http://12step.org/the-12-steps/step-1/
http://aaa12stepcccsociety.blogspot.ca/2016/12/today-i-bring-willingness-and-open-mind.html
http://aaa12stepcccsociety.blogspot.ca/2017/09/sharing-friend-or-sponsor-12-step.html
The fact is that most alcoholics, for reasons yet obscure, have lost the power of choice in drink. Our so-called willpower becomes practically non-existent. We are unable, at certain times, to bring into our consciousness with sufficient force the memory of the suffering and humiliation of even a week or a month ago. We are without defense against the first drink.
A.A. Big Book, p. 24
(You can substitute appropriate terms for your own addiction in place of alcoholics and drink if your addiction is different than alcohol)
http://aaa12stepcccsociety.blogspot.ca/2016/12/today-i-bring-willingness-and-open-mind.html
The readiness is all.
--William Shakespeare
Newcomer
I went to two different Step meetings this week, in different parts of
town, and both of them were on the Fourth Step. I keep hearing that
"there are no coincidences."
Does this mean I'm supposed to start the Fourth Step now?
How do I know if I'm ready?
Sponsor
First of all, I'm glad to hear that you're going to Step meetings,
and I encourage you to keep it up. Your willingness has brought
you a long way already, and it continues to be the key.
In approaching a new Step, I find it useful to ask myself if I've taken
the Steps that precede it in a complete, whole-hearted way.
I review Step One and remember why I'm on this path of recovery
in the first place: addiction brought me to spiritual depths I don't
want to sink to again.
Reviewing Step Two reminds me that I'm not alone, and that I have
faith that I'll be given what I need to become a whole and free person
again.
Step Three reminds me that I've made a decision. I'm willing to do
what's necessary for recovery and to trust the process. I remember
that I only have to do my part; my progress in recovery isn't entirely
up to me. My Higher Power will do the rest. When I reach Step Four,
I trust that in the process of writing about the events of my addictive
life, I'll be taken care of.
Today, I bring willingness and an open mind to the next stop in my
recovery. I relax and trust that I am not alone.