All Topics are Inspired by The Distance Learning Playbook for Parents (Wiseman, Fisher, Frey, Hattie 2021)
In a blended learning program, your role as a learning coach is essential in fostering your child’s success. Here are three key principles that can strengthen your partnership with your child and their school:
The opposite of speaking isn’t waiting to speak again—it’s listening. Your child needs you to hear their words and observe their emotions.
Why Listening Matters: It helps you identify what they understand, where they need support, and how they view the world.
How to Listen Effectively:
Ask open-ended questions.
Reflect on what they say to show you understand.
Encourage them to share their thoughts freely.
Trust is the foundation of growth. When children feel secure, they’re more willing to take risks and learn from mistakes.
Key Elements of Trust:
Honesty: Share age-appropriate truths.
Reliability: Be consistent in your support.
Openness: Show respect for their ideas and their teachers.
Modeling Trust in School Relationships: When children see that you trust their teachers, they are more
likely to trust the learning process and their role in it.
Gradually transferring responsibility empowers your child to take ownership of their learning.
What This Means: Start by guiding them closely, then slowly step back as they gain confidence.
When to Adjust Responsibility:
Increase it when they show readiness and success.
Take it back temporarily if they need more guidance.
Effective Feedback: A Key to Growth
Praise your child’s efforts and actions, not just their abilities. Constructive feedback helps them know what to start, stop, or continue doing.
Task-focused: "You did a great job cleaning the dishes—everything is spotless!"
Self-regulation: "I noticed you were in a hurry and missed a spot—take your time."
Process-oriented: "Remember, the job isn’t finished until everything is put away."
Encourage Challenge: Emphasize effort over talent to build resilience and a willingness to tackle new challenges.
Mistakes are opportunities for learning. Share your own experiences with mistakes and how you’ve overcome them. This normalizes errors and helps your child develop a growth mindset.