Advice

Welcome to the advice page!

In middle school there's drama and in drama there comes with stress, and sometimes with stress you could use advice! If you need anything we're here. Some people might go to google for advice but cḿon we all know google ain't right all the time. That's what we are here for, or you can visit us at hamlin middle school website

Hamlin Middle School - Springfieldhttps://hms.springfield.k12.or.us


In leadership one of the things we do is advice team, there's 4-5 kids in the advice team. we could give advice about anything, it could be the smallest there is but it doesn't matter to us how small it is. as long as you feel safe coming to us for your problem were here to help solve or even just give advice. do you know what the meaning or definition of the word advice is? ¨guidance or recommendations offered with regard to prevent future action.¨ we are offering the help you need with any and more of the subjects down below.

Hobbies

See a lot of people have their own hobbies art, gaming, writing, reading, skateboarding,wiccan, crafting, fishing, puzzles, gardening, chess, legos and so many more! check out the some below.

  • Break it down into small steps. Trying something new can be overwhelming so you might find it helpful to break it down into a few essential steps. ...

  • Make it a habit. ...

  • Find an accountability partner or group. ...

  • Enjoy it. ...

  • Reconnect with why it matters. hobbies help a lot of people through stress or even anxiety, some people use hobbies to get the anxiety and stress off their mind. it helps a lot of people because it's something they like to do and it distracts them and calms them down. when people have anxiety there's something you don't wanna tell or ask them like...

  • It's not a big deal.”

  • “Why are you so anxious?”

  • “I know how you feel.”

  • “Stop worrying.”

  • “Just breathe.”

  • “Have you tried [fill in the blank]?”

  • “It's all in your head.”

  • ¨cam down!¨


anxiety advice

in stress the number one thing to do is stay calm! here is a couple tips you can do to stay calm


what are 5 things you like to do .

what are 4 things you see.

what are 3 things you feel .

what are 2 things you smell.

what is 1 thing you taste. here are 5 ways that you can do yourself to help with anxiety

  • Build in Regular Exercise.

Connect with Supportive People.

  • Carve out Hobby Time.

  • Practice Meditation, Stress Reduction or Yoga.

  • take a deep breath in and out, at least 5 times or more

  • Bond with Your Pet.

Anxiety is something a lot of people have a problem with but just remember someone else is out there having the same problem so it's not just you. but also having someone there for you helps, i know a lot of people have support animals maybe if you could even just go to a friends house and chill with there pet or even watching videos like animals in live action, those videos are so cool. if none of these things are working for you honestly talking to a friend or teacher even your parents/guardian would really be nice to talk with. sometimes even writing it down on a piece of paper and doing what you need with it could help a lot, getting it out could help a lot.

School

School can be very stressful here is some advice to hopefully help you if you ever have any questions or concerns don't be afraid to ask us or a trusted adult.

If you have trouble keeping up with work we recommended talking to a teacher of that topic getting help from them so that they can explain everything to you. even asking for time to have study hall in class or even if your teacher could plan a study hall day in there schedule. maybe if you could even find room to have lunch study hall do you know what that is? a lunch study hall is where you skip your lunch and ask to have time to work, your not in trouble! but if you ask im sure they we love to let that happen. and if you're afraid you'll miss something at lunch, but in my opinion i feel like having better grades and not having so much work to do latter is better than missing someone cursing or something at work. we would rather you be happy and free with no work to do total and only that 1-2 pages of homework you have to do later tonight. so i'd recommend asking and clarifying with your teachers and parents/guardian that way you could get the help and get it done and over with. and staying out of trouble! c´mo guys your in jr. high your 6th 7th and half of 8th you guys should know now that we cant be fighting and cursing, if a teacher asks for your phone, just give it to that teacher the last thing we and YOU need is to have to keep repeating the words ¨put your phone away"and ¨hey, lemmy see your phone¨. just keep it put away. and i promise staying out of trouble will make your school years aton better so that way you have a really nice relationship with not just kids your grade and age but teachers and staff, its nice to be able to walk up to a teacher and be like ¨hey¨ without feeling like oh i shouldn't i think this teacher has had enough of me.

and remember with the right amount effort and the right amount of grit you can do it, and focus on growth. we absolutely refuse to let you fail.