Checklist for Parents

Over the next 30 days, check off the steps you have taken that can help strengthen your children's bonds with family, home, and school.

Over the past month, I have:

1. Frequently shown and received affection.

2. Set aside time when each of my children has had my undivided attention.

3. Given my children chances to explore on their own and to take risks.

4. Discussed weekend or summer plans that include activities my children enjoy or request.

5. Given my children real responsibilities to create a sense of teamwork and accomplishment.

6. Helped each of my children set realistic goals--goals that challenge but don't overwhelm.

7. Praised my children for doing their best rather than praising them only when they win.

8. Held at least one family meeting to talk about rules, routines, problems, and fun things to do.

9. Shown sincere interest in each of my children's efforts in school and activities.

10. Talked with other parents to share information and ideas or just make contact.

11. Talked with teachers to be aware of the activities going on in school.