The reason Amy and her mom’s relationship influenced the story was because her mom wanted to teach her a lesson that being different is okay. Amy's relationship with her mom influenced her mom to make a specific meal for Christmas Eve. Their relationship also allowed Amy to realize that she doesn’t have to be the same as everyone else.
For example, Amy realized why her mother had chosen to make the specific meals for Christmas Eve. The author states “It wasn’t until many year later - long after I had gotten over my crush on Robert - that I was able to fully appreciate her lesson and the true purpose behind our particular menu.” Because Amy came to find out her mom made what she made, it allowed Amy to embrace her culture. This proves that years later Amy realized why her mother chose to serve that dish specifically.
Another example is that Amy realized she doesn’t have to be American to fit in. According to the author “ You must be proud you are different. Your only shame is to have shame.”.” Amy's mom is explaining to her that being different isn’t a bad thing. This shows that because Amy’s mom has the role as her mother it gives her their opportunity to tell Amy these things.
In conclusion, the relationship between Amy and her mother allows her to find the true reason her mom made a specific dish, and helps her see that she can be different.