When I began my freshman year at IU Indianapolis, I knew what I wanted to do professionally, but I was still finding exactly who I was and how I wanted to reach my goals. I was often reserved and hesitant to share my thoughts, opinions, and views; I feared judgement and lacked confidence. However, the last four years at IU Indianapolis and the Honors College taught me who I am and shaped me into a confident, competent professional.
The Honors College became a community through which I could grow and develop, then reflect and grow more. Its curriculum pushed me to seek and engage in experiences that have shifted and reimagined the type of professional I aim to be. Through this, I have become a skilled professional communicator, incorporated empathy and cultural humility as key practices, and have learned to embrace imperfection rather than run from it. These key points of growth work together to prepare me for a career as a clinical mental health counselor.
Becoming a Skilled Communicator
Professional communication is the ability to effectively communicate knowledge and information to others with respect, precision, coherence, and clarity. I developed my ability to communicate in writing through my Honors contracts and experiences, working towards the Honors College learning goal of developing strong communication skills. I wrote papers, created infographics, and curated presentations to turn dense bodies of psychology research into easily digestible artifacts, dispel popular psychology myths, and evaluate historical approaches and developments in treatment for certain psychological conditions.
As I look back on these projects, I can see clear growth in my ability to concisely and coherently communicate complex ideas. More importantly, I see growth in another aspect of professional communication: listening and understanding. Many of my professors and mentors at IU Indianapolis have pointed out that a true professional communicator makes space for those they are communicating with to express their knowledge and ideas, expresses understanding, and works collaboratively with them. As a future counselor, this skill is critical to my success in the field.
My roles as a mentor for the Groups SSS Program, a resident assistant for the Honors Living and Learning Community, and as a volunteer in the Indianapolis community all required me to listen, hear, and understand the people I was serving. To best serve those around me, I adapted my communication to first focus on creating connection, listening to verbal and nonverbal communication (e.g. body language, facial expressions, and integrating knowledge of the individual or group from previous conversations with them), and developing an understanding of my audience to then concisely and clearly meet the needs of the situation.
Developing Cultural Humility
As I worked to balance my communication through effective speaking and listening, I realized I was inadvertently developing my empathy and cultural humility. In line with the Honors College learning goals to develop civic-minded skills and participate in engaged learning experiences, I sought out further experiences, like studying abroad in the Dominican Republic, and maintained my mentoring on the IU Indianapolis campus and volunteering with Teachers’ Treasures and other community organizations. I worked with students who simultaneously taught me about their experiences, cultures, and unique identities.
I immersed myself in communities in need to increase my awareness and understanding of systemic inequities in healthcare, mental health, education, and accessing necessities (food, shelter, etc.). I witnessed how these inequities can impact one’s life in a reciprocal and cyclical manner. For example, the students and educators supported by Teachers’ Treasures get access to free school and hygiene supplies. At times, donations and stock for certain hygiene supplies were limited, creating a gap in access for students. Teachers expressed concern as they knew that when their students’ basic needs were left unfulfilled, they could not expect their students to be ready to learn in class, creating a loss of learning and educational access. Remaining aware of the unique challenges that various cultural, racial, ethnic, and religious groups face is essential to best advocate and ethically work with these populations as a counselor.
Celebratory Post-Finals Photo, December 2025
Embracing Imperfection
As an Honors scholar, I take immense pride in my achievement and self-discipline but have historically pressured myself to strive for perfection. As I began my undergraduate education, I quickly realized there was an issue with this, encountered burnout, and my work suffered as a result. I was incredibly focused on the results of my work, rather than the process; I was viewing imperfection as a flaw, rather than opportunities to learn and grow. I was teaching my mentees and residents that imperfection meant you could learn and empowered them to embrace those moments, rather than be frustrated and self-deprecating, so I needed to do the same.
Slowly, I took steps to embrace the imperfection. I challenged myself to acknowledge when I was struggling and to seek help from my own mentors and professors. After all, seeking help is never a sign of weakness, but a sign that you wish to remain strong. My shift in perspective and newfound embrace of imperfection made me a stronger mentor and future counselor. As mentees and future clients seek support from me, I will ask them to challenge themselves. Ethically, I ought to be willing to challenge myself in the same ways. Further, I found that with embracing imperfection came a profound sense of authenticity. My efforts, outcomes, and processes all felt uniquely me, and I could engage in professional, academic, and personal engagements more fully. This authenticity also allows me to better relate with those I work with and will support the working relationships with future clients as I encourage them to be uniquely them.
Preparing to be a Counselor
These key takeaways, and many smaller lessons along the way, have laid the foundation for becoming a successful career as a civic-minded professional and clinical mental health counselor working in low-income communities. As I start my transition into this career, I will be attending a masters’ program in counselor education with a concentration in clinical mental health counseling. This program will require me to have strong communication, embrace imperfection as authentic learning moments for myself and my clients, maintain self-discipline as I work to balance coursework and other responsibilities, and further develop my cultural humility and responsiveness. Moreover, it has allowed me to become incredibly self-aware of both my strengths and weaknesses, allowing me to lean into my strengths and to develop my areas of growth. The work I have done through the Honors College and my time at IU Indianapolis has created strong foundations to build upon in my graduate studies and carry with me into my career.