2024-2025 Classroom Guidance Lessons

Below you will find information about specific lesson topics. Pertinent information about each lesson is outlined including the grade level, topic, SC School Counseling Standards, lesson description, and book title(s), video clip(s), and handouts when applicable. Copyrighted instructional materials and handouts cannot be linked on the website, but can be reviewed in person by request. If you have any questions, please reach out to your child's school counselor.

August

K-2: School Counselor Role Introduction & Review

ASCA Mindset: M 1. Belief in development of whole self, including a healthy balance of mental/ emotional and physical well-being.

ASCA Behaviors: B-SS 2. Positive relationships with adults that support success; B-SS 8. Advocacy skills for self and others and ability to assert self, when necessary. 

K: School Counselor Role Intro: Ms. Bailey reviews her role as a school counselor. Using a Mrs. Potato Head, Students will learn about the parts of their school counselor. Just like Mrs. Potato Head, school counselors have lots of parts that help them do their job! School counselors have: 1) Smart Brain-to help kids solve problems, make good choices, and cope with big feelings. 2) Listening Ears-to listen to students and make sure they feel heard and understood. 3) Caring Eyes- to look out for students and help keep them safe. 4) Wise Mouth-to teach, encourage, and support students, teachers, and families. 5) Loving Heart- to care for and love all students. 6) Helping Hands to greet, guide, comfort, and play with students. 7) Busy Feet- to move quickly around the school to help students, caregivers, and teachers. Students will complete a Parts of My School Counselor coloring sheet (copyrighted). We will end our lesson with a fun game of "Hot Potato" where students will pass the ball in a circle and when the music stops they will share one thing they learned about Ms. Bailey.  

1: School Counselor Role Review: School Counselor Role Intro: Ms. Bailey reviews her role as a school counselor. Using a Mrs. Potato Head, Students will learn about the parts of their school counselor. Just like Mrs. Potato Head, school counselors have lots of parts that help them do their job! School counselors have: 1) Smart Brains-to help kids solve problems, make good choices, and cope with big feelings. 2) Listening Ears-to listen to students and make sure they feel heard and understood. 3) Caring Eyes- to look out for students and help keep them safe. 4) Wise Mouth-to teach, encourage, and support students, teachers, and families. 5) Loving Heart- to care for and love all students. 6) Helping Hands to greet, guide, comfort, and play with students. 7) Busy Feet- to move quickly around the school to help students, caregivers, and teachers. Students will complete a My School Counselor Helps Me handout (copyrighted) where they will write and draw one way their school counselor can help them this school year. We will end our lesson with a fun game of "Hot Potato" where students will pass the ball in a circle and when the music stops they will share one thing they learned about Ms. Bailey.  

2: School Counselor Role Review: Ms. Bailey will review her role and the services provided through the KTES School Counseling Program (classroom lessons, small group counseling, and individual counseling). She explains how to reach out to her if support is needed with big feelings or problems (ask their teacher, ask their parent to call/email, or write a note and put in the school counselor mailbox). Students will play a School Counselor Bingo Review Game (copyrighted). Example of some Bingo Items include: runs small groups, teaches lessons, helps everyone, emotion regulation, helps resolve conflict, etc. 

3-5: School Counselor Role Review

ASCA Mindset: M 1. Belief in development of whole self, including a healthy balance of mental/ emotional and physical well-being.

ASCA Behaviors: B-SS 2. Positive relationships with adults that support success; B-SS 8. Advocacy skills for self and others and ability to assert self, when necessary. 

3: Mrs. Layne reviews her role and the services provided through the KTES School Counseling Program (classroom lessons, small group counseling, and individual counseling). She explains how to reach out to her if support is needed with big feelings or problems that are a distraction to learning (ask teacher or parent to email Mrs. Layne or students can put a note in her mailbox). Students answer True or False questions to explore the role of the school counselor. Students complete a Get to Know Me handout.

4: Mrs. Layne reviews her role and the services provided through the KTES School Counseling Program (classroom lessons, small group counseling, and individual counseling). She explains how to reach out to her if support is needed with big feelings or problems that are a distraction to learning (ask teacher or parent to email Mrs. Layne or students can put a note in her mailbox). Students complete a #IntroducingMe handout (copyrighted).

5: School Counselor Role Review: Mrs. Layne reviews her role and the services provided through the KTES School Counseling Program (classroom lessons, small group counseling, and individual counseling). She explains how to reach out to her if support is needed with big feelings or problems that are a distraction to learning (ask teacher or parent to email Mrs. Layne or students can put a note in her mailbox). Students complete a small group activity with laminated S'mores pieces (copyrighted) to indicate what a school counselor does and does not do as part of their job.

September

K-1:Emotion Identification & Communication

ASCA Mindset: M 1. Belief in development of whole self, including a healthy balance of mental, social/emotional and physical well-being.

ASCA Behaviors: B-SMS 1. Responsibility for self and actions.

K: Lesson 1: Ms. Bailey teaches emotion identification of the following feelings: happiness, sadness, love, anger, worry, confidence, and peaceful. To better help students understand how to identify their feelings, Ms. Bailey helps students become "feeling detectives." Feeling detectives know how to spot and name feelings. Students will use their feeling detective skills to spot and name the feelings on the "moody monitor" (pictures of kids displaying different feelings). Students will then complete My Scribble Spot worksheet (copyrighted) where they will create a spot of feeling that matches how they feel today and complete the following sentence: I feel ______________today. Videos used during the lesson: Scribble Spot Song and Scribble Academy. 

Lesson 2:  Ms. Bailey teaches emotion communication through helping students identify how they would feel in different sceaniors. For example: I feel ________when I cannot find something, I feel ______ when I draw, I feel _____when I learn something new, etc. Students will learn that they have different feelings than others in the same situation. For example, Johnny feels calm when he draws because he likes being creative and Skylar feels frustrated when she draws because she does not like that activity. Students will learn that when they have a big feeling they can communicate that feeling with others. This helps others know what they are feeling and how they can help! Students will practice modeling the I feel ____ when_____ strategy. Videos used in lesson: How Are You Feeling and I-message

1: Lesson 1:  Ms. Bailey teaches emotion identification of the following feelings: happiness, sadness, love, anger, worry, confidence, and peaceful. To better help students understand how to identify their feelings, Ms. Bailey helps students become "feeling detectives." Feeling detectives know how to spot and name feelings. Students will use their feeling detective skills to spot and name the feelings on the "moody monitor" (pictures of kids displaying different feelings). Students will then complete My Scribble Spot worksheet (copyrighted) where they will create a spot of feeling that matches how they feel today and complete the following sentence: I feel ______________today. Videos used during the lesson: Scribble Spot Song and Scribble Academy. 

Lesson 2:  Ms. Bailey teaches emotion communication through helping students identify how they would feel in different sceaniors. For example: I feel ________when I cannot find something, I feel ______ when I draw, I feel _____when I learn something new, etc. Students will learn that they have different feelings than others in the same situation. For example, Johnny feels calm when he draws because he likes being creative and Skylar feels frustrated when she draws because she does not like that activity. Students will learn that when they have a big feeling they can communicate that feeling with others. This helps others know what they are feeling and how they can help! Students will complete IFeelWhen Worksheet (copyrighted). Students will select a feeling, draw a picture of that spot of feeling, and complete the following sentence I feel ____ when ___.   Video used in lesson: How Are You Feeling. 

2: Self-Regulation Skills

ASCA Mindset: M 1. Belief in development of whole self, including a healthy balance of mental, social/ emotional and physical well-being.

ASCA Behaviors: B-SMS 6. Ability to identify and overcome barriers; B-SMS 7. Effective coping skills. 

2: Students will learn about big feelings and how coping skills can help. Ms. Bailey introduces 4 types of coping skills 1) Relaxation 2) Positive Self-Talk 3) Distraction 4) Problem Solving. Students will participate in "Four Corners" where Ms. Bailey will read a scenario and students will decide what they would do to help themselves feel better in the situation. Corner A: Relax My Body and Brain/Corner B: Use Positive Self-Talk/Corner C: Be a Problem Solver/Corner D: Distract Myself. For continued practice, students will partner up and play "Ask & Switch" where they will take turns sharing and listening to how students would cope in a given scenario. Example: How would you cope if... you were really sad because your best friend was not at school today. If time allows, students will complete their own coping skill scenario worksheet (copyrighted). On the worksheet, students circle a scenario, write a brief story, circle how the character would feel, and which coping skill they would use. 


3-5: Self Care & Coping Skills

ASCA Mindset: M 1. Belief in development of whole self, including a healthy balance of mental, social/ emotional and physical well-being.

ASCA Behaviors: B-SMS 6. Ability to identify and overcome barriers; B-SMS 7. Effective coping skills. 

3: Mrs. Layne teaches self care concepts including taking care of physical health, mental/emotional health, and social health. Coping tools to manage stress and other uncomfortable feelings are discussed including exercise/sports, talking with an adult that you trust, taking deep breaths, and doing an activity that you enjoy.  Students view and discuss a read aloud of The Good Egg by Jory Jon. Students identify coping tools that the Good Egg uses in the story. Students complete a Coping Tool Box handout. Students receive a copy of a Coping Tools Poster (copyrighted) on the flipside of their Coping Tool Box handout.

4: Mrs. Layne reviews self care concepts including taking care of physical health, mental/emotional health, and social health. Coping tools to manage stress and other uncomfortable feelings are discussed including exercise/sports, talking with an adult that you trust, taking deep breaths, and doing an activity that you enjoy. What happens in the brain when emotions become big and overwhelming as well as strategies to calm down when that happens are discussed. Students view and discuss this video: Why We Lose Control of Our Emotions. Students complete a Comic Strip handout.

5: Mrs. Layne reviews self care concepts including taking care of physical health, mental/emotional health, and social health. Coping tools to manage stress and other uncomfortable feelings are discussed including exercise/sports, talking with an adult that you trust, taking deep breaths, and doing an activity that you enjoy.  Students identify common stressors for 5th graders and discuss and practice nine strategies for coping with stress including organization, positive self talk, exercise, journal, connect with others, rest, listen to music, get artsy, and laugh. Students complete a Coping with Stress handout.

October

K-2 Problem Solving 

K: Lesson 1:Ms. Bailey teaches students how to be Problem Solving Detectives. Problem Solving Detectives know how to spot big problems and small problems.  Big problems are unsafe and can be dangerous. We need to ask an adult for help to solve them. Small problems are no big deal! They can make us feel a little sad, mad, or disappointed. Small problems happen all the time and I can solve them by myself! Ms. Bailey will read a story called Big Problems and Little Problems by Ben Feller. A story about how a father and son learn how to problem solve daily challenges that pop up in their day. Students will use their problem solving detective skills to spot big and small problems in provided scenarios. Examples include: a student cuts you in line, someone is playing to rough at recess, etc. 

Lesson 2:  Ms. Bailey reviews Big Problems and Small Problems and how to spot the size of the problem. Students will watch We'll Solve The Problem Ourselves Video. Ms. Bailey will explain 3 steps to solving Small Problems Independently: 1) Stop to think. 2) Think how to solve it. 3) Choose a safe and smart action. Students will practice their problem solving skills by answering the question "what should I do" in a series of problem examples. Some examples include: "Sunny was working when her pencil tip broke. She needs a pencil to finish her work: what should she do?" and "Ben isn't sure what he is supposed to be doing in class: what should he do?" After whole class practice, students will play a game called "What should they do." Ms. Bailey will read an example of a problem and the student who presses the buzzer the fastest will answer with a problem solving strategy! 

1: Lesson 1:Ms. Bailey teaches students how to be Problem Solving Detectives. Problem Solving Detectives know how to spot big problems and small problems.  Big problems are unsafe and can be dangerous. We need to ask an adult for help to solve them. Small problems are no big deal! They can make us feel a little sad, mad, or disappointed. Small problems happen all the time and I can solve them by myself! Ms. Bailey will read a story called Big Problems and Little Problems by Ben Feller. A story about how a father and son learn how to problem solve daily challenges that pop up in their day. Students will use their problem solving detective skills to spot big and small problems in provided scenarios. Examples include: a student cuts you in line, someone is playing to rough at recess, etc. 

Lesson 2: Ms. Bailey reviews Big Problems and Small Problems and how to spot the size of the problem. Students will watch We'll Solve The Problem Ourselves Video. Ms. Bailey will explain 3 steps to solving Small Problems Independently: 1) Stop to think. 2) Think how to solve it. 3) Choose a safe and smart action. Students will practice their problem solving skills by answering the question "what should I do" in a series of problem examples. Some examples include: "Sunny was working when her pencil tip broke. She needs a pencil to finish her work: what should she do?" and "Ben isn't sure what he is supposed to be doing in class: what should he do?" After whole class practice, students will play a game called "What should they do." Ms. Bailey will read an example of a problem and the student who presses the buzzer the fastest will answer with a problem solving strategy! 

2: Ms. Bailey teaches students how to be Problem Solving Detectives. Problem Solving Detectives know how to spot big problems and small problems. Big problems are unsafe and can be dangerous. We need to ask an adult for help to solve them. Small problems are no big deal! They can makes us feel a little sad, mad, or disappointed. Small problems happen all the time, and I can solve them all by myself! Ms. Bailey will explain the 3 steps to solving small problems independently: 1) Stop to think. 2) Think how to solve it. 3) Choose a safe and smart action. Students will practice their problem solving skills by answering the question "what should I do" in a series of problem solving examples. After whole class practice, students will play a game called "What should they do." Ms. Bailey will read an example of a problem and the student who presses the buzzer the fastest will answer with a problem solving strategy! 

3-5: Mindfulness

ASCA Mindset: M 1. Belief in development of whole self, including a healthy balance of mental, social/ emotional and physical well-being.

ASCA Behaviors: B-SMS 6. Ability to identify and overcome barriers; B-SMS 7. Effective coping skills.  

3: Mrs. Layne teaches about the brain using a hand model to represent where parts of the brain are located and what each part does ("PFC" prefrontal cortex (wise owl - thinking/problem solving), hippocampus (filing cabinet - stores memories), and amygdala (guard dog - senses danger/big feelings). Mrs. Layne explains the concept of fight, flight, or freeze and how mindfulness (paying attention, on purpose, to what is happening right now) can be a calming strategy that can help keep the PFC/logical thinking part of our brain active so we can make smart and safe choices. Students view and discuss a video clip Thought Bubbles. Students complete a Color by Coping Skill handout (copyrighted).

4: Mrs. Layne reviews self care concepts including taking care of physical health, mental/emotional health, and social health. Mrs. Layne explains how mindfulness (paying attention, on purpose, to what is happening right now) can be a calming strategy. The class practices a grounding strategy (using our senses to connect with the world around us - sight, sound, touch, smell, and taste) and practices mindfulness with a video clip Guided Mindfulness Practice. Students complete a "cup of peace" handout (copyrighted) to identify things that bring feelings of peace. 

5: Mrs. Layne reviews self care concepts including taking care of physical health, mental/emotional health, and social health. Mrs. Layne explains how mindfulness (paying attention, on purpose, to what is happening right now) can be a calming strategy. The class practices mindfulness with a video clip Everyday Mindfulness. Students complete either a Color by Coping Skill handout (copyrighted) or practice Mindfulness Break Breathing Activities via a Google Slideshow (Copyrighted). 

November

3-5: Appreciating Diversity

ASCA Mindset: M 2. Sense of acceptance, respect, support and inclusion for self and others in the school environment.

ASCA Behaviors: B-SS 2. Positive, respectful and supportive relationships with students who are similar to and different from them. B-SS 4. Empathy. 

3: Appreciating Diversity: Mrs. Layne explains that appreciating diversity means appreciating our differences and accepting, respecting, supporting, and including others who may be different than them. It also means accepting and respecting our unique selves. She discusses the importance of using kind words and actions, even when teachers and other grown ups are not nearby. Students read and discuss the book, The Circles All Around Us by Brad Montague. Students discuss "Why is it important to include those who are different from us in their circles?” and “What can we do each day to create little ripples of love and care for others?” Students complete a Circles All Around Us handout (copyrighted) to show how they can be caring in each of their circles (myself, immediate family, extended family, friends, and community).

4: Appreciating Diversity: Mrs. Layne explains that appreciating diversity means appreciating our differences and accepting, respecting, supporting, and including others who may be different from them. It also means accepting and respecting our unique selves. She discusses the importance of using kind words and actions, even when teachers and other grown ups are not nearby. Students read and discuss the book, The Circles All Around Us by Brad Montague. Students discuss "Why is it important to include those who are different from us in their circles?” and “What can we do each day to create little ripples of love and care for others?” Students complete a Circles All Around Us handout (copyrighted) to show how they can be caring in each of their circles (myself, immediate family, extended family, friends, and community).

5: Appreciating Diversity: Mrs. Layne explains that appreciating diversity means appreciating our differences and accepting, respecting, supporting, and including others who may be different than them. It also means accepting and respecting our unique selves. She discusses the importance of using kind words and actions, even when teachers and other grown ups are not nearby. Students read and discuss the book, The Circles All Around Us by Brad Montague. Students discuss "Why is it important to include those who are different from us in their circles?” and “What can we do each day to create little ripples of love and care for others?” Students complete a Circles All Around Us handout (copyrighted) to show how they can be caring in each of their circles (myself, immediate family, extended family, friends, and community). 

December

K-5: Personal Safety

ASCA Mindset: M 1. Belief in development of whole self, including a healthy balance of mental, social/emotional and physical well-being.

ASCA Behaviors: B-SMS 9. Personal safety skills; B-SS 8. Advocacy skills for self and others and ability to assert self, when necessary. 

K: Personal Safety: Ms. Bailey discuss the importance of keeping yourself safe, including what to do if someone should ever touch you in a way that is inappropriate or makes you feel uncomfortable. She reviews safe and unsafe touches, and reminds students that they can and should say "No" to unsafe touches. She explains the "Touching Rule" which is that no one should ever touch your private parts (parts covered by your bathing suit) unless they are helping you to stay healthy. She explains that if someone breaks the touching rule, that is considered to be an unsafe touch and that you should never keep that a secret-even if someone tells you to.  The only exception to the no touching/looking rule is a doctor trying to keep us healthy and parents helping us stay healthy and clean. Students listen to My Body Belongs To Me. Students then learn and sing a safety song to help students remember what to do if someone was to break the no touching rule.: " My body is my body and it belongs to me. No one can touch it no one but me. If they try, I'm gonna yell STOP! And run and run as fast as I can and tell and tell again and AGAIN!"  If time allows, students will listen and sing along to the song: It's a Boundary. 

1: Personal Safety: Ms. Bailey discuss the importance of keeping yourself safe, including what to do if someone should ever touch you in a way that is inappropriate or makes you feel uncomfortable. She reviews safe and unsafe touches, and reminds students that they can and should say "No" to unsafe touches. She explains the "Touching Rule" which is that no one should ever touch your private parts (parts covered by your bathing suit) unless they are helping you to stay healthy. She explains that if someone breaks the touching rule, that is considered to be an unsafe touch and that you should never keep that a secret-even if someone tells you to.  The only exception to the no touching/looking rule is a doctor trying to keep us healthy and parents helping us stay healthy and clean.  Students listen to My Body Belongs To Me. Students then learn and sing a safety song to help students remember what to do if someone was to break the no touching rule.: "My body is my body and it belongs to me. No one can touch it no one but me. If they try, I'm gonna yell STOP! And run and run as fast as I can and tell and tell again and AGAIN!"  If time allows, students will listen and sing along to the song: It's a Boundary. 

2: Personal Safety:  Ms. Bailey discuss the importance of keeping yourself safe, including what to do if someone should ever touch you in a way that is inappropriate or makes you feel uncomfortable. She reviews safe and unsafe touches, and reminds students that they can and should say "No" to unsafe touches. She explains the "Touching Rule" which is that no one should ever touch your private parts (parts covered by your bathing suit) unless they are helping you to stay healthy. She explains that if someone breaks the touching rule, that is considered to be an unsafe touch and that you should never keep that a secret-even if someone tells you to.  The only exception to the no touching/looking rule is a doctor trying to keep us healthy and parents helping us stay healthy and clean. Students read and discuss From My Head To My Toes I Say What Goes. Students then learn and sing a safety song to help students remember what to do if someone was to break the no touching rule.: "My body is my body and it belongs to me. No one can touch it no one but me. If they try, I'm gonna yell STOP! And run and run as fast as I can and tell and tell again and AGAIN!"  If time allows, students will listen and sing along to the song: It's a Boundary. 

3: Personal Safety: Mrs. Layne discusses the importance of keeping yourself safe, including what to do if someone should ever touch you in a way that is inappropriate or makes you feel uncomfortable. She reviews safe and unsafe touches, and friends students that they can and should say "No” to unsafe touches. She explains the “Touching Rule” which is that no one should ever touch your private parts (parts covered by your bathing suit) unless they are helping you to stay healthy. She explains that if someone breaks the touching rule, that is considered to be an unsafe touch and that you should never keep that a secret – even if someone tells you to. Students read and discuss the book Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept by Janeen Sanders. This story helps students recognize the differences between safe secrets and unsafe secrets and what they  can do if someone ever asks them to keep an unsafe secret. Students then read and discuss Sticky Situations (copyrighted) as a whole class activity and identify if the choice or decision made in the situation is safe or unsafe. Sticky situations which are situations that can be a little bit dangerous or unsafe, but where it’s not super clear or obvious what to do. Students complete a Trusted Adult Handout (copyrighted) to identify four adults then can talk to if they find themselves in a sticky situation. Students listen and sing along to the song It’s a Boundary

4: Personal Safety: Mrs. Layne discusses the importance of keeping yourself safe, including what to do if someone should ever touch you in a way that is inappropriate or makes you feel uncomfortable. She reviews safe and unsafe touches, and friends students that they can and should say "No” to unsafe touches. She explains the “Touching Rule” which is that no one should ever touch your private parts (parts covered by your bathing suit) unless they are helping you to stay healthy. She explains that if someone breaks the touching rule, that is considered to be an unsafe touch and that you should never keep that a secret – even if someone tells you to. Students read and discuss the book Not in Room 204 by Shannon Riggs. This story helps students recognize the differences between safe secrets and unsafe secrets and what they  can do if someone ever asks them to keep an unsafe secret. Mrs. Layne reviews the concept of sticky situations which are situations that can be a little bit dangerous or unsafe, but where it’s not super clear or obvious what to do. Students complete a Trusted Adult Handout (copyrighted) to identify four adults then can talk to if they find themselves in a sticky situation. Students listen and sing along to the song It’s a Boundary

5: Personal Safety: Mrs. Layne discusses the importance of keeping yourself safe, including what to do if someone should ever touch you in a way that is inappropriate or makes you feel uncomfortable. She reviews safe and unsafe touches, and friends students that they can and should say "No” to unsafe touches. She explains the “Touching Rule” which is that no one should ever touch your private parts (parts covered by your bathing suit) unless they are helping you to stay healthy. She explains that if someone breaks the touching rule, that is considered to be an unsafe touch and that you should never keep that a secret – even if someone tells you to. Students read and discuss the book The Kid Trapper by Julia Cook. This story helped students learn to identify tricks that a person might use to keep a kid from telling an unsafe secret. These tricks are referred to as “grooming”. Students learn how to recognize these tricks, trust their “gut” feeling, and to get help by telling a trusted adult. Students then read and discuss Sticky Situations (copyrighted) as a whole class activity and identify if the choice or decision made in the situation is safe or unsafe. Students complete a Trusted Adult Handout (copyrighted) to identify four adults then can talk to if they find themselves in a sticky situation. Students listen and sing along to the song It’s a Boundary

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