared interests. It can foster real resentment between partners. While no one should force themselves to do things they really don’t want to do, shutting down the part of ourselves that seeks new experiences and responds to a spark in our partner can drain us of our aliveness and

3. Using deception and duplicity instead of honesty and integrity.

Most of us know from experience that we can drive each other crazy when our words and actions fail to match. Unfortunately, deception and duplicity are common in relationships. There are a lot of mixed messages based on people saying one thing and doing another. Examples include:

• Saying “I really love you,” but acting like you don’t have any time to spend with your partner.

• Saying “I want to be close to you,” then constantly criticizing your partner when he or she is around.

• Saying “I’m not interested in other people,” but flirting with everyone else at the bar.

The actions that contradict these words do not look like love. They represent a fantasy of being close but without real relating, essentially putting form over substance. Double messages like these mess with another person’s reality, which can be considered a basic human rights violation, not to mention a huge threat to lasting, loving relationships.

Q1 (2 points)

From the above picture, the following passage has both true and false

The points that support the passage are true ,check X in the space Yes

The points that do not support the passage are false ,check X in the space No