CODE OF CONDUCT

CODE OF CONDUCT

Our group's main goal is to foster connections and networking among local ABDLs in the vibrant NYC area. To ensure everyone's safety and enjoyment at our events, we have implemented a set of specific rules that all our attendees must adhere to. These rules not only provide a secure environment but also establish a clear understanding of our event procedures.

By strictly enforcing these rules, we guarantee a harmonious and respectful atmosphere for all participants. Any violation of these guidelines will result in a kindly request to leave the event, along with a temporary ban ranging from 12-42 months, to ensure a continued safe environment for everyone.

We kindly ask for your cooperation in upholding these rules, as they play a crucial role in maintaining the integrity and positivity of our group. Your commitment to compliance will not only ensure a pleasant experience for yourself but also contribute to the collective enjoyment of all participants.

To ensure a smooth experience for everyone, we kindly ask all attendees to kindly adhere to the instructions given by our moderators, volunteers, security personnel, and staff. If you happen to have any concerns or need clarification, we recommend following the provided instructions first and then reaching out to a friendly staff member for any further assistance. They'll be more than happy to help!

Together, let's create a vibrant community where every ABDL can feel a sense of belonging and thrive in their shared interests. Remember, by respecting these rules, you are actively shaping the future of NYC ABDL events as an inclusive and welcoming experience. Thank you for your understanding, and we look forward to seeing you at our upcoming events!

HARASSMENT 

NYC ABDL firmly commits to offering a safe and inclusive environment for everyone, irrespective of their age, race, gender, gender identity or expression, sexual orientation, disability, physical appearance, or personal beliefs. We adamantly condemn any form of harassment and view it as a grave violation of our code of conduct. It is our unwavering policy to enforce this code across all individuals involved in organizing our events.

We believe in the importance of granting each individual the respect and space they deserve. If someone explicitly expresses the desire to be left alone, we must honor and uphold their wishes. By doing so, we not only demonstrate our commitment to fostering a positive atmosphere, but we also promote the values of empathy, understanding, and consent.

Together, let us build a community that champions inclusivity, promotes respectful interactions, and celebrates diversity. Our collective efforts create an environment where everyone feels secure, valued, and free from the burdens of harassment. Join us in creating a truly welcoming space for all, and let us work hand in hand to ensure the enjoyment and well-being of every participant in our events.

AGE POLICY

• All party attendees must be at least 18 - 21 years old, depending on the specific party you wish to attend.

o   If anyone is found to not meet the age requirement and attempts to enter the event, they will kindly be asked to leave.

• Please ensure you bring your valid identification to gain entry to these events. We kindly ask that you present your identification at the door before attending any of the events.

o   If you forget to bring it, we won't be able to let you in.

• Please note that individuals who disregard the age policy may face a temporary ban lasting from 12 to 42 months.

• Here are the Parties that you can enjoy if you're 18 and above.

o   The Littles Party

o   NYC ABDL Uptown Munch

• Here are the Parties that you can enjoy if you're 21 and above.

o   Diaper Happy Hour

o   Padded Gamerz

HOW TO CARRY YOURSELF 

NYC ABDL warmly welcomes both private and public events to create an inclusive and enjoyable atmosphere for all participants. To ensure that every attendee has a memorable and respectfully comfortable experience, we kindly request the observance of appropriate behavior at all times.

We kindly ask our attendees to refrain from any form of nudity or display of genitalia during our events. By adhering to this guideline, we aim to maintain a welcoming ambiance where everyone feels at ease and respected.

Moreover, we kindly request that all displays of affection during our events are in line with what can be considered appropriate for a general audience. By refraining from any actions that may be considered inappropriate, we can guarantee that every individual feels comfortable and valued throughout their time with us.

Together, let us foster an environment of acceptance, respect, and enjoyment for all attendees. By complying with these guidelines, we can create an unforgettable experience that celebrates diversity and embraces the unique bond that brings us all together.

• Everyone, regardless of how they identify or their level of experience in the community, is warmly invited to attend NYC ABDL events.

• We don't allow hate speech or any clothing or visuals that are commonly associated with hate speech. It's simply not acceptable here, under any circumstances.

• For any public spaces outside of the private venue areas, it's important to keep it casual and relaxed by wearing everyday clothing like street clothes or simple attire, without any kink clothing or gear in sight.

o   You can totally rock onesies at the event, just make sure your diapers are nicely concealed.

• It’s crucial to prioritize consent in every interaction. Let's create a welcoming space together—no room for creepy behavior!

• AGAIN NUDITY IS NOT ALLOWED! Please keep this in mind when posting photos! Cover your bits and pieces, and no visible

• Please refrain from stealing photos! If you share someone else's photo without permission, we kindly request that you leave. However, we encourage you to consider adding watermarks to your photos as it can be a great idea

• Please remember to be considerate when connecting with others. Send a friendly message before sending a friend request—it's all about consent and good manners! Always make sure to ask for permission first, before any further actions.

• Please make sure to leave any personal issues outside of our community. Being part of a community sometimes means having to interact with people you may not particularly like, for the sake of others.

o   If you come across someone in the group who is offensive, creepy, or simply a negative influence, kindly see the moderators and we will handle the situation. Remember, any private messages you share with any admin will remain confidential.

HOUSE RULES

NYC ABDL believes in creating a welcoming and enjoyable atmosphere for everyone coming to our events. To make sure of this, we've created a set of house rules that provide designated party areas while promoting responsible conduct. It would be greatly appreciated if you could go through the following guidelines and policies to ensure that your party aligns with our rules and the regulations of our private venue. Thank you for your cooperation!

Although this is the norm at most events, we believe it's crucial to kindly remind everyone about our rules when they attend one of our events. We do this to ensure that no one has a "Oh, I didn't know" moment and to create an atmosphere free from drama. Above all, we prioritize everyone's safety. If you have any questions, concerns, or suggestions about our rules and regulations, please don't hesitate to reach out to us via inbox. We truly value your input!

• Do not touch anyone or their things before asking, EVER.

• Everybody is equal REGARDLESS of how you identify.

• Respect the privacy of scenes in progress. DO NOT INTERRUPT.

• Keep all conversations to respectful conversational volume.

• Keep your play scenes safe.

• If you aren't sure, ask.

• Respect people's privacy.

• No Pestering.

• No Violence, threats or Challenging.

• House Safe Words "RED" and "YELLOW"

• You are responsible for your guest's behavior.

• You attend at your own risk.

• If you have a concern, please address it with us. No matter how small you may think it is.

• Coat check is available to guests. We are not responsible for any lost or stolen items

• Clean up your play space. Cleaning materials are provided.

We will hold everyone to these standards and there is a 1-strike policy. Anyone who cannot conduct themselves in a courteous and socially appropriate manner will be escorted off the premises and excluded from any future events.

OUR MISSION is to create a space for everyone regardless of race, gender, sexual orientation, social status, etc... we are ALL on this journey of finding ourselves let's make it an environment that is memorable for everybody and everyBODY.

Diapers, Changing and Body Fluids 

During certain events, it is absolutely fine to have visible diapers, unless we have specifically mentioned that they are not allowed. It is important that the diapers cover all private areas at all times.

We kindly request everyone attending NYC ABDL or any public event to refrain from defecating or leaving any feces. We want to ensure a clean and comfortable environment for everyone to enjoy.

If you have any disabilities, we kindly ask that you inform us in advance. We will do our best to accommodate your needs and please remember to be discreet and maintain good hygiene.

It's important to ensure that bodily fluids and feces are never visible. In case of an accident, we kindly request you to promptly clean up after yourself.

Our amazing sponsors are providing free diapers for all of you lovely folks attending! We kindly request that each person take only one, so we can ensure everyone gets their fair share. Let's make sure there are enough for everyone to enjoy!

Please remember that diaper changes should happen only in the designated changing areas and used diapers should be properly disposed of in the designated trash areas. Thank you for helping us keep things clean and tidy!

NYC ABDL TELEGRAM RULES

Please introduce yourself and tell us a bit about yourself. A moderator will then invite you into the main group chat.

•Your name/age/pronouns

•General area where you live

•Your experience in the abdl community

•What you're looking for in the abdl community

Please also read and confirm that you have read the group general guidelines and rules below:

1. This channel is 18+, SFW, and fetish friendly. Kinky discussions are welcome. Likewise "tasteful" diaper pictures are ok. But please do not post NSFW content or low quality crotch shots, etc.

2. Please be respectful.

3. Racism, sexism, transphobia, hate speech and harassment will not tolerated.

4. Please ask to pm. Do not mass message members of the chat.

5. Feel free to invite anyone into abdl that is 18+ to this lobby chat. While this group is geared towards the local community, we want to be a group that can also help visiting abdls find events and engage with the community!

CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS

We trust that anyone attending any NYC ABDL events are thoroughly familiar with our rules as we progress in organizing events and ensuring a secure and welcoming environment for all. We take great efforts to ensure that all attendees not only feel safe but are confident that they can contact an admin should any conduct violations occur.

NYC ABDL implements a strict policy functioning under a one strike rule, meaning we will issue a warning only once. Anyone who breaks the rules after receiving this warning can expect an immediate ban lasting 6 to 12 months from all NYC ABDL events. This would result in removal from all associated platforms, bars, groups, and organizations who will also be informed of the ban and why it was imposed. 

To regain admission, you would be required to submit a written apology to both the organization and the communities you put in danger.