Hello new year 7s, I hope you are all well. In this guide, I will be sharing my top tips for you, as I know the first year can be a slight struggle.
It will probably be a bit more overwhelming than usual, due to the situation we are facing. However, I hope that these tips take your minds off of things.
1. Don’t change who you are for friends
To make friends is a good and natural part of growing up, however, you should never change who you are as a person or do things that you don’t want to do for them.
I learnt this in many ways. When I acted like myself, some people just didn’t click with me and I felt I had to pretend to like similar things to them or do something for them, just so that they would like me.
However, throughout this year I have found people who have accepted me for me.
These are the best type of friends.
2. Be prepared
I don’t want to sound like a teacher telling you to “have this” and “do that”, but I found that the period I went through of not being prepared or as concentrated, definitely brought me down a little.
During quarantine, I was being more productive, waking up early, snacking less, reading more and overall trying to be calmer and do more of the things I like.
At first, you may be thinking, that sounds a little boring, and that you don't want to do that - and that is what I thought too!
When trying to be more productive it was hard, there were times where I just wanted to curl up in bed and play games all day. But that didn’t get me anywhere.
So next time you are not feeling like you are up for reaching your full potential, just try in small steps to be productive - whether eating healthier, using less electronics, getting more sleep, or re organising your room.
Even drinking more water instead of sugary drinks, will make you feel better.
3. Popularity is not the most important thing
To be part of a large group or in a popular group at school isn’t the most important thing.
If people like you for who you (and only you) are, then you have real friends.
But if you are being someone different to your true self to become part of a particular group, then your friendships will never be true. The most popular children at school do not always become the most successful people when they are adults. No one is perfect. We are all human.
You see, every living thing has its flaws. These flaws make who you are. So be 100% you and embrace every single one of your differences.