Body Language and Romantic Interests
By Roman Medina, Roman Albu, Alex Chapman, and Matilda Petmecky
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Verbal And Non Verbal Cues
By: Roman Medina
In terms of language, conversation plays a significant role in determining whether someone is genuinely interested in you. Examples include asking sincere questions, wanting to keep a conversation going, and wondering how life is going. Appreciative messages and comments are also a significant part in recognizing signs of love. Another thing would be seeing a difference in how they talk to one person in comparison to other people. Do they use a different greeting? Do they ask more questions? Are they more curious about you?
If your love language is words of affirmation, and somebody notices that, they might go the distance in sending little messages about how they miss you or how they are thinking of you. These are all signs of affection
Personality
Personality
Personality in itself is a big thing when it comes to their verbal change. When a person has a vocal change that might also go with their demeanor. Usually when a person is with a certain someone their brain turns on the oxytocin and dopamine and more positive traits come into play. When a person falls in love dopamine is to help with euphoria and motivates the brain to be with this person. With that said in connection to the way you speak to the person, your brain gets more active than usual and your speaking habits change. (See inflection) With this overwhelming feeling, your voice may also change to sound more complex or attractive. When you notice the difference your brain would also go into overdrive to quickly change it to nervousness which would then change the inflection of your voice.
Another thing to add is that once you have spent more time with this person that the love stays but the stress is gone meaning that your vocal quality may still be different around that person but the negative qualities such as mumbling, stuttering, or shaking.
Eye Contact
Eye Contact
Eye contact and how much you look at a person can signify romantic attraction. Common signals are brief glances, avoiding eye contact when they stare, or just simply being aware of presence. Playful glances or looking then looking away also shows attractions or general likeness to that person. A trick to show one that you like them is a popular method called the triangle method to which you look at one eye, then their mouth, and then to the other eye.
A couple of eye contact techniques to show affection include counting down to blink, slow blinking, and mirroring gazes. 4 Eye Tricks to Make Her Fall In Love. Reasons why some of these might work is the feeling of connection towards one another. There is a chemical in the brain called Phenylethylamine that gets released with prolonged eye contact. Some people might feel heightened emotions when eye contact is made between lovers. Based on the level of relationship, a loss of eye contact can have a feeling of being disconnected. Connection can also be increased with an emotional connection leading to the way your eyes look. Typically if you are happy it shows through your eyes and can be more inviting to other people.
Music
Music
Music is one of the most universal forms of love. Singing can be expressed as all five love languages: Words of affirmation, physical touch, gift giving, acts of service, and quality time. Words of affirmation could be a special song that represents where you stand with that person. Physical touch isn’t exactly helping someone play an instrument but the act of singing together shows bonding. Gift giving is straightforward, it could be that one learned a song to play for their partner or wrote a song for them as a gift. Acts of service could be that one person is feeling down and the other sings to them to help them feel better. Finally, quality time spent together is a crucial thing in the importance of music.
The vibe of the music may also affect the mood one could be in around the person that they are attracted to. Music has the ability to change one's mood based on the beat or style of the music. Music making such as singing or playing guitar releases serotonin and dopamine (See attraction) Music can also be used as a calmer which would make you more vulnerable around people. Music is also a good validator for emotions which could strike up conversations or feelings of one's attraction.
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