What does that look like?
Speaking passionately about the subject.
Being prepared for the discussion.
Not being on your phone.
Making eye contact with everyone.
Having body language that shows you are open (looking at the group, sitting upright)
Staying on topic.
Looking at the speaker when they are talking.
Really thinking about what the speaker is saying. (not just thinking about what you want to say)
Not having side conversations with others in the group.
What does that look like?
Sharing opinions and thoughts and support with your reasons.
Moving on to different ideas after a while instead of repeating the same idea over and over again
Adding on to the ideas of others
Ask questions that add to the discussion rather than repeating what has been said.
Being willing to question others respectfully
Offering different opinions
Asking questions for clarification
What does that look like?
Ask listeners what they think and involving everyone in the discussion.
Not ignoring other perspectives even if they are different than your own
Being inclusive and making an effort not to offend or be hurtful
Being respectful of everyone’s opinion.
Being open to criticism or opinions that are different than your own.
Not raising your voice or arguing, instead talking kindly and calmly.
Using the information you gather to challenge your own views
Not focusing on convincing others or being right.
What does this look like?
Being articulate
Speaking loud enough to be heard
Speaking with confidence.
Not reading off a paper or screen.
Taking risks and be confident in your stance
What does that look like?
Allowing others the opportunity to speak and knowing when to stop talking.
Not cutting other people off while they are speaking.
Being concise in what you say.
Read these two excerpts:
“
You shall no longer take things at second or third hand, nor look through the eyes of the dead, nor feed on the spectres in books,
You shall not look through my eyes either, nor take things from me,
You shall listen to all sides and filter them from your self… Not I, not any one else can travel that road for you,
You must travel it for yourself.
It is not far, it is within reach,
Perhaps you have been on it since you were born and did not know…
— Walt Whitman: From Song of Myself (1855)
“
The man bent over his guitar,
A shearsman of sorts. The day was green. They said, “You have a blue guitar,
You do not play things as they are.”
The man replied, “Things as they are
Are changed upon the blue guitar.”
And they said then, “But play, you must,
A tune beyond us, yet ourselves,
A tune upon the blue guitar
Of things exactly as they are.”
— First stanza of The Man with a Blue Guitar by Wallace Stevens (1937)
1. What do you think are some of the TOK-relevant ideas conveyed in these extracts?
2. In particular what is Stevens saying about the human encounter with "things exactly as they are"? To what degree is this a trivial or important feature of the knowing quest?
(From TOKResource.org)