Arohaina

Value

Whakahiko

Engage

Whakamana

Empower

Rarangahia

Connect

• Do I consistently show love and affection to my child, both through words and actions? 

• Am I an active and empathetic listener when my child wants to talk or share their thoughts and feelings? 

• How can I create a supportive and nonjudgmental environment where my child feels comfortable expressing themselves and their emotions? 

• Am I actively involved in my child's interests, hobbies, and activities, showing that I value what matters to them? 

• Do I provide positive reinforcement and praise for their efforts and accomplishments, no matter how small? 

• How can I model self-compassion and self-acceptance so that my child learns to value themselves as they are? 

• Am I helping my child develop a growth mindset by emphasizing the importance of learning from mistakes and setbacks? 

• What can I do to ensure my child understands and appreciates their unique qualities, strengths, and talents? 

• Do I set aside dedicated one-on-one time with my child, providing opportunities for bonding and shared experiences? 

• How can I teach my child about empathy and kindness, helping them value the feelings and well-being of others? 

• Am I fostering a sense of gratitude in my child by encouraging them to appreciate the people, experiences, and opportunities in their life? 

• What strategies can I use to build their self-esteem and confidence, promoting a positive self-image? 

• Am I showing enthusiasm and curiosity about the world around me? 

• How can I create a home environment that supports learning and exploration? 

• Do I actively engage in conversations with my child about their interests and what they are learning in school? 

• Am I allowing my child to explore their interests and passions, even if they differ from my own? 

• How can I limit screen time and create a healthy balance between technology and other activities? 

• Do I provide opportunities for my child to engage in extracurricular activities or hobbies they are passionate about? 

• Am I praising their efforts and curiosity rather than just their achievements? 

• What can I do to make learning fun and enjoyable at home? 

• Do I allow my child to take breaks and unwind when needed, respecting their need for downtime? 

• How can I connect their learning to real-world experiences and opportunities for exploration? 

• Am I fostering a love of reading by providing a variety of books and reading materials?

• Do I provide positive reinforcement and encouragement when my child shows curiosity and engagement in different activities? 

• Do I provide opportunities for my child to make age-appropriate choices and decisions in their daily life?

• How can I support my child in setting and working toward their own goals, whether they are academic, personal, or extracurricular?

• Am I encouraging my child to take on age-appropriate responsibilities and chores at home, helping them develop a sense of accountability?

• What strategies can I use to foster a growth mindset in my child, emphasizing that effort and perseverance lead to improvement and success?

• Do I actively listen to my child's ideas, opinions, and concerns, and do I take them seriously in family discussions?

• How can I provide guidance and resources for my child to pursue their interests and passions, both inside and outside of school?

• Am I helping my child develop problem-solving skills by asking open-ended questions and encouraging them to find their own solutions?

• What role can I play in helping my child overcome challenges and setbacks, teaching them resilience and coping strategies?

• How can I create an environment at home where my child feels comfortable expressing themselves and their emotions?

• Do I encourage my child to advocate for themselves in appropriate situations, such as at school or with peers?

• How can I model confidence and self-empowerment in my own actions and decisions?

• Am I providing positive reinforcement and praise for my child's efforts and achievements, boosting their self-esteem?

• Am I actively listening when my child talks to me, giving them my full attention and showing that I value their thoughts and feelings?

• How can I create a safe and open environment at home where my child feels comfortable sharing their concerns, joys, and experiences?

• Do I regularly engage in activities or hobbies that my child enjoys, finding ways to connect over shared interests?

• Am I modeling positive and respectful interactions in my relationships with family members and others?

• What opportunities can I provide for my child to spend quality time with extended family members or friends to build connections outside the immediate family?

• How can I support my child in building and maintaining friendships, such as facilitating playdates or encouraging social activities?

• Am I helping my child develop empathy and an understanding of others' feelings and perspectives through discussions and examples?

• Do I celebrate and acknowledge important milestones and achievements in my child's life, no matter how small?

• What strategies can I use to encourage my child to express their gratitude and appreciation for the people in their life?

• Am I setting aside dedicated family time for bonding activities, like family dinners or outings?

• How can I create a sense of belonging and shared responsibility within our family, involving my child in decision-making or household tasks?

• Do I address conflicts and disagreements within the family in a constructive and empathetic manner, modeling healthy conflict resolution?