What are pronouns? 

Pronouns are linguistic tools that we use to refer to people.  (i.e. they/them/theirs, she/her/hers, he/him/his). Using someone’s correct pronouns is an important way of affirming someone’s identity and is a fundamental step in being an ally. Common pronouns include she/her/hers, he/him/his, and they/them/theirs. There are other nonbinary pronouns. It is important to ask people what their pronouns are. If you have questions, politely ask the person if they feel comfortable giving examples of how to use those pronouns.

How you could ask:

“What pronouns do you use?”

“What pronouns would you like me to use?”

How you could share:

“I’m Jade and my pronouns are ze and hir.”

“Leo, I prefer they and them, but he is fine too.”

“My pronoun is co.”

How you can respect someone's pronouns:

If you mess up someone's pronouns, apologize, quickly correct, and move on.

Understand that pronouns can vary and change.

Don't be afraid to ask about someone's pronouns, and see if they are willing to help you understand!

Check out this website for more info and questions on pronouns: https://uwm.edu/lgbtrc/support/gender-pronouns/ 

Examples of Pronouns:

NOTE: This is NOT an exhaustive list. Any combination is possible!) This page is recommended to be opened on a computer or ipad for best visibility.