Next, get a small notebook to bring to sessions. You can use it for journaling, notes, homework, resources, and progress on your goals. To prepare mentally and emotionally for the session, try these steps:
- Set goals. Communicate your needs, understand your therapy goals. Ask yourself, "If I could improve my life/or relationship, what would that look like? What difference would that make for me?" List your top priorities for therapy and bring that list with you to session.
- Think about what gets in the way of feeling at your best. Write down any problems or symptoms, noting when they started and whether they get worse in particular situations.
- How healthy is your family? Just 3 minutes to take this free evaluation of family functioning from Family Therapy Institute. Email the results. Heck, why not buy the book How's Your Family Really Doing?
- Take a health assessment. Wonder if you have a mental health condition? Complete an assessment at HealthGrades.com. You'll find out if you might suffer from a condition, along with coping tips. Email the results, and we'll discuss it so I can help you most effectively.
- Arrive early to catch your breath in the lobby. When you're relaxed, you'll be able to think clearly. I will be with you shortly, but feel free to text my number 805-633-0625 once you are here.
- Questions? Here are frequently asked questions that might help.