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Summer Resources

Summer Resources for K-2

Summer is approaching and you may be looking for activities to challenge and creatively occupy your child’s mind with the formal school year ending. The following activities have been curated for your student as activities they can do alone. They can also be enjoyed by people of all ages (including adults) as a means of connection for family.


Virtual Summer Camps

Learn something new with a virtual camp experience. The following link offers a variety of camps for you to choose from.

Virtual Summer Camps


Virtual Escape Rooms

What is a Virtual Escape Room? Think of it as a multi-level challenge that allows you to advance to a new level when you solve puzzles and riddles.

Click for: Harry Potter Virtual Escape Rooms

Click below for 20 virtual escape rooms.

Virtual Field Trips

Staying home will not stop you from exploring. Visit an Aquarium, Farm, or even a National Park to name a few. The following site offers 25 Field Trips for you to choose.

Build Your Own Toys

For those who want to take a break from “pencil and paper tasks” the following links will get your hands and minds busy with toy construction. Balancing Puzzles, Kaleidoscopes, Toy Design, and more!

Other Activities

If you would prefer to step away from your computer this summer the following sites offer printable activities for your child.

Remember to please take time this summer to step outside and enjoy the change in season. The warmer temperatures and longer days bring out a host of wildlife and plant growth missed during the Winter months.

June 8 - June 12

Counselor's Message - June

Dear Families,

We know that you and your family may be entering the week with frustration, grief, and many other feelings in your heart in response to the recent deaths of George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, Tony McDade, and Ahmaud Arbery. On top of that, we know many of you are feeling bombarded with the media coverage of what’s been happening across the country, and right here in Seattle and Renton. This undoubtedly brings up strong emotions, lots of questions, and concerns about how to navigate those conversations. You are not alone. This is hard, and these conversations may be hard, but they are necessary if we truly want to shift the paradigm that has perpetuated institutionalized and systemic racism and oppression.

This week our primary and intermediate activities will be focusing on hearing, learning, recognizing, and accepting the lived experiences of all voices in our community.

You are the expert in your family and you decide how to navigate this conversation. We are including links to various resources that might be helpful.

Here are more ideas of how to talk to your kids about race and racism:

And lastly, here is a booklist and of more children’s books that support conversations about race and racism:

Best-selling stories to help younger kids:

  • The Colors of Us" by Karen Katz

  • "Let’s Talk About Race" by Julius Lester

  • "The Skin I’m In: A First Look at Racism" by Pat Thomas

  • Sesame Street's "We're Different, We're the Same" by Bobbi Jane Kates

  • "Something Happened in Our Town: A Child’s Story about Racial Injustice" by Marianne Celano, Marietta Collins, and Ann Hazzard

  • "I Am Enough" by Grace Byers

  • "Happy in Our Skin" by Fran Manushkin and Lauren Tobia

  • "Voice of Freedom: Fannie Lou Hamer: The Spirit of the Civil Rights Movement" by Carole Boston Weatherford and Ekua Holmes

  • "Raising White Kids: Bringing Up Children in a Racially Unjust America" by Jennifer Harvey

  • "Daddy Why Am I Brown?: A healthy conversation about skin color and family" by Bedford F. Palmer

  • "A Terrible Thing Happened" by Margaret Holmes

  • “Antiracist Baby" by Ibram X. Kendi

For teens:

  • "The Hate U Give" by Angie Thomas

  • "Harbor Me" by Jacqueline Woodson

  • "This Book Is Anti-Racist: 20 Lessons on How to Wake Up, Take Action, and Do The Work" by Tiffany Jewell and Aurelia Durand

  • "Brown Girl Dreaming" by Jacqueline Woodson

  • "Dear White People" by Justin Simien

More Resources:


Please reach out to me or your child’s teacher if you have feedback, questions, would like more information and to start a conversation. Our partnership is so important, now more than ever.

In Solidarity,

Rachel Larson

School Counselor

Rachel.larson@rentonschools.us


Grades K-2 Counseling/Social-Emotional Lesson for the week of June 8th

As the infographic above shows, it is never too early to begin having conversations with your children about race. Talking about it is important because they’re learning and hearing about race whether or not you’re directly talking to them about it. These conversations may be hard, but they’re necessary if we truly want to shift the paradigm that has perpetuated institutionalized racism and systemic oppression.

If you are just beginning to have conversations about race and racism with your student, you can start by watching these two videos. They both address similarities and differences and accepting everyone for who they are. This is a building block for being anti-racist.


Video discussion questions to begin a conversation with your child:

We can be similar and different from others. Our differences are what makes each of us unique and special.

  • What is one way that you are the same as someone that you live with?

  • What is one way that you are unique or different from someone you live with?

  • Think about someone that is your friend. What is one way that you are the same as your friend? What is one way that you are unique or different?

  • Kids in your class at school are all different. They speak different languages, they wear different kinds of clothes, eat different kinds of food, and their skin colors are different too. Is it ok for kids in your class or your friends to be so different from each other?

Additionally, there are two read-alouds that we would love your child to hear:

Video discussion questions with your child for "The Skin You Live"

We all have different skin colors and shades and they are ALL beautiful.

  • Using the words from the video or your own words, describe your skin color (e.g., ginger snapped, toffee wrapped, cinnamon spice, cocoa cream, dipped sundae, lemon tart, butterscotch, cookie dough, apple pie)

    • Example: My skin color is lemon tart and apple pie.

  • Draw a picture of yourself and another person with a different skin color.

    • What is beautiful about your skin color?

    • What is beautiful about the other person’s skin color?

Video discussion questions with your child for "I am Enough":

You are enough! You are unique and special just because you are YOU. No one looks like you or acts like you, and that is okay because we all have a right to be here so we can learn from each other, help each other, and accept each other.

  • Describe what makes you enough or special the way you are.

  • Draw a picture of someone in your classroom and describe what makes them enough or special the way they are.

  • If someone was made fun of because of their skin color, what could you say or do to help them feel better and?

June 1 - June 5

Sending I-Messages

“A Bug and a Wish” is a great story about how Tyler uses these tools to solve a problem. Watch this video and then discuss the questions with a family member.

  1. How did Tyler feel about talking to the boys about his bug and wish?

  2. Tyler told the boys, “It bugs me when you tease me, and I wish you would stop.”

    • What bugged Tyler?

    • What was Tyler’s wish?

  3. When Tyler told them his bug and wish, what did his body look like and what did his voice sound like?

  4. Danae was a good friend to Tyler. Who can you go to help solve a problem?

Next is a video on how kids can solve their own problems. Maybe you can try this some time.

Resolving Problems:

Steps to resolve problems on your own:

  1. Calm Down

  2. A Bug & A Wish

  3. Take Responsibility

  4. Win-Win Solution

Practice using "A Bug & A Wish" in the following situations:

  • Your sister brings your special stuffed animal outside and leaves it there.

  • Your little brother knocks down your Lego creation.

  • Your sister gets in your space when you are angry.

  • Your sister ate the treat you were saving in the freezer.

  • At dinner your family laughs about something you did that was embarrassing.

  • Your brother keeps repeating everything you say.

If A Bug & A Wish does not work, you could talk to a parent/adult to get help.

Learning how to communicate feelings is a skill that takes time. Bugs and Wishes give children a specific format to use, eliminating the need to figure out how to express themselves while they are still just learning to identify what it is they are feeling. The “wish” part helps them focus on solutions and think about what might solve the problem. Bugs and wishes are a tool for children (and adults) to express what is bothering them. It is a simplified form of and ‘I-Statement.” The format is: “It bugs me when , and I wish .”


May 26 - May 29

Perspective Taking

The week we are covering Perspective Taking! Perspective-taking means to understand how someone is thinking, feeling, or how something is affecting them. When you understand someone’s perspective or point of view, you are paying attention to their face and body and listening to how they feel. It also helps to think about a time when you felt the same way so you can empathize with how they are feeling.

Now it’s time to practice! Scroll through the next few scenarios and choose a feelings word, this will help you practice taking someone else’s perspective!

May 18 - May 22

Social Awareness- Empathy

Empathy means understanding what another person might be feeling. If you have empathy for someone, you can imagine what that person is going through. For example, if a classmate tripped on the way to school and fell into a mud puddle, getting their clothes wet and dirty, would you have an idea about how that made them feel? If you said yes, then you can show empathy. When you have empathy and can tell when someone feels sad, that can lead you to do or say something nice to them to help them feel better.

Watch this video about Empathy “Think about how someone else is feeling”:

Choose one of the feeling words, try to answer all the questions for that one feeling word.

  • Can you think of a time when you felt...

  • How do you know when someone is feeling...

  • What does their face do?

  • What does their body do?

  • What do their words sound like?

  • What would you like someone to do for you if you were...?

How can I show empathy?

Example: When a classmate is frustrated because the schoolwork is seems too hard, I can offer to help them.

  • Your brother/sister is angry because he/she cannot see his friends, I can…

  • Your neighbor is crying because they fell off their bike, I can…

  • Your friend just found out that he won an award, he is proud, I can…

  • Someone is your house is sick, I can…

Practice: Role Play

Pick one or two of the examples above and ask a family member to role play or “act it out” with you. Remember to pay attention to what your family member’s face and body looks like, and what their words sound like.

May 11 - May 15

Perseverance and Positive Self-Talk

This week we are focusing on a strategy, or tool, that can help us with perseverance. Perseverance is a big word that means to keep trying, even when things are frustrating, hard, or uncomfortable. I’m sure there are many times that you had to persevere in order to learn something new. Some examples might be learning how to ride a bike, practicing tying your shoes, memorizing a new dance, and even school tasks like reading! What we say to ourselves, even in our own heads, is called “self-talk.” Positive self-talk is what we say to ourselves that can help us stay calm and keep trying (or persevere) to finish a hard task. Negative self-talk is what we say to ourselves that can make us feel bad and can stop us from staying calm and trying to finish a hard task. This week’s lesson is about practicing using our positive self-talk tool in order to persevere!

Here is an example of negative self-talk and positive self-talk:

  • Negative Self-talk: I’m never going to see my friends again.

  • Positive Self-Talk: I can see my friends during our class video chat each week.


When Sophie Thinks She Can't...

Watch this read-a-loud about a girl named Sophie who uses negative self-talk, but her classmates and teacher help her to think about what she CAN do. “When Sophie Thinks She Can’t”

What does Sophie say she CAN’T do?

What do Paula and Andrew tell her that she CAN do?

What did Mrs. Murray say is the most important word to say when you feel like you can’t do something?

You are right, it is YET! Yet means that you have not learned something now, but you will at another time.

Think about all the things you learned this year that you could not do (yet) last year.

Examples:

  • Last year, I could not tie my shoes yet, but this year I can.

  • Last year, I could not write my name yet, but this year I can.

  • Last year, I could not read a book yet, but this year I can.

Talk to a family member about some of the things you learned this year, and who are the people who helped you learn them?

Now with a family member, change the statements below from negative self-talk to positive self-talk. You may even want to use the word, "yet."

Negative Self-talk

  • There’s nothing to do at my house! I’m so bored.

  • I’m so bad at math. I’m never going to understand it.

  • Since I don’t have my reading buddy at school to read with, I don’t want to read anymore.


May 4 - May 8

How to Solve a Problem

When you have a problem you first need to decide, is it a BIG problem (dangerous and scary) or a small problem? If you have a BIG problem, tell an adult you trust. If you have a small problem, try one of Kelso’s Choices. Here are the nine Kelso’s Choices for solving a problem – maybe you saw them this year.

Here are some scenarios you can practice with a family member

You do not want to do your chores.

Is this a small or BIG problem?

  • How would you solve this problem?

Your sister or brother takes a toy away from you.

Is this a small or BIG problem?

  • How would you solve this problem?

You do not want to take a nap or go to bed.

Is this a small or BIG problem?

  • How would you solve this problem?

You do not want to stay home; you want to go out with friends.

Is this a small or BIG problem?

  • How would you solve this problem?

You see your 6 year-old neighbor outside playing with matches, trying to start a fire.

Is this a small or BIG problem?

  • How would you solve this problem?

You see your 4 year-old neighbor playing with a knife and she just cut herself and is bleeding?

Is this a small or BIG problem?

  • How would you solve this problem?


There have been some big changes in the last few months. Talk to other people in your house about problems you are having at home right now. Discuss how you can use Kelso’s Choices to solve these problems together.

Kelso Frog.docx

Kelso Activity

Additional Activity: Make a Kelso puppet that you can use to act out the choices you would make. This requires a printer, a small brown paper bag (lunch size), scissors, glue, and crayons or makers. [Note: If you don’t have access to a printer you can always draw a picture of Kelso (like the one provided) or be creative and use an old sock to make a sock puppet if you have a stray].

Directions:

1. Print out the frog. Color the frog.

2. Cut out the two parts on the dotted lines.

3. Carefully glue Kelso’s head on the bottom of the unopened bag, lining the mouth up along the lower folded edge.

4. Glue the body portion of the frog onto the bag, lining up the lower rim of the mouth so it fits next to the head section.

5. Reminder: keep the bag partially folded over when using the puppet, so that Kelso faces forward.


April 27 - May 1

The Size of a Problem

Click the Video above to see students from Tacoma learning about problems and how we can react to different types of problems!

In that video you saw students talk about different types of problems. Today we are going to talk about the difference between big problems and small problems. But first, what is a problem? A problem is something that is difficult to deal with.


If you hold your fingers a couple of inches apart that can represent the size of a small problem. Small problems are problems that you are strong enough (show me your muscles) and smart enough (point to your brain) to handle. Small problems are not dangerous or scary and you can solve them on your own!

Some examples might be: your friend and you both want to read the same book, your sister won’t share the crayons, or you want to play tag but whoever you are playing with wants to play tether ball. How do small problems make us feel? Annoyed, bothered, embarrassed, frustrated, left out, and upset.

Now open your arms up really wide, this represents a BIG problem. A big problem is dangerous or scary. How do big problems make us feel? Scared, frightened, threatened, unsure, and unsafe. When you have a big problem, you need to report it to a grown up. It is their job to help you solve this problem. You are going to an adult because you need help solving the problem, not because you want someone to get in trouble. An example of a big problem might be bike riding with your sister and you fall off your bike, hit your head and now are feeling dizzy. Or you see your neighbor, a 2nd grader, playing with matches and trying to start a fire. Any time you have a big problem your job is to tell an adult you trust.


Put it into Action!

Just like the students in the video it is good to have some practice.

Grab a family member and talk about what types of problems should go in each section!


April 20 - April 24

When Spring Comes Read Aloud (changes and growth)

“When Spring Comes” When Spring Comes

Discussion Questions (related to growth and change):

· What happens in the Spring?

· Draw a picture of what something looked like before and during Spring

o Examples: Grass, trees

· Draw a picture of what you looked like before and during Spring

o How have you changed?

o How do you feel now?

Follow Through Activity “Grow a Plant at Home”

· Watch this video about how a seed grows into a plant How to Grow a Bean Plant in a Jar

o Optional: Try this experiment with a family member

o Material you’ll need:

- seed

- Jar

- paper towels

- water

o Every week, talk with a family member about what you observe

- What do you see?

- Gently touch it, how does it feel?

- Is there a smell?

· Like the seed is changing, how are you changing? How are you growing?


Take a walk outdoors or watch Outdoor Nature Walk Video: A Nature Walk in Early Spring

· Discussion Questions:

o What did you see or hear?

o Pick something that you saw or heard and draw a picture

§ Examples: birds, water, trees, etc.

Nature Walk Activities:

· Nature Walk Scavenger Hunt (attached)

Using the attachment or a blank piece of paper, go on a nature walk with a family member and find these items or write down or draw what you see

· Nature Walk Story (attached)

o Using the attachment or a blank piece of paper, write a story about something you smelled, saw and heard outside


Activity on Change: From Ice to Water

Directions: With the Help of an Adult, put 2 to 3 cubes of ice in a cup or small bowl. As you transfer the cubes from the freezer (or ice maker) touch them and keep track of how the chill of these cubes feels in your hand and on your fingers. Consider the following questions:

· How would you describe the temperature of the ice cubes on your skin? (cold, freezing, stings, etc.)

· What are some good uses for ice cubes? (cool your drink, play with on a hot day, etc.)

Next, allow the cubes to melt in your cup/ bowl. This can take awhile at room temperature-you are welcome to hold them in your hand to speed up the melt. Be sure to collect the water in your cup/bowl. Once the cubes have melted, consider the following questions in regards to the water:

When the ice became water, its usefulness as ice ended. Does this mean it has become useless?

What are some good uses for the cup of water you have collected now that it is no longer ice? (cool drink when thirsty, put out a fire, etc.)

Point to Remember: Change happens regularly, and at times can be sad, disappointing or even scary. It is important to first know that change is an ongoing thing—it is constant. Second, when change occurs and we recognize it, we should consider the new value. The ice is great for cooling our drinks, but when it melts, it also serves as a cold drink. Please also remember that the adults in our lives can help answer questions we might have about change, and are available to support us when our feelings and thinking produce negative self-talk.


April 13 - April 17

Llama Llama Video

1. Listen to the story: Llama, Lama Mad at Mama

2. Choose a couple questions to answer or an extension activity each day

3. Watch and practice a self-regulation skill from the video provided each day


Questions after the video

Llama Llama had a big blow-up; it was not the best way to express him emotions.

· What were some signs that showed he was getting more frustrated?

· What could Llama Llama have done to keep from having a big melt-down/explosion? Act it out

· What are some strategies you could use to calm down when you are feeling more and more angry?

· What could Mama have done to keep from having a big melt-down/explosion? Act it out

· Talk with a family member about a time when one of you experienced a big blow-up. Act out what it could have looked like if you used a self-regulation strategy.

Think About You...

Mama helped Llama Llama see shopping as something fun they can do together.

· What’s one thing you had to do last week that you did not want to do? How did that make you feel? Ask your parent the same question.

· Make a list of some things you have to do, but don’t really like to do. Write or tell your family 1-2 ways you can make these things more fun the next time you have to do them.


Just for Fun!

Just for fun watch and dance along to this fun Llama Song!

Llama Song



Take a Deep Breath and Relax

It can be really stressful for parents to be working from home while trying to teach their children at the same time.

· Ask your parent/guardian what strategies they use to calm down when they are feeling more and more angry.

Extension activities that an adult and child can partner together with for daily responsibilities

1) Have your child select a favorite meal/snack for the family and then have them make it for everyone to enjoy. If needed work alongside them as the food is prepared, but allow them to make decisions on finishing touches prior to serving (which plate to use, etc).

2) Select a family living space that needs to be cleaned and have your child review with you the supplies that will be needed (vacuum, mop, cleaner, rags), and the order in which these supplies will be used. Partner with them in cleaning the space, and end with a conversation on why this is important. **to make it fun, let them pick a song to play while they clean

3) Create a shopping list with your child, including them in the inventory of items needed and writing out the list. This can be a longer list tied to a weekly meal plan for the family, or a shorter list of needed groceries for the day. You could even do this for simply for a fun, one-time treat.

Below are some videos that share ways that might help when you have big feelings. Watch and try them out to see if any work for you!


Bee Breath


Breath and Relax


Rainbow Breath


March 30 - April 2

Primary Grades

The Yucky Bug by Julia Cook Watch the Yucky Bug with your kids, YouTube Video.

Discussion Questions:

1. What are the Magic 5? Pick one and Re-teach it to a Family Member.

2. What are different ways you and your family are staying safe?

3. When you're feeling scared like Junior, what can you do to feel better?

4. What do you like about staying home and healthy? What do you not like?

5. What are some fun activities you have been able to enjoy while avoiding the Yucky Bug?

Possible Follow Through Activities:

-Think about someone you wish you could visit. Write them an email or letter and mail it to them.

-Make a list of all the ways you are “strong” (i.e. I am kind to others; I am a great soccer player; I am an amazing dancer)

Additional Family Resource:

Julia Cook Website