1. Graduated college
2. Got a well paying job that is fun
3. Be in a stable, committed relationship
4. Had kids
5. Got a family pet
6. Bought a house; interior designed a room in it
7. Have continued my dance career
8. Gone on a life changing trip/vacation
9. Gone to a concert
10. To have made existing friendships last
"Not every no is a rejection, sometimes no is simply a not yet." -Martha Nichols