Do NOT apply DoF blur to the motion vector pass if you're using AE. The DoF has already been applied to the beauty pass layer within the precomp.
You may find you also have to precomp the depth pass for it to be used properly.
COMP
-> Motion Vector pass
-> Precomp_beauty +RSMB
___|-> Beauty pass +Lenscare or other DOF effect
___|-> Precomp_depth
______ |-> Depth pass
Beauty pass with depth and then a separately saved motion vector pass (as Celshader describes here: http://64.62.198.35/showthread.php?t=127783&page=2). The beauty pass goes in a precomp with lenscare using the DOF from the depth pass. Then RSMB is applied to the precomp taking the motion vector info from the motion vector pass (though sometimes you can just fudge it with RSMB without bothering with the motion vectors and depending on the shot it'll look ok). That or lots of separate render passes for objects for more control.