Student: I would like to meet with you if possible. My grandfather has been in hospice and it has been very difficult.
Teacher: Get to the assignment when you can. There is only so much time to be with your grandfather; the assignment can wait. Take care and don't worry. I want you to succeed too! I know you can.
Student: Thank you so much. I lost my grandfather today and I was able to be with him everyday this week and last night I saw your email and I stayed longer with him. Words cannot express how I appreciate your sympathy.
Student: I feel so overwhelmed and last week I tried to get back to routine but didn't realize I still was not myself. I was one of my grandfathers caregivers so I think that is why it hit me a little harder.
I do appreciate all your help Professor but I know I need to start getting into my classes. Where do you suggest I start? I know I won't get an A in the class but I really hope I can still pass.
Teacher: Why couldn't you still get an A? In any other job you are granted bereavement time. For now start with Module 2b with the rest of the class.
We can catch you up on 1B and 2A later....I will give you full credit when you complete them- any time until December! See-you can still get an A and catch up in small increments throughout the semester!
It is ok to need time to remember and honor your grandfather.
Student: You are amazing! Your willingness to help me is so encouraging and I can't thank you enough. I promise you I will get all my assignments turned in and on time from this point forward! Again, thank you so much for being willing to go out of your way to help me succeed in your class!
Outcome: Student completed all work successfully and at an extremely high level- they received an A+