1. HOMEWORK
Homework, even if routine, should not be viewed as optional, any more than is an assignment or project at your place of work.
2. BE A CHEERLEADER
Some children do poorly in school because they see themselves as unworthy. For a child to feel good about learning, he/she must first feel good about himself/herself. Encourage your child by praising him for their efforts. Express interest in school work.
3. MAKE NO EXCUSES
Avoid giving your child a reason for making excuses. Even if you think your child will feel better if you do so, never say this sort of thing: "Some people just don't have a head for math." Your child may think that you think she/he isn't able to handle a task. Success in a future job will require your child to do the best she/he can. You will not help your child by encouraging her to make excuses whenever it is convenient.
4. LIGHT A FIRE
Be enthusiastic! It can be contagious. Don't give the message that homework is a boring chore. Children who do well enjoy learning. If your child does not seem motivated to do well in school, try to find ways to make the learning fun.
5. MAKE LEARNING "REAL"
The best learning is hands‑on. Show how school work skills are needed and used in day to day life. For example, a child who helps make a meal learns fractions, telling time, reading and multistep problem solving. Show your child what is under the hood when you work on the car. Ask for "help" when you balance the checkbook or write "thank you" notes and letters. Have your child jot down notes, reminders and shopping lists.
6. FIGHT THE FRUSTRATION
Listen carefully when your child talks about having difficulty with his homework.
Encourage him to break down problems into small steps. Get to know your child's teachers and what they expect.