Min (Our mother's) Stories

Real Voices, Real Journeys Through Post-Separation Abuse & Coercive Control

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Mums In Need (MIN) has one clear mission: to empower mums facing the trauma of coercive control and domestic abuse. We are dedicated to helping them rebuild their lives and create a safe future for themselves and their children. But the real impact of our work lies in the stories of the women we support.(Names have been changed to protect identities).

Testimonial from Jenna: "There are no other local domestic abuse services that support women experiencing emotional, psychological, and post-separation abuse like Mums In Need does."

Testimonial from Tracey: "Mums In Need helped me counteract the terrible impact that domestic abuse and post-separation coercive control had on my mental health."

Testimonial from Ana: "Mums In Need have helped me tremendously in recognising the different forms of coercive control. They supported me in building confidence, assigned me a dedicated support worker for one-on-one sessions, and helped me navigate the court system. They also referred me to other organisations for legal advice and counselling when needed. Through group workshops, I connected with other women and children facing similar situations. What I appreciate most is that there are no time limits on the support, unlike with some other services."

Testimonial from Louise: "I’m honestly overwhelmed by the support from everyone at Mums In Need. The regular one-to-one sessions with my caseworker, along with the emails and ongoing communication from the charity, have made such a difference. I don’t feel alone anymore."

Testimonial from Demi: "I would say you are the best charity I know of in how you tailor your support to women. You cover all the different areas with the different sessions you offer. The level of support and knowledge is incredible—from lived experience to professional expertise. I’m really happy!"

Testimonial from Louise: "Just thank you for being there."

Testimonial from Hannah: "Speaking with the Caseworkers at Mums In Need has been a lifeline for me. It’s a safe space where I feel truly understood. Their support has been vital in helping me manage my PTSD and emotional wellbeing. Without MIN, I would feel lost, weak, and very alone in this harrowing experience."

Testimonial from Sarah: "Knowing I’m not alone in experiencing this kind of abuse and that Mums In Need specialises in it has helped me so much. Laura is amazing—I’m eternally grateful for her support and wise words."

Testimonial from Becky: "You made me me again. I will forever—and I mean forever—be in your debt. You have no idea what you did for me. The weekly calls, the legal support—you even sorted and funded my divorce! Oh my god, you set me free from a life of hell. Your team, your charity, your help—you saved my life. If you could see me now, I am me. I am strong, I am happy, and I am thankful because of what you helped me become. I wouldn’t be here today without you."

Testimonial from Cate: "There are not enough words to express my gratitude for all the support and kind words I’ve received. Laura and her team are helping me get through the hardest period of my life—the family court proceedings. The one-on-one sessions have been invaluable in helping me stay grounded amid everything happening in court. Thank you for all that you do."

Testimonial from Cheng: "The support from Mums In Need has been crucial for me during this time—providing emotional support, legal advice, safety guidance, and most importantly, the reassurance that I’m not alone. Knowing there’s someone I can talk to—whether by phone, email, or live chat—has helped me get through this incredibly difficult time."

Testimonial from Chantelle: "It was such a relief to find Mums In Need. At the time, I was overwhelmed trying to protect my children from emotional abuse, and it felt like professionals just didn’t understand. With MIN, I finally feel understood and validated."

Testimonial from Camila: "Mums In Need are supporting both me and my children—I don’t want to imagine how much harder things would be without them. Their support has been an absolute lifeline."

Testimonial from Gemma: "Their invaluable support has helped me cope with and understand the family court process."

"Since accessing MIN it has helped build my confidence and have felt understood by people going through my similar situations."

Testimonial from Amanda: "This is one aspect of the Mums In Need network—and other support groups—that I’ve been especially grateful for on my own journey. It truly helps to talk, and I find it much easier to open up to others who recognise and validate my experiences."

Testimonial from Mariam: "As ever, the advice I received was really useful in dealing with the problem at hand. Most others encourage me to try this or that to sort things out with my daughter’s dad—often to my detriment. It was refreshing to be given techniques to focus on what’s within my control, especially supporting my daughter as best I can, without assuming her dad will respond like a reasonable person."

Testimonial from Heather: "I contacted Mums In Need just weeks after my husband moved out, at a time when I felt deeply misunderstood—even by close friends. From the moment I connected with Laura, I felt truly understood, especially knowing she had been through similar experiences. I didn’t have to explain—she just ‘got it.’ Our meetings were always informal and relaxed, often over a coffee, and I could tell she genuinely cared about how I was doing. I honestly don’t know how I would have managed without them."

Testimonial from Cheryl: "The value of being truly understood cannot be underestimated, especially in a society where emotional abuse is often misunderstood."

Testimonial from Lauren: "I feel validated and supported. Listening to others who are coping better with abuse has helped me learn ways to handle the situation more effectively."

Testimonial from Emma: "I was really struggling financially, and as a single mum, I was constantly worried. I felt nervous about reaching out to Mums In Need, but after the initial consultation, I was instantly more at ease. She was so friendly and understanding—it felt like a massive weight had been lifted off my shoulders. We had five more conversations, and she helped me organise a budget I could actually stick to. Now my finances are under control, and I have one less major thing to worry about. I’m so glad I got in contact!"

Testimonial from Jemma: "It has been a pleasure working with Mums In Need. The founder not only cares deeply about her work, but also has a profound understanding of the issues mums face. She’s a great listener, and her friendly, welcoming personality puts you instantly at ease. I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend her to any mum going through a difficult separation."

Testimonial from Rachel: "I’ve only just started with Mums In Need, but it has already boosted my confidence. I know the impact will be even stronger as I continue."

During our last financial year we supported 105 women, and 189 children. Have a read through our latest Impact Report to see how your support has made a difference in their lives.

At Mums In Need, we’re proud to receive consistent, positive feedback from the women we support, many of whom describe our service as life-changing, empowering, and uniquely personal.

Unlike generic services, our mums often tell us that MIN truly listens, adapts to their individual situations, and provides practical, emotional, and legal support tailored to their real-life needs.

These powerful testimonials reflect our commitment to making a meaningful impact for women facing post-separation abuse, and they are a key reason why MIN is increasingly recognised as a leading domestic abuse charity in the UK.

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