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10K reactions · 1.7K shares | 🛠 Corrective validation is typically my go to redirection skill for non-egregious behaviors. 👉🏻 Corrective validation has two parts: 1. Validate your child to connect with them in order to encourage receptively of your message 2. Follow through by telling them an appropriate time to do that behavior or by telling them what they should be doing right now instead (or both) 🔑 Keep in mind that validation alone can quickly enable negative behaviors since it can suggest to your child that you agree with their behavior 🔑 Validation by itself should mostly be reserved for overwhelming times, not for ongoing and repeated behaviors 🔑 Validation is key to connecting with your child, but should not be mistaken for guiding them towards meeting your expectation or appropriate expectations 🔑 I use corrective validation Almost daily for kids from kindergarten to eighth grade as an opportunity for them to change their behavior to avoid jumping right to consequences #validation #parentingtips #behaviormanagement #behaviorchange #schoolcounselor #coach | Kasabo Behavior Management🛠 Corrective validation is typically my go to redirection skill for non-egregious behaviors. 👉🏻 Corrective validation has two parts: 1. Validate your child to connect with them in order to...

123 reactions · 23 shares | Most parents feel like they need to keep their kids busy all the time. But when a child says “I’m bored,” it doesn’t mean something is wrong. There’s a part of the brain called the default mode network. It becomes more active when a child isn’t focused on a task. In those moments, their mind shifts into a different state where it’s not being directed from the outside. If you’ve ever watched a child stare off for a bit and then suddenly start doing something completely on their own, that’s often what you’re seeing. When every minute is filled for them, that space disappears. Giving kids time like this, even if it looks like nothing is happening, can be really important for how they learn to think on their own. #parenting #girldad #dads #mothers | James NaturaMost parents feel like they need to keep their kids busy all the time. But when a child says “I’m bored,” it doesn’t mean something is wrong. There’s a part of the brain called the default mode...

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25K views · 1.4K reactions | It’s like you’re speaking French… unless you’re French. Then it’s like you’re speaking English. Comment podcast for the link Follow for more parenting stuff | WholeParentIt’s like you’re speaking French… unless you’re French. Then it’s like you’re speaking English. Comment podcast for the link Follow for more parenting stuff

51K views · 1.9K reactions | It is not easy to stay calm when our children are full of feelings or acting out in some way. And it’s even harder to stay calm as a parent if we never experienced the power of calm connection from a parent in our own childhood. While we can’t turn back time, we can choose to offer ourselves the type of understanding we needed in childhood and use that compassionate stance towards ourselves to help us feel calmer and therefore react more maturely and compassionately to our children. The next time you are feeling triggered or overwhelmed or stuck, start with saying something kind to yourself and watch how much easier it is to find that same level of understanding for your kids. For an in depth guide to learning the art and science of secure parenting (we have heaps of research thank goodness!!!!) comment SECURE below and I’ll dm you an order link for my newly released book: RAISING SECURELY ATTACHED KIDS: connection focused parenting for confidence, empathy, and resilience 💛 #parenting #teaching #attachment | Attachment NerdIt is not easy to stay calm when our children are full of feelings or acting out in some way. And it’s even harder to stay calm as a parent if we never experienced the power of calm connection from a...

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It is Not My Fault as the Parent

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